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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to many pictures of male and kik is for kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine that your expressed preferences will mean that many self-select out. For instance I wouldn't consider myself someone with "curves in all the right places" because I like to imagine in my head that I'm a skinny bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is right, you know me too well op, 2 weeks is rather newish still so yes, patience is the key lol

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Strange you have a cock pic showing, yet on the full body pic where you have your face blocked out with your phone you also have you cock blocked out?

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By *r and mrs 71Couple
over a year ago

colchester


"Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key "

It's a good profile, listing preferences and pictures other than the missis' tits which seems to be the norm for most couples profiles.

IMO, whilst I would wink at you, I wouldn't expect a reply as 'curves in all the right places' isn't specific enough to know if I'm in or out, and the chap has to be fit. Hubs is fit as in he has a physical job so is running around a lot, but doesn't work out so isn't fit like your fella is, which did you mean? So I'd think that we aren't what you're looking for, and so maybe others do too?

Good luck

Mrs

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By *olchesterCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Happy to make some comments:

Yes definitely too many pictures of the man. He has a great chest, but not all women are attracted to that. I would like to see more of the lady!

We have had quite a few bad experiences with couples who don't live together. I would take out that bit and also the bit about your separate profiles. Are you a couple or 2 singles?

Like you, we are getting lots of looks but not much else. How can we improve our profile? (Never too old to learn)

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"to many pictures of male and kik is for kids"

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

The M pics seem a lot more edited than the F pics. Look like changes made to contrast and shadows etc.

Why didn't you do the same on hers out of curiosity?

Also it sounds like you put a profile up and waited for the messages to roll in.

This isn't Ebay. You can message other people too you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to make some comments:

Yes definitely too many pictures of the man. He has a great chest, but not all women are attracted to that. I would like to see more of the lady "

Whereas I and my partner like to see either equal numbers, or more of the man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key "

Shame you're so far away. Stunning couple

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There is a really useful technique that we find works really well. What you do, is looking a other people's profiles and when you find one which takes your fancy, you send them a really good message. We find it really successful.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stunning couple, but Google image search brings up a few things so I wouldn't personally contact you, but others may. Good luck

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"Stunning couple, but Google image search brings up a few things so I wouldn't personally contact you, but others may. Good luck "

Didn't notice that! Close but no cigar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stunning couple, but Google image search brings up a few things so I wouldn't personally contact you, but others may. Good luck

Didn't notice that! Close but no cigar!"

Just a POF dating profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stunning couple, but Google image search brings up a few things so I wouldn't personally contact you, but others may. Good luck

Didn't notice that! Close but no cigar!

Just a POF dating profile?"

Aah, and the only picture of him I didn't look at - an escort agency!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, seems a good profile to me. However, the pics look like you took two people's separate photos and stuck them onto one profile. I think couples generally like to feel that they are meeting a couple. Have pics that work on a profile as one. Try having some pics with both of you, maybe? Those are my favorite on couples' profiles anyway.

Also, this may just be me, but I personally don't usually message people who describe themselves as attractive. Not only is it subjective, but to me it comes off as it being especially important to you. So I would feel judged if I messages you.

Try messaging people yourselves. That's what we mostly did when we first joined. The messages we initially received were just white noise.

What someone says above about the pics showing on a reverse image search is also concerning. I'm not on my laptop so I haven't looked myself to check.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics together would be vastly beneficial - use a mirror or a camera on a tripod or something..

Amazingly, your pics are male heavy, show more of the female.. (most couples usually have too many of the female and very few if any of the male)

Otherwise, no issues with the profile - but prob best if you messaged others, rather than wait for your inbox to fill.

HTH.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

And tht POF profile is the other end of the country to this One.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Agree with the mismatched photo styles and lack of a couple pic.

Personally I'd be intimidated being naked in a room with the male as he's way better looking than me Rob.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

even stranger if you follow the Verification. connie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we're not an official couple, but rather friends with benefits. We have been singles on here for some time. Perhaps new pictures together would work better?

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Didn't you post recently that you weren't sure why this chap was with you as you had insecurities?

