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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can a marriage survive FAB?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a ridiculous question on a swinging site!!

A marriage can survive fab more than it can normally.

I find fabs great as it makes us be 100% open with each other, we don't have temptations that could spoil our marriage as we indulge in them together

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

what do you feel is the answer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

what do you feel is the answer?"

I'm starting to think it has to be no. To be honest

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yep , we were strong as a couple before fab . Did not need this to either safe it or mend it . We just like to explore are fantasies together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course as long as both partners are 100% happy with everything.

Love, full trust & no jealousy helps a lot when swinging as a couple.

We have been on the scene for years but make sure we both arrange meets once we have agreed together & we do not meet alone.

Works for us but if either decided they wanted to stop we would both leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm pretty sure that lots of people are married but also enjoy swinging and it doesn't stop their marriage being successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just had our 7th anaversary and have been going to clubs and using fab for 5 years stronger than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so

Seriously though, OP, would you expect couples to say no? Even the people who may one day divorce probably won't say no now, while they are still on fab and things are good.

On a related note, my divorce papers will be filed tomorrow. Nobody tell Marc

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so

Seriously though, OP, would you expect couples to say no? Even the people who may one day divorce probably won't say no now, while they are still on fab and things are good.

On a related note, my divorce papers will be filed tomorrow. Nobody tell Marc

-Courtney"

What are your grounds Courtney?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so

Seriously though, OP, would you expect couples to say no? Even the people who may one day divorce probably won't say no now, while they are still on fab and things are good.

On a related note, my divorce papers will be filed tomorrow. Nobody tell Marc

-Courtney

What are your grounds Courtney?!!"

I have to have grounds?

The fact that he might not exist is a good start

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so

Seriously though, OP, would you expect couples to say no? Even the people who may one day divorce probably won't say no now, while they are still on fab and things are good.

On a related note, my divorce papers will be filed tomorrow. Nobody tell Marc

-Courtney

What are your grounds Courtney?!!

I have to have grounds?

The fact that he might not exist is a good start

-Courtney"

You could have it annulled then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its made our bond even stronger than ever before.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

what do you feel is the answer?

I'm starting to think it has to be no. To be honest"

Oh dear. That might be true for you but doesn't mean it's so for all fab marriages.

Hope it works out for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so

Seriously though, OP, would you expect couples to say no? Even the people who may one day divorce probably won't say no now, while they are still on fab and things are good.

On a related note, my divorce papers will be filed tomorrow. Nobody tell Marc

-Courtney

What are your grounds Courtney?!!

I have to have grounds?

The fact that he might not exist is a good start

-Courtney

You could have it annulled then!!"

I think you've got an idea there. Can you be my witness?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A marriage can survive anything. All you need is to be honest and communicate. You do those two things and anything can be worked out. Oh and commitment. These three things......oh and love.

Right 4 things a marriage needs honesty, commitment, love and communication. You've got those and you can survive anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely.

Oh and having a wife as hot as Jane helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

what do you feel is the answer?

I'm starting to think it has to be no. To be honest"

One of the few things I've learnt in life is that every relationship fails from what one fails to address...

Swinging, singing or swimming, can all doom a relationship if there's underlying issues that need communication or resolve

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Yes, I'm pretty sure that lots of people are married but also enjoy swinging and it doesn't stop their marriage being successful."

It stops some from thinking of ever getting married though

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

My wife and I have been non-monogamous for over 12 years. We love each other and have a great marriage. We are both on Fab, I hope this doesn't magically kill our marriage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely.

Oh and having a wife as hot as Jane helps too

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I didn't know we were married....am I a bigamist now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely.

Oh and having a wife as hot as Jane helps too

I didn't know we were married....am I a bigamist now?

Polygamy is the new way of putting it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where there's a will, there's always a way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Not if the wife finds out you been playing away.

If a couple goes into it together, and you never force anything on one another then Yes, its worked for us and we believe our relationship is stronger for it.

If you are hitting a sticky patch and think it will relight your marriage then we would say no it won't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed"

Oh gawd! Have you been sent to Coventry? Don't lose hope you can get back on track.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed

Oh gawd! Have you been sent to Coventry? Don't lose hope you can get back on track."

Bloody he'll I hope not

My ex wife lives there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not if the wife finds out you been playing away.

