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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

am i doing wrong? ive been on here a few months now and some good chats with some wonderful people, yet still struggling to get that 1st meet. all help will be greatfuly received thanks guys x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

try getting yourself along to some of the socials organised, a great way to meet people with no pressure.

or a club.

and post more, chat more and getting yourself known.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe due to lack of pics - lots of people wont consider you while browsing if have to ask for pics.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Is your glass always half empty too?

Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.

You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males "

a club then

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males

a club then "

They wll probably only let in 28 year old single males and not a 27 year old one!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males

a club then

They wll probably only let in 28 year old single males and not a 27 year old one! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males "

As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" - it feels so contrived and wooden. It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re profile wouldn’t look out of place on match.com

You’ll probably have more luck on P.O.F than on here

But hey, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" ...... It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world."

I completely agree, brightbabe, I'm in the chat room to have a laugh and a banter with everyone, and I don't want to have 1 on 1 chats with a single male, unless he has chatted for some time. I use the chatroom as a space for socialising, and I like to see how the men I am interested in interact with others, as well as with me. I'm afraid that those who go for the 'three compliments and she'll drop her knickers' approach get nowhere with me (and some of 'em don't even bother with the three compliments LOL)

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds


"im always in the chat rooms, yet they always seem hectic and its quite hard to chat to the 1 person, and the socials i always end up on a waiting list as there are always a large number of single males

As a single woman, I know this sounds strange, but I hate it when a single guy in chat comes out with "Hi do you want to chat" - it feels so contrived and wooden. It's better when someone is just joining in the banter, taking part in what's happening in the room and a conversation develops naturally like it would in the real world."

this

worked fro me on another site, just joined in the chat rooms, went to a few socials, ended up with a good few playy meets

aint been in chat much on this site yet, am working all hours, but will be soon

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Is your glass always half empty too?

Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.

You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social. "

..... and get Fabs 'Speedy Social', which lets you jump the queue ..

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Is your glass always half empty too?

Not meant as a big critisism but you were given some good advice but just came back with negative comments on why that advice wouldn't work.

You will only get something out of here if you actually want to put in a wee bit of effort and try harder rather than just give up if chat is "hectic" and also get in earlier for putting your name down for a social.

..... and get Fabs 'Speedy Social', which lets you jump the queue .."

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's definitely the shirt!

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