As others have said, try finding folk for yourself - I do this on my couples profile and it works well for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we're not an official couple, but rather friends with benefits. We have been singles on here for some time. Perhaps new pictures together would work better? "

The guy's pictures are also showing up on reverse image searches. Even if he is actually using his own pictures, it would be smart of him to use different pictures than ones he uses for POF and escort agencies...just an idea. People aren't going to know if they are real or not.

-Courtney

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

sorry to the op, looks like the op has not sent a veri to the couple they meet..samples..time to eat humble pie connie x

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Our profile is the same it's been really quiet... Don't know where we are going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is the same it's been really quiet... Don't know where we are going wrong.

"

I'm not sure what people expect, though. If a couple isn't looking for single guys....they aren't going to get tons of mail everyday. 75% of our messages come from single guys. So as you and the OP are not looking for single guys, that's 75% of messages automatically gone.

But it should make it easier to proactively message those you want to message.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is the same it's been really quiet... Don't know where we are going wrong.

"

If the mountain won't come to Muhammad then Muhammad must go to the mountain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key "

This is not instashag , you don't just sign up and you're swimming in sex. You need to get to a social, club or hangout in the forums

I'm so glad I got to say this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key "

There are no photos of the lady (apart from a tongue) and none of you together. And the male's pictures are all over the web. We would treat you with great caution. If you are genuine, I would recommend that you redo your photos entirely and uniquely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our profile is very new, but we don't seem to be generating any interest. Inbox is... Lots of people viewing our profile, but that's it really. We don't bite and are a very friendly pair. Are we doing anything wrong?

Shag will come along now and tell us patience is key

This is not instashag , you don't just sign up and you're swimming in sex. You need to get to a social, club or hangout in the forums

I'm so glad I got to say this "

Happy now?

Didn't say it was x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I personally like more pics of males of couples. Some together would be good. Sounds like starting again might be the best and most fun idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?"

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally like more pics of males of couples. Some together would be good. Sounds like starting again might be the best and most fun idea."

Yes pictures together would be great and we're working on that. As I have said and as you can see, we're pretty new to this as a couple (fwb). We have our own single profiles both verified too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree with the mismatched photo styles and lack of a couple pic.

Personally I'd be intimidated being naked in a room with the male as he's way better looking than me Rob."

How do you think I feel?

- Mae

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Didn't you post recently that you weren't sure why this chap was with you as you had insecurities?

As others have said, try finding folk for yourself - I do this on my couples profile and it works well for us. "

Yup that was me and I'm going through the motions now. We are messaging couples. It is a matter of mutual interest I suppose. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe"

I suggest Google reverse image the pics yourself, just as I and others have done. The results are not surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe"

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity."

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney"

That is fair on the risk scale but it is, for me at least, a big fail on the honesty scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney"

The escort page I got said he was 'straight acting' and would see men or women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney

The escort page I got said he was 'straight acting' and would see men or women."

I have investigated further. There are two escort pages. In one he is straight, in the other he is straight-acting.

OP, Wasp hunter is correct. You really should talk to him.

-Courtney

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney

The escort page I got said he was 'straight acting' and would see men or women.

I have investigated further. There are two escort pages. In one he is straight, in the other he is straight-acting.

OP, Wasp hunter is correct. You really should talk to him.

-Courtney"

Hmmmm...........

Pandora's Box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney

The escort page I got said he was 'straight acting' and would see men or women.

I have investigated further. There are two escort pages. In one he is straight, in the other he is straight-acting.

OP, Wasp hunter is correct. You really should talk to him.

-Courtney

Hmmmm...........

Pandora's Box? "

Possibly yes, however, if the male in the couple is advertising such services without the female's knowledge it suggests a bit lack of communication within the couple and does not give potential meets the information needed to make a decision as to potential play with this couple.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?

What Pof profile?

And his pictures are his own. I don't know anything about that honestly.

- Maebabe

Might be worth checking with him.

Being a man who is paid to have sex with other men is considered a very, very high risk activity by the sexual health clinics. If he's not told you about that, I'd be backing away very quickly. If he's not telling potential meets about that, I'd also be questioning his integrity.

To be fair, the escort page I saw says he is straight. Not sure where that falls on the risk-scale, though.

-Courtney

The escort page I got said he was 'straight acting' and would see men or women.

I have investigated further. There are two escort pages. In one he is straight, in the other he is straight-acting.

OP, Wasp hunter is correct. You really should talk to him.