If a couple goes into it together, and you never force anything on one another then Yes, its worked for us and we believe our relationship is stronger for it.

If you are hitting a sticky patch and think it will relight your marriage then we would say no it won't."

We have separate profiles

She been on longer than me

Just never seems to be off the phone

She knows I have worries but her answer to them are

Oh shut up will you your being silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

Yes

I met my fella (who is now my hubby) while we were both swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed

Oh gawd! Have you been sent to Coventry? Don't lose hope you can get back on track.

Bloody he'll I hope not

My ex wife lives there lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I meet my wife in chat-avenue

But never used to worry

Til now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed

Oh gawd! Have you been sent to Coventry? Don't lose hope you can get back on track.

Bloody he'll I hope not

My ex wife lives there lol"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not if the wife finds out you been playing away.

If a couple goes into it together, and you never force anything on one another then Yes, its worked for us and we believe our relationship is stronger for it.

If you are hitting a sticky patch and think it will relight your marriage then we would say no it won't.

We have separate profiles

She been on longer than me

Just never seems to be off the phone

She knows I have worries but her answer to them are

Oh shut up will you your being silly"

I think the details are something to be kept between the two of you and I can only advise you to talk to each other if you can. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes of course as long as both partners are 100% happy with everything.

Love, full trust & no jealousy helps a lot when swinging as a couple.

We have been on the scene for years but make sure we both arrange meets once we have agreed together & we do not meet alone.

Works for us but if either decided they wanted to stop we would both leave the site."

Ditto to this

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If anything FAB has made our marriage stronger then ever!

We now communicate a lot more and have never spoke so openly about our sexual fantasies.

Our marriage was never on the rocks before we joined but it opened a door for us and we know enjoy fulfilling our fantasies with each other

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging.. Is for couples.

Marriage.. Is the coming together of two souls. Kindred spirits. Friends. Companionship.

Work has to be done on a daily basis its a partnership.

Swinging from one to another does that enhance a marriage?

Oh it means you can fuck anyone and you both agree. Thought marriage was between two people not shagging next on legs.

Oh right.. Hey vicar am having a marriage between the swinging world.. So my legs are open to any cock.. What a fucking life...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed"

Does your wife not know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging in a marriage on a mutual agreement of next on legs.. Quick I want a fab marriage lol

Marriage should not affect your relationship unless you cheat.

Keep working at your swinging marriages.. Happy swinging.. Next lol

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"If anything FAB has made our marriage stronger then ever!

We now communicate a lot more and have never spoke so openly about our sexual fantasies.

Our marriage was never on the rocks before we joined but it opened a door for us and we know enjoy fulfilling our fantasies with each other

Lou"
this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some food for thought thanks guys

Seems the underlying thing is communication

Damn!!!!!!!!

I'm doomed

Does your wife not know?"

How I feel?

No but she not a great talker

Well with me lol

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Swinging in a marriage on a mutual agreement of next on legs.. Quick I want a fab marriage lol

Marriage should not affect your relationship unless you cheat.

Keep working at your swinging marriages.. Happy swinging.. Next lol "

Don't understand if you think swinging as a married couple is a bad or good thing?

Not sure if I get your sarcasm....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No sarcasm.........

Bottom line is......

Feels like she wants to be with me but.......

Not in the biblical way

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"No sarcasm.........

Bottom line is......

Feels like she wants to be with me but.......

Not in the biblical way"

Sorry that quote wasn't intended for you.

My opinion would be to listen to your gut instincts and by the sounds of it the feeling isn't good as your having these doubts.

Hope all ends well for you

Lou

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......"

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By *ngel_screwballCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

To be frank if you are a swinging couple we do not understand why have single profiles, swinging to us Is mutual fun. Been doing it for 15years on and off, dipping in and out when we want fun. Not all couples can cope emotionally but it is about perspective, but that's just our opinion and it works for us.

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"To be frank if you are a swinging couple we do not understand why have single profiles, swinging to us Is mutual fun. Been doing it for 15years on and off, dipping in and out when we want fun. Not all couples can cope emotionally but it is about perspective, but that's just our opinion and it works for us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A marriage can survive anything. All you need is to be honest and communicate. You do those two things and anything can be worked out. Oh and commitment. These three things......oh and love.

