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"There are some great parties held not to far from you. They are good as long as you get the right people x " Would it be better going with a known couple to a party rather than open invite and what about club scene, is it friendly or clicky with exciting members doing their thing? | |||
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As to parties it sometimes is good to go with people you know but the danger their is that you all sit together and talk x | |||
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"Some clubs can have a clicky feel.. but it depends on the night you go. Who is in... And if you are confident enough to go and talk to people. We talk to everyone
As to parties it sometimes is good to go with people you know but the danger their is that you all sit together and talk x "Completely understand, it's all about socialising and getting involved without I guess being intrusive. Your comments are very useful, thank you xxxx | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome...." La Chambre in Sheffield isn't far from you at all if you wanted to dip your toes in the club scene. But like parties, it depends on who is in and there's no guarantee that you'll click with anyone on a given night. If you're happy to go along, socialise and mingle knowing you may or may not play, then you'll be fine. If you'd rather know that you'll meet the right couple and definitely play, I'd say stick to organising your own meets although by all means hold them in a club or party environment to maximise your options | |||
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"Its entirely what you make of it. If you go with a positive open attitude to both you'll be fine. I've seen couples (and singles) just lurking or chatting together and looking very bored. If they were willing to chat im sure they'd get more out of it. You don't strike me as the type to do that!" Lol, we are not shrinking violets but probably would need a wine or two to get over the nerves  | |||
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"Its entirely what you make of it. If you go with a positive open attitude to both you'll be fine. I've seen couples (and singles) just lurking or chatting together and looking very bored. If they were willing to chat im sure they'd get more out of it. You don't strike me as the type to do that! Lol, we are not shrinking violets but probably would need a wine or two to get over the nerves "Wine always helps me relax a bit | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome.... La Chambre in Sheffield isn't far from you at all if you wanted to dip your toes in the clubscene. But like parties, it depends on who is in and there's no guarantee that you'll click with anyone on a given night. If you're happy to go along, socialise and mingle knowing you may or may not play, then you'll be fine. If you'd rather know that you'll meet the right couple and definitely play, I'd say stick to organising your own meets although by all means hold them in a club or party environment to maximise your options" That's a great option, arranging a known meet at a club. Lots of fun for everyone and hopefully other friends to be made. Thank you for your advice. Reading your profile sounds like your leaving, with your studies is the life taking too much time? We struggle with that balance that's why it's not an every week sort of thing. Good luck with your studies xxx | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome.... La Chambre in Sheffield isn't far from you at all if you wanted to dip your toes in the clubscene. But like parties, it depends on who is in and there's no guarantee that you'll click with anyone on a given night. If you're happy to go along, socialise and mingle knowing you may or may not play, then you'll be fine. If you'd rather know that you'll meet the right couple and definitely play, I'd say stick to organising your own meets although by all means hold them in a club or party environment to maximise your options That's a great option, arranging a known meet at a club. Lots of fun for everyone and hopefully other friends to be made. Thank you for your advice. Reading your profile sounds like your leaving, with your studies is the life taking too much time? We struggle with that balance that's why it's not an every week sort of thing. Good luck with your studies xxx" Thanks. I haven't really been all that active in the scene but I used to dabble in playing and working for the club. It's not that it takes too much time but I'm doing other things and its on the back burner. It takes as much time as you feel you can and want to devote to it | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome.... La Chambre in Sheffield isn't far from you at all if you wanted to dip your toes in the clubscene. But like parties, it depends on who is in and there's no guarantee that you'll click with anyone on a given night. If you're happy to go along, socialise and mingle knowing you may or may not play, then you'll be fine. If you'd rather know that you'll meet the right couple and definitely play, I'd say stick to organising your own meets although by all means hold them in a club or party environment to maximise your options That's a great option, arranging a known meet at a club. Lots of fun for everyone and hopefully other friends to be made. Thank you for your advice. Reading your profile sounds like your leaving, with your studies is the life taking too much time? We struggle with that balance that's why it's not an every week sort of thing. Good luck with your studies xxx Thanks. I haven't really been all that active in the scene but I used to dabble in playing and working for the club. It's not that it takes too much time but I'm doing other things and its on the back burner. It takes as much time as you feel you can and want to devote to it " So sorry to appear nieve with this but do staff at clubs also play? Xxx | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome.... La Chambre in Sheffield isn't far from you at all if you wanted to dip your toes in the clubscene. But like parties, it depends on who is in and there's no guarantee that you'll click with anyone on a given night. If you're happy to go along, socialise and mingle knowing you may or may not play, then you'll be fine. If you'd rather know that you'll meet the right couple and definitely play, I'd say stick to organising your own meets although by all means hold them in a club or party environment to maximise your options That's a great option, arranging a known meet at a club. Lots of fun for everyone and hopefully other friends to be made. Thank you for your advice. Reading your profile sounds like your leaving, with your studies is the life taking too much time? We struggle with that balance that's why it's not an every week sort of thing. Good luck with your studies xxx Thanks. I haven't really been all that active in the scene but I used to dabble in playing and working for the club. It's not that it takes too much time but I'm doing other things and its on the back burner. It takes as much time as you feel you can and want to devote to it So sorry to appear nieve with this but do staff at clubs also play? Xxx" Not all of them and they generally don't when they're working. I know the La Chambre staff don't play while they're on the clock but I couldn't say for other places. Some of them aren't even remotely interested in swinging | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome...." We have found house parties less clicky and more chance to chat and mingle  | |||
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"What's everybody's thoughts on the club and house party scene? We are fairly new to this and having a great time with the couples we have met and the organised socials we have attended but is it time to to try more? Any input here is welcome.... We have found house parties less clicky and more chance to chat and mingle "I imagine they are more select too as most will be invite only and not an admission fee. Xxx | |||
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