-Courtney

Hmmmm...........

Pandora's Box?

Possibly yes, however, if the male in the couple is advertising such services without the female's knowledge it suggests a bit lack of communication within the couple and does not give potential meets the information needed to make a decision as to potential play with this couple."

I'm not suggesting she shouldn't talk to him, in fact quite the opposite, I'm just thinking aloud as to what else might be revealed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Devils advocate but they are only fwb's as opposed to a full couple. If he had used other pics to his escort and Pof profiles than would have been none the wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Devils advocate but they are only fwb's as opposed to a full couple. If he had used other pics to his escort and Pof profiles than would have been none the wiser."

I'm what most people would call 'fwb' with my partners. If one of them was lying to me about also being a sex worker I'd want to know because they're potentially endangering mine and my partners health.

'Fwb' doesn't mean 'don't know anything about each other'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have just talked it over and it's cool. He no longer does it and only took woman out for dinners. To be fair I know a fair amount of people on here that do adult work. And that doesn't make me think any less of them.

Yes we are in a fwb relationship and what he does with pof or had done with the escorting isn't really my business, but I've asked him and he was honest.

Let's not get to negative now please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have just talked it over and it's cool. He no longer does it and only took woman out for dinners. To be fair I know a fair amount of people on here that do adult work. And that doesn't make me think any less of them.

Yes we are in a fwb relationship and what he does with pof or had done with the escorting isn't really my business, but I've asked him and he was honest.

Let's not get to negative now please x"

OP, I just want to say first that my points weren't meant to be negative. They were just worth pointing out.

Second, it is great that you can explain this stuff to us, but we don't really matter. You asked us why you may not be getting a lot of attention on your profile. One concrete answer, at least, is that if a random person, who doesn't read the forums, did a reverse image search on those picture and saw what we all did, they might question whose pictures they really were and not message you.

I suggest new picture on his part.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have just talked it over and it's cool. He no longer does it and only took woman out for dinners. To be fair I know a fair amount of people on here that do adult work. And that doesn't make me think any less of them.

Yes we are in a fwb relationship and what he does with pof or had done with the escorting isn't really my business, but I've asked him and he was honest.

Let's not get to negative now please x

OP, I just want to say first that my points weren't meant to be negative. They were just worth pointing out.

Second, it is great that you can explain this stuff to us, but we don't really matter. You asked us why you may not be getting a lot of attention on your profile. One concrete answer, at least, is that if a random person, who doesn't read the forums, did a reverse image search on those picture and saw what we all did, they might question whose pictures they really were and not message you.

I suggest new picture on his part.

-Courtney"

Thank you Courtney for that advice. We have taken that into consideration and will make new pictures specific to our profile.

I do appreciate all your input, all those that have posted.

Mae x

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Still doesn't make sense tho. I would look at your profile and think "fake", and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still doesn't make sense tho. I would look at your profile and think "fake", and block."

What doesn' make sense?

We have our single profiles too, where we are both verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if the male half of you two shaped up a bit, got himself to the gym occasionally things might improve? If you don't mind me saying so, I think he's let himself go a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny it says your 25 on POF if you do the google image search and also loads of face pictures

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"funny it says your 25 on POF if you do the google image search and also loads of face pictures "

Funny, but not relevant...

Please search me too

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"You still haven't responded to the queries about "his" pics being on other sites, and the POF profile having a whole different location?"

With regards to the other location on his pof profile. That's where he lives. Our couple profile location is based from where I live. We live in opposite directions, but we make it work. With Abfabs being our half way point.

Why is that an issue for our fab profile?

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

He has not skipped leg day once in his life, has he? lol

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

See you verified a new couple and they instantly verified your couples profile. Seems off to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to make some comments:

Yes definitely too many pictures of the man. He has a great chest, but not all women are attracted to that. I would like to see more of the lady!

We have had quite a few bad experiences with couples who don't live together. I would take out that bit and also the bit about your separate profiles. Are you a couple or 2 singles?

Like you, we are getting lots of looks but not much else. How can we improve our profile? (Never too old to learn) "

I think to many couples profiles don't have ENOUGH photos of the make half... A lot are just of the lady which I personally think is not fair

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"See you verified a new couple and they instantly verified your couples profile. Seems off to me.