Right 4 things a marriage needs honesty, commitment, love and communication. You've got those and you can survive anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met loads of happily married couples in clubs. If you're both honest, open and respect each other then yes. I'd love to meet a woman to go to clubs with and have a relationship/marriage with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab marriage anyone lol

Weird veri.. Weird profile.. Weird question..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab marriage anyone lol

Weird veri.. Weird profile.. Weird question..

How so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife doesn't like me involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No sarcasm.........

Bottom line is......

Feels like she wants to be with me but.......

Not in the biblical way

Sorry that quote wasn't intended for you.

My opinion would be to listen to your gut instincts and by the sounds of it the feeling isn't good as your having these doubts.

Hope all ends well for you

Lou

Thanks for that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab marriage anyone lol

Weird veri.. Weird profile.. Weird question..

Totally agree. What is your point? samantha66123 meets you for a coffee after a long break?.

We don't need Fab for our marriage to survive or fail. Nearly 15yrs and still going strong if anything we are now stronger since joining this lifestyle.

No secerts always upfront and honest. And the sex is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......"

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

Yes

We have been together nearly 16 years and married for 11.

If anything our marriage is better and stronger.

We have always been open and honest with each other. Swinging allows us to explore our fantasies together.

I think the "together" bit,

along with communication is the key. For us anyway.

You both need to sit down and talk.... And hope your wife doesn't read the forums.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol"

You seem unsure if you are married or not having read your other responses.

I'm confused

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol"

So you got married after the 25th of october 2015?...now I am confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol

So you got married after the 25th of october 2015?...now I am confused"

No no no

I drop her in town and park car. We do our own stuff and bump into each other....

It's role-playing stuff

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By *aymackCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol

So you got married after the 25th of october 2015?...now I am confused

No no no

I drop her in town and park car. We do our own stuff and bump into each other....

It's role-playing stuff"

So this is a role play question for the forum to see what response you get?

is she reading it too seeing as you're both online?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......

It was a date day when we not married just old friends who meet

Date nights are yesterday

Date days are fun lol

So you got married after the 25th of october 2015?...now I am confused

No no no

I drop her in town and park car. We do our own stuff and bump into each other....

It's role-playing stuff

So this is a role play question for the forum to see what response you get?

is she reading it too seeing as you're both online?

No its a genuine concern that answer was some could c y her vari's say met up after a long time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She on a meet so I don't know if she on line

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By *ngel_screwballCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

So basically you are annoyed that you plat separately and she gets action and you don't, answer seems simple play together or not at all and if does not work then call it a day, she seems to need more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird as feck.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

If somethings going to implode, it's gonna implode...

If it's solid, it's solid...

Outside influences won't change that.

I don't hmthink it's ever extra marital sex that kills a relationship, that's just the symptom.

I think it's wanderlust. You can't help but think about all the things you might of done on your own, then one day you just say "fuck it, I'm going it alone".

How that manifests exactly is different for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So basically you are annoyed that you plat separately and she gets action and you don't, answer seems simple play together or not at all and if does not work then call it a day, she seems to need more."

No that's not it!!!!!!

Just I think being on fab should not subtract only add

So as a subtract is here I asked the question

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Weird as feck.

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By *penCoupleSWCouple
over a year ago

Willington

Absolutely. We're in our 31st year of marriage and our 2nd year on fab. Loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some come on fab thinking it will fix a broken marriage it won't. If the marriage is strong it will survive and hopefully thrive on the fab input. If it isn't it will crumble. Which is inevitable anyway.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

What a silly question.

Many, possibly most, of the couples on here are happily married and have been for years.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a marriage that's going to fail will find a way to fail the reason for the divorce is almost arbitrary strong relationships will last anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the notion that most couples are happily married or together on here. Talking is the key, I love my partner to bits and he does me, and neither of us would dream of playing seperatley. Been together 21 years, most gave us 6 months, lol. We can explore our fantasies together, as it should be. Finally we are to be married in March, and so much like us, doing the honeymoon first, in January with a month in India! To say we are happy is an understatement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure works for us

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes , dont tell the wife your on here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging should be an enhancement to married life. If it becomes more than that, then possibly it could cause problems.

The same way one partner 'only doing it for the other' would. If both parties talk openly and continue to do so, I see no reason why it should affect a marriage.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"What a ridiculous question on a swinging site!!

