FabSwingers.com forum: I Need Advice..(Ladies)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, I've had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember... as soon as i was sexually active really, i realised i had one.

Now, the reason for the post is, i've never had a foot job.. no one has ever even offered one, the closest i got was a girl allowing me to suck her toes whilst we fucked, but thats it! everyone i've ever mentioned it too on here has ran a mile, everyone i've mentioned it too in real life.. laugh or decline, immediately.

how do i breach the subject with women? and how do i try and talk them into it.. as i've never had any luck, yet so many women are willing to do it!(judging by the amount with pictures here)

Thank you in advance!

(posted this under Swingers Chat, but thought it would be better here, on reflection!)

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've tidied up your other posts for you.

I have no advice as I don't like people touching my feet.

Good luck though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you haha! i kept finding new places that'd probably be better... and eh, i get that a lot!

Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you haha! i kept finding new places that'd probably be better... and eh, i get that a lot!

Cheers!

Don't tell them then

During foreplay kiss way down leg and then go for the feet whilst fingering pussy

She is occupied and you get a toe in mouth

Most inportantly don't say foot fetish in case she hears I am a creepy weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't think you can talk anyone into it really, some people enjoy what you enjoy, some people are open to other things if it appeals to them, and some just laugh and find the idea weird as you've already found out.

believe it or not my first boyfriend i lived with was into feet and shoes and i found the idea weird but never let on i did, plus he never actually did anything with my feet so it didn't matter if i liked it or not really. can't remember how i even got into it now or being worshiped, think i was experimenting with a guy i just hooked up with and he was really good at what he did and i nearly came off him licking between my toes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats actually solid advice! i suppose it does come across a bit strong, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

tried to reply privately, thanks for the insight! it makes a lot of sense really that people just squeeze it in from time to time.. and people who're willing to experiment of course!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no-one can message me at the moment. got almost 1000 messages i cba with already.

just as i got older weird stuff didn't seem so weird any more because i understand people more now.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

It's a common kink, have you tried sites that cater for kinks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I Haven't, i don't know of any to be honest!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have thought that I would like it as I have ticklish feet, but one day a guy surprised me, started sucking my toes and I found it rather hot! I now incorporate it when I am massaging a guy and not had any complaints. Just try it next time and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds very intresting! Where do I sign up for a massage!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You sucked her toes while you fucked? Wow, just trying to imagine what position you were in?!!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"You sucked her toes while you fucked? Wow, just trying to imagine what position you were in?!!

I bet she needed splints afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs here, I love nothing better than someone giving my feet as much attention as they can, licking, rubbing, stroking & even nibbling the soles of them.

I've been told I can give an amazing oily foot job to completion for as long as needed too.

Pity more guys are not nto this as it keeps the ladies legs exercised very well haha

Ps Mr has feet that can never be touched as he is far too ticklish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a foot fetish, But I love my dog licking my feet when I kick my shoes off. Its kind of a nice massage. I'd be open to a bloke playing with my feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of women are put off of the idea because they dislike their own feet.

We all like shoes though ....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm not a fan of feet so that's why it seems odd to me.

Having said that, if anyone is daft enough to want to play with my feet I doubt I'd say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, I've had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember... as soon as i was sexually active really, i realised i had one.

how do i breach the subject with women? and how do i try and talk them into it.. as i've never had any luck, yet so many women are willing to do it!(judging by the amount with pictures here)

Thank you in advance!

(posted this under Swingers Chat, but thought it would be better here, on reflection!)"

Try a fetish site you might do better

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Don't mention it or talk about it, it should happen naturally if your comfortable with the lady. Also keep your fingers crossed she hasn't got cracked heels and bunions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sucked her toes while you fucked? Wow, just trying to imagine what position you were in?!!

