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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing to report

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

Just click on profile and box on LHS gives you option to report user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

I would go to the " sun" newspaper they love stuff like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it for what ?

They haven't done anything wrong !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly have they done that is abusive or wrong? You obviously weren't for them so they blocked to prevent further contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

Why report it? They probably just saw the pic and decided you weren't right for you. There is no reason to see to report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to ask what your wanting to report them for ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They went interested so you want to report them?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Why would you report? Did they send you an abusive message before blocking? If not, I don't see that they did anything against the rules.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You want to report someone for blocking you

This site would bring the whole of the world wide web down if everyone who blocked someone got reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the drama. All of a sudden, nothing happened!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you report? Did they send you an abusive message before blocking? If not, I don't see that they did anything against the rules."
ligeua mmmmm blue legs are you cold xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Prime example of a mis used word. Abusive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To answer all of you. We believe they are picture collectors as they only wanted face pics , we have plenty of other pics on public , if not for them why send an unsolicited friends request ? And yes there was a one liner mail that wasn't too friendly followed by the block.

Found ourselves apologising for not replying promptly to their mails

We are verified by meets unlike their web cam verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes a not too friendly mail was sent prior to the block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you report? Did they send you an abusive message before blocking? If not, I don't see that they did anything against the rules."

Yes abusive msg was sent prior to the block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a not too friendly mail was sent prior to the block "

You can still report the profile even if you're blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer all of you. We believe they are picture collectors as they only wanted face pics , we have plenty of other pics on public , if not for them why send an unsolicited friends request ? And yes there was a one liner mail that wasn't too friendly followed by the block.

Found ourselves apologising for not replying promptly to their mails

We are verified by meets unlike their web cam verifications "

I like to see face pics too, to know who I'm chatting too, if I don't like the look of them I may end up blocking them. Does this make me an abusive picture collector only too

And a veri to me only confirms you are real, whether that be meet or Web Cam.

I get unsolicited frienda requests every day, just don't accept them, thats all.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"To answer all of you. We believe they are picture collectors as they only wanted face pics , we have plenty of other pics on public , if not for them why send an unsolicited friends request ? And yes there was a one liner mail that wasn't too friendly followed by the block.

Found ourselves apologising for not replying promptly to their mails

We are verified by meets unlike their web cam verifications "

what makes you think they are picture collectors rather than seeing your faces and not being attracted to you. What do you think they are going to do with your face pictures?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They went interested so you want to report them?

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We have plenty pictures on public view. Why send a friends request and ask for face pics when they have none of their own ? Feel they have something to hide and therefor shouldn't be asking for pictures then blocking directly after pics were sent

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"They went interested so you want to report them?

We have plenty pictures on public view. Why send a friends request and ask for face pics when they have none of their own ? Feel they have something to hide and therefor shouldn't be asking for pictures then blocking directly after pics were sent "

The far simpler explanation is that they didn't like your face pics and wanted to end all communication at that point by blocking you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow !! Wasn't expecting to get so slated and shot down when we were only asking for advice

Thanks anyway guys for taking the time to reply , seems like we have a lot to learn about this site and swinging in general

Cheers

T an T x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes a not too friendly mail was sent prior to the block

You can still report the profile even if you're blocked."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a nasty message is sent then you can report but while we wouldn't send a friends request without talking we would ask for face photos first off. And if not for us would most likely say thanks but not for us and block x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

How does that equate to abusive?

There is nothig to report them for

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"They went interested so you want to report them?

We have plenty pictures on public view. Why send a friends request and ask for face pics when they have none of their own ? Feel they have something to hide and therefor shouldn't be asking for pictures then blocking directly after pics were sent "

but you chose to send the pictures they didn't force you to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,?

How does that equate to abusive?

The abusive if you don't want to chat msg that was sent prior to being blocked. Don't believe their profile is true representation of the user and had something to hide , also believe they were just picture collectors who have no place on this site

There is nothig to report them for"

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

Perhaps you should have viewed their profile before you sent face pictures? I mean why would you send pictures to someone you've never interacted with before?

I don't understand why you want to report them?

People use the block tool so that they don't contact that profile again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,? "

You can click on the report button on their last message.

When you first start out swinging its easy to worry that people have an ulterior motive and sadly sometimes they do, but I think in this case you don't need to worry you clicked delete the picture and they have blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,?

You can click on the report button on their last message.

When you first start out swinging its easy to worry that people have an ulterior motive and sadly sometimes they do, but I think in this case you don't need to worry you clicked delete the picture and they have blocked you.

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Guess we must just be fugly , haha , we're not vain and know we will not be everyone's cup of tea but a thanks for the pics but no thanks woulda been preferable to blocked

Anyway thanks for taking the time to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again thanks for taking the time to reply , every day's a school day we guess

Be good an stay safe folks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys we recently received a friends invite from a couple we've never spoken to that followed by a one liner how are you mail followed by can we see face pics mail , against better judgement sent a couple face pics but thankfully clicked remove after viewing , we were then blocked by the couple

How do we report this ,?

You can click on the report button on their last message.

When you first start out swinging its easy to worry that people have an ulterior motive and sadly sometimes they do, but I think in this case you don't need to worry you clicked delete the picture and they have blocked you.

Guess we must just be fugly , haha , we're not vain and know we will not be everyone's cup of tea but a thanks for the pics but no thanks woulda been preferable to blocked

Anyway thanks for taking the time to reply "

Don't do yourself down. You won't always get a thanks but no thanks better get used to it the normal rules don't apply here and it really is best to grow a thick skin .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you guys have read the OPs post.

They were blocked, by somebody they have never met... without question that couple should be brought before the Kangaroo Court, with Capital Punishment being the likely outcome.

To the OP, how are the counseling sessions going??

I feel your pain...

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I don't think you guys have read the OPs post.

They were blocked, by somebody they have never met... without question that couple should be brought before the Kangaroo Court, with Capital Punishment being the likely outcome.

To the OP, how are the counseling sessions going??

I feel your pain... "

hilarious, mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think you guys have read the OPs post.

They were blocked, by somebody they have never met... without question that couple should be brought before the Kangaroo Court, with Capital Punishment being the likely outcome.

To the OP, how are the counseling sessions going??

I feel your pain... "

Yes we read the ops post. I just think we were all new to this once, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...I hope they filed a compo claim as well because that's just bang out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it for what it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you guys have read the OPs post.

They were blocked, by somebody they have never met... without question that couple should be brought before the Kangaroo Court, with Capital Punishment being the likely outcome.

To the OP, how are the counseling sessions going??

I feel your pain...

Yes we read the ops post. I just think we were all new to this once, that's all."

I know.... and so does everyone else reading it, but thanks for clearing that up, it's helpful, as sometimes people "miss the point"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon a lot of guys on here will be interested in how the court case pans out

Let us know how it goes please OP? Maybe give Sol a call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP's next step should be to start a thread requesting Legal Advice, so the 30 or so, can reply with useful suggestions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harsh words and much piss taking.

The op was only asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Harsh words and much piss taking.

The op was only asking. "

Charming...at least we all replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm charming? Not as much as some of the replies. It doesn't encourage us newbies to post much

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

We can leave it there now

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