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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

This may or may not fly and cut and paste is more than welcome.

J and I (P) have both playsed as singles and we have a reasonable grasp of the problems both sexes face and we wonder if the other sex really gets the issues for the other side?

So instead of advice scattered across multiple threads might it work to condense them into one.

So to kick off... SM inviting women to his home?

SM with no pics.

SM at a club?

SM at a social.

Over to you ladies. They really want to please (or should!)

Oh yes and guys? Remember the phrase ladies first? Ponder that one. Please.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else."

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes? "

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist."

not crush hunt and release because even though my username might say one thing I am not really an enemy of superman

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist.

not crush hunt and release because even though my username might say one thing I am not really an enemy of superman "

You may be surprised how much a username can sway someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist.

not crush hunt and release because even though my username might say one thing I am not really an enemy of superman "

You charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist."

Shame .... Being vegetarian it's so weird that this fetish is strangely horny .....

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else."

Amazing! Actually tried this one day and it worked! With rejections too!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist.

not crush hunt and release because even though my username might say one thing I am not really an enemy of superman

You charmer! "

Not according to superman (oops)

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Know what you want. (i.e, don't just want whatever the woman you're chatting to wants). And if someone says they're not interested in what you want, then try someone else.

So if I want to hunt insects with you I get a pass yes?

Although my name suggests it might be an interest, alas I'm not a crush fetishist.

Shame .... Being vegetarian it's so weird that this fetish is strangely horny ..... "

If you huys find that horny then thats a big deal judging by your profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may or may not fly and cut and paste is more than welcome.

J and I (P) have both playsed as singles and we have a reasonable grasp of the problems both sexes face and we wonder if the other sex really gets the issues for the other side?

So instead of advice scattered across multiple threads might it work to condense them into one.

So to kick off... SM inviting women to his home?

SM with no pics.

SM at a club?

SM at a social.

Over to you ladies. They really want to please (or should!)

Oh yes and guys? Remember the phrase ladies first? Ponder that one. Please.

L2"

I've really REALLY tried to understand this?

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

What is throwing you off? SM is single male?

Or ladies first? Their pleasure before yours?

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for advice or giving it here?

The only piece of advice you seem to have given is the cheesey one about "ladies Cumming first".

But from other threads there's been lots of posts by women where they find this "I must make the woman cum, or gush etc first" uncomfortable.

Also it does seem a bit sexist that men should basically be performing seals to be slowed to date to touch a woman.

Mutual pleasure is probably a more sensible approach.

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Not asking really nor giving just suggesting one thread to rope in the advice for single guys. Cheesy? Disagree.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not asking really nor giving just suggesting one thread to rope in the advice for single guys. Cheesy? Disagree.

L2"

Well the post limit will prevent one mega thread being useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the biggest advice for everyone lol.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Not asking really nor giving just suggesting one thread to rope in the advice for single guys. Cheesy? Disagree.

L2"

Some sites have threads, sometimes called sticky threads, that are permanently on display, and it would be so useful to have one like that here perpetually on display showing advice to new single guys

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Patience is the biggest advice for everyone lol."

its something that everyone should naturally have, but is 1 of the worst things to keep saying to people on here unless explained properly, as taken as just sit there, wait, do nothing, then they will be sitting forever, waiting, however using the site, and all advice and options available to you but with the understanding that it may take quite some time and effort to achieve what you are after is a good example of being patient, but as I said this should come naturally, but it evades some of us.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think this " the woman must cum first" is a complete load of bollocks.

It's about mutual fun ( well for me)

Go with the flow, does it matter who does what to who, when and for how long.

Why shouldn't a guy cum first?

If your getting selfish lovers who are all about themselves then you need to look at what your doing to attract these people.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"This may or may not fly and cut and paste is more than welcome.

J and I (P) have both playsed as singles and we have a reasonable grasp of the problems both sexes face and we wonder if the other sex really gets the issues for the other side?

So instead of advice scattered across multiple threads might it work to condense them into one.

So to kick off... SM inviting women to his home?

SM with no pics.

SM at a club?

SM at a social.

Over to you ladies. They really want to please (or should!)

Oh yes and guys? Remember the phrase ladies first? Ponder that one. Please.

L2

I've really REALLY tried to understand this? "

Yeh.. 4 times I've read this and I'm just not getting it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some pics.

Behave like a gentleman in a club.

Don't grope at a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tidy up before the woman comes to yours.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Tidy up before the woman comes to yours."

You mean the pheromones from the unwashed clothes don't help?

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