Legs crossed in front of chest her on her back! Simples;) x

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By *elticcurlsWoman
over a year ago

london

It does seem to be disproportionate re the number of men into this versus the number of women. I agree with others that the word foot fetish needs a rebrand. It conjure images of submissive men looking for a dominatrix. Definitely the approach is to let things develop naturally during foreplay or a massage. And always tell a woman how cute her feel are as we do tend to think they're ugly and no one could possibly want to touch them. We're also probably at our least self conscious after a bath or shower. Best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only recently started to let men worship my feet and I've been surprised by how much I've enjoyed it. I think mist women always appreciate a foot massage so maybe start off by just offering to do that x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There's a fetish website called fet life. Try that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very high arches which makes it difficult to grip a cock properly. I don't really like my toes sucked,as I'm really ticklish,but I'm getting more used to someone touching my feet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think it's much of a fetish. I sometimes kiss and suck toes as part of foreplay. No big deal, I think.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Just be careful of catching a lady off guard. Once I wasn't aware the guy had a foot fetish, my feet are very ticklish and I was caught of guard, kicked out as a reflex and broke his nose, bloody everywhere! Safe to say it killed the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha

that has honestly made my day re: breaking his nose!

Will try te website mentioned and attempt a new approach! Thanks guys! Will report back with success/failure stories x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tried some sites. Can't seem to find anyone still, thanks for the suggestion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, I've had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember... as soon as i was sexually active really, i realised i had one.

how do i breach the subject with women? and how do i try and talk them into it.. as i've never had any luck, yet so many women are willing to do it!(judging by the amount with pictures here)

Thank you in advance!

(posted this under Swingers Chat, but thought it would be better here, on reflection!)"

I think with any kink or preference it is essential to be patient. Giving and receiving massage, taking time out to talk and get to know each others preferences is likely to give more opportunities for variations based on mutual understanding.

On the very first meet or the very first message you might put people off if you concentrate on one aspect of play that turns you on. If feet are your main reason for wanting to play then goto a specialist website and concentrate your efforts there.

If feet are a kinky addition but not the only feature of play then chat to fellow fabbers in a relaxed atmosphere, offer a foot rub - go from there.

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I had a woman I knew for several years that was very into my feet. She loved to massage my feet with aromatic oils and then she would lick and suck my toes. It felt mind blowing and she said it was my feet she really liked, but she also enjoyed serving me and giving me obvious pleasure. I never requested it and the first time was somewhat shocking but I did not put up a fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate anyone touching my feet. I had stockings on one evening for fun and I had my toes sucked whilst I was sucking his cock

I've never liked it but that was fun that night !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See! Girls just need to lighten up to the idea apparently it actually feels nice xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't think you can talk anyone into it really, some people enjoy what you enjoy, some people are open to other things if it appeals to them, and some just laugh and find the idea weird as you've already found out.

Gosh, just noticed you'd changed your thing to my age group, thought we could finally discuss this... Then realised you'd blocked males, fs! Hha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like having my feet touched but that's mainly because they are ultra sensitive and I don't like them very much however I can just about stand a loving kiss on the sole of my foot from Mr Ess while we are doing the business and he adjusts my legs haha I do also enjoy giving him to occasional foot job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like having my feet touched but that's mainly because they are ultra sensitive and I don't like them very much however I can just about stand a loving kiss on the sole of my foot from Mr Ess while we are doing the business and he adjusts my legs haha I do also enjoy giving him the occasional foot job

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very intresting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sucked her toes while you fucked? Wow, just trying to imagine what position you were in?!!

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Quite easy really, I've done it. Missionary position, her feet up to the guys mouth! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You sucked her toes while you fucked? Wow, just trying to imagine what position you were in?!!

Quite easy really, I've done it. Missionary position, her feet up to the guys mouth! X"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, I've had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember... as soon as i was sexually active really, i realised i had one.

how do i breach the subject with women? and how do i try and talk them into it.. as i've never had any luck, yet so many women are willing to do it!(judging by the amount with pictures here)

Thank you in advance!

(posted this under Swingers Chat, but thought it would be better here, on reflection!)"

I have no interest in feet however i have noticed this.

Have the lady lieing on her back.

Kneel all fours between her legs and lick lady bits.

Cock should be around ladies foot area

Poke foot accidentally with Cock

Woman think "ooo i know" and begins to play with your cock with her feet.

After that because it was her idea when afterwards ayou twll her you actually really liked that and would like to try it again she'll be more into it because she came up with it so its not a creepy fetish

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

If anyone likes Hobbit feet, then have at 'em!! Hey you never know.. could be a new fetish of its own!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey that's not a bad plan! Hell of a lot riding on the fact they'd use their brains though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you're on to something _hortie!

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