A marriage can survive fab more than it can normally.

I find fabs great as it makes us be 100% open with each other, we don't have temptations that could spoil our marriage as we indulge in them together

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course so long as you realise that this is just a game, a fantasy and your marriage is real life. Job done!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some No

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The lifestyle rather than the site

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We aren't married but we are together as a couple, living together, and met on fab, about a year ago. We both have single profiles and verified each other on our first meet on here too, before we were a couple. We have the option to meet alone, but rarely do ... its becoming the norm for us to meet together because we spend our time together and enjoy each other's company. There is no one up mansion .... and I think that this is what is going on here, op, as other posters have said, it seems to be about the relationship and how solid and open it is, why you are both swinging. Have your own profiles, because you are individuals in your own right, but doing certain things for effect or to play games, that's not what I would see as part of a healthy relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a ridiculous question on a swinging site!!

A marriage can survive fab more than it can normally.

I find fabs great as it makes us be 100% open with each other, we don't have temptations that could spoil our marriage as we indulge in them together

Yes - so well put - all I would add is that communication, trust and willingness (to put one's partners pleasure first sometimes for example)is essential m x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

OP does this person know she is your 'wife'?

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport

"Can a marriage survive FAB?

Take it, it is your wife from the text on your profile who has verified you...odd veri to leave from a wife to a husband......"

Exactly what I thought as is the veri from op on said wife's profile

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

It adds to it... As long as you are both up for fun with out jealousy. If ether one of you gets jealous it won't work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "
yes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

FAB can create a marriage ! We met on here - great basis for a solid relationship as nothing goes on behind closed doors - unless she locks me out of course ! x

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We started swinging many years ago swinging will make or break your marriage.

You meet someone fall in love you never think you want anyone else again but it does not work like that in life./

You see someone your attracted too and think it will just be the once but when you get away with it there,s the next time.

We have never gone behind each other like all our friends who a lot have been married 2-3 times none of them have a clue about this side of our life.

Swinging as made our marriage very happy and strong happier than any of our friends.

Yes sites like fab do help your marriage but can also break them so if your looking else were your marriage is going to break up any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married could we try it out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely.

Oh and having a wife as hot as Jane helps too

I didn't know we were married....am I a bigamist now?

Let's meet and see if one of your marriages survive lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "
a small minority may but I think many will flounder because one will enjoy lifestyle more than the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope is the short answer, and stop trying to kid yourselves.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a marriage survive FAB? "

Depends.. as long as your both honest and open with each other and play as a couple then yes it can. When the lies start setting in and your partner wanting to play alone then that's where the trouble can tend to lie.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We were on Fab as a couple before we married, and are still very happily married and swinging regularly, so the answer is YES!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope is the short answer, and stop trying to kid yourselves........."

Well it works for us and has for many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had married some of my more slutty girlfriends that would have more up for it. I just love to be with a woman who's has had many men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope is the short answer, and stop trying to kid yourselves........."

I have to disagree with this - human nature has many amazing quirks - some very loving partners might actually express their love through the feelings of pride and pure horniness that can arise when sharing their partner with other people - people who appreciate the strength of the bond between the man and wife and who share kinky interests with them. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you sound as if your wife is going off on her own and enjoying fab a bit too much, and excluding you?

Has swinging become a substitute for having sex with you?

In effect she is having affairs but out in the open with your knowledge!

This isn't a healthy way of enjoying fab within a relationship it's another form of cheating.

My otherhalf and I play separately and together, but always with good communication and respect for each other.

We involve each other in decision making. And if at any stage either of us was unhappy with the others swinging we discuss it, stop or change how we swing.

Swinging is making our sex life better, it's not a substitute. And no meet is ever more important than my otherhalf!

I would never ever tell him to shut up or mind his own business.

When I swing alone I want him involved as much as possible so he knows who I'm meeting. And I get to share the experience by telling him the dirty details when I get home.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Dumb ass question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married before any swinging and divorced after 18 years. Tried to make it work but the last five years were love and sexless.

Would Fab have saved it ? Not sure but me not getting any sex was a big issue.

Years on with H we have amazing sex, which massively increases just before we go to a club or meet and after. So for us Fab has improved our sex life.

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