"

In what way?

I verified them on my single profile after meeting them at abfabs and telling them about fabs. They have a few verifications from other verified people after. They then in turn verified our couple profile.

Please tell me what paper trail you are following to make it seem off.

I'm verified on my single profile and so is nick...

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

All fair enough, but can you see why people would think you're fake? This is possibly why your profile is not getting the attention you want, we wouldn't take it seriously for the reasons people have stated.

A lot is gained simply by retaking your pics.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"See you verified a new couple and they instantly verified your couples profile. Seems off to me.

In what way?

I verified them on my single profile after meeting them at abfabs and telling them about fabs. They have a few verifications from other verified people after. They then in turn verified our couple profile.

Please tell me what paper trail you are following to make it seem off.

I'm verified on my single profile and so is nick...

"

I can't speak for other couples, but "verifications on my other profile" doesn't really do much to reassure us. After all, you could have just stolen pics from their profile and made a new one.

Personally I would have completely different pics on your couples profile and your singles profiles. Nothing rings alarm bells quicker than looking at a profile for the first time and thinking "I recognize those pics"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

call me cynical, call me over cautious, call me what you like but Maebabe if I was your mum I would be sitting you down with a glass of wine and asking you to think long and hard and be very careful.

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over a year ago

Some of the questions people are asking on here, about different locations etc. may be questions others who are looking and not messaging also have. Perhaps it's worth explaining some of these points on your profile?

And if reverse image is throwing up some issues then I'd suggest some new fab-only pics, ideally of the two of you together.

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over a year ago

Hi Mae!

To be honest I'm not the suspicious type so I wouldn't really have questioned your partners pics or Google image them, it's not something I never do! Too trusting I guess! However,something I would notice is that according to your veris of each other you only met on November 14! That's less than three weeks and you already have a couples profile? Not wanting to be not overly negative but I wouldn't class you as being a couple unless you've been together for several months at least! To me you're just two singles who've bolted a couples profile together so you can meet couples. I personally only play with couples if I feel they are completely solid as a couple and secure in each other's affection! They don't have to live together etc but they have to know each other really well!

Even though I think you are both attractive - this is what would put me off playing with you as a couple!

Not meaning to be really critical as you both seem nice to me - just saying how I perceive it! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Mae!

To be honest I'm not the suspicious type so I wouldn't really have questioned your partners pics or Google image them, it's not something I never do! Too trusting I guess! However,something I would notice is that according to your veris of each other you only met on November 14! That's less than three weeks and you already have a couples profile? Not wanting to be not overly negative but I wouldn't class you as being a couple unless you've been together for several months at least! To me you're just two singles who've bolted a couples profile together so you can meet couples. I personally only play with couples if I feel they are completely solid as a couple and secure in each other's affection! They don't have to live together etc but they have to know each other really well!

Even though I think you are both attractive - this is what would put me off playing with you as a couple!

Not meaning to be really critical as you both seem nice to me - just saying how I perceive it! Xx"

Agreed in what this posted says..

Perhaps the OP should clarify they are a FB couple on their profile, like the female has clarified on her own singles profile.

It will help to not get messages from those who do not wish to play with FB's like ourselves - saves messing about and wasted time further down the line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi Mae!

To be honest I'm not the suspicious type so I wouldn't really have questioned your partners pics or Google image them, it's not something I never do! Too trusting I guess! However,something I would notice is that according to your veris of each other you only met on November 14! That's less than three weeks and you already have a couples profile? Not wanting to be not overly negative but I wouldn't class you as being a couple unless you've been together for several months at least! To me you're just two singles who've bolted a couples profile together so you can meet couples. I personally only play with couples if I feel they are completely solid as a couple and secure in each other's affection! They don't have to live together etc but they have to know each other really well!

Even though I think you are both attractive - this is what would put me off playing with you as a couple!

Not meaning to be really critical as you both seem nice to me - just saying how I perceive it! Xx

Agreed in what this posted says..

Perhaps the OP should clarify they are a FB couple on their profile, like the female has clarified on her own singles profile.

It will help to not get messages from those who do not wish to play with FB's like ourselves - saves messing about and wasted time further down the line."

Friends with benefits, fwb NOT fuck buddies.. That's what I state on my single profile.

Mae

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