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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are swinger couples swingers before they meet?!? Or does one introduce the other to it? Looking for advice/tips on how to introduce a lady friend I have recently started seeing that I really like to the world of swinging! Where do I start lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about asking her if she has fantasised about sex with another person?

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could show her your profile and ask if she's interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mention it very carefully and be prepared for anything. I've had positive responses and absofuckinglutly negative ones.

I broached it with my ex wife first of all by asking her what she thought of certain fellas in porn pics and vids, moving on to what it would be like to have two cocks at once and then via an ad in Loot (pre internet) we met a couple and then BANG! she was off ... be prepared for Pandora's box to open

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"You could show her your profile and ask if she's interested."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ultimately the only way is to ask. Personally I can't bear shilly shallying about a subject, hinting, seeing if she might be interested...just ask. If it's a deal breaker either way best to find out now.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Are swinger couples swingers before they meet?!? Or does one introduce the other to it? Looking for advice/tips on how to introduce a lady friend I have recently started seeing that I really like to the world of swinging! Where do I start lmao "

Ask her what her handle on FabS is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Darling, you know those days when you can't decide if you want vaginal or oral sex... well I've come up with a solution where you don't need to choose..."

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


""Darling, you know those days when you can't decide if you want vaginal or oral sex... well I've come up with a solution where you don't need to choose...""

And if you fancy anal that day that's not a problem either

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


""Darling, you know those days when you can't decide if you want vaginal or oral sex... well I've come up with a solution where you don't need to choose...""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are swinger couples swingers before they meet?!? Or does one introduce the other to it? Looking for advice/tips on how to introduce a lady friend I have recently started seeing that I really like to the world of swinging! Where do I start lmao "

Well shock to most but Mrs made the profile without telling me. She was messaging guys/couples and only told me when she found one she wanted to meet....

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are swinger couples swingers before they meet?!? Or does one introduce the other to it? Looking for advice/tips on how to introduce a lady friend I have recently started seeing that I really like to the world of swinging! Where do I start lmao "

We talked about sexual fantasies and we played with role-play and blindfolds in the bedroom for a couple of years before one of us suggested swinging. One half wasn't keen on trying to turn fantasy into reality so we waited another year....then we gave it a try and wow!!!! We are so glad we did! communication and patience are important if both parties are going to benefit fully. X

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


""Darling, you know those days when you can't decide if you want vaginal or oral sex... well I've come up with a solution where you don't need to choose...""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So sweetheart, we've been seeing each other a few weeks now....I was wondering if you've ever fantisized about being fisted by a fat bloke from Wigan?"

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