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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Why do people send this as a message - why not just bloody ask the question not ask if they can ask?!! Seriously girls get enough messages without this!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

[Removed by poster at 30/11/15 06:43:18]

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No idea but I like your 3sum photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so they can start a conversation with you....i love that pic too

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Is that their first message or does it occur in the middle of a conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm feeling mischievous I'll tell them they can and then don't answer the question

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Why do people send this as a message - why not just bloody ask the question not ask if they can ask?!! Seriously girls get enough messages without this! "

Mainly because they are far to illiterate or lazy to compose a message, we just automatically block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too.

Depending on my mood, the reply can vary but I've never carried on the conversation or had a meet with someone that started their fab chat with this question xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you rather they just said "fancy a fuck?" ?

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Would you rather they just said "fancy a fuck?" ? "

We get that a lot has well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete delete delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather they just said "fancy a fuck?" ? "

Yes! I prefer the direct approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted this a few weeks ago, it really drives me mad, it happens in chat too. I never see the point in asking if they can ask, but what the response will be to the question is a different story.

If they send a face pic with the message I tend to reply with 'you just did' or 'no'. Otherwise it just gets deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fab pet hate of mine too.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"No idea but I like your 3sum photo "

Thank you

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Is that their first message or does it occur in the middle of a conversation? "

First message and that's all it says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people send this as a message - why not just bloody ask the question not ask if they can ask?!! Seriously girls get enough messages without this! "

'If you wouldn't ask me if you'd just started talking to me in a pub, then you can't ask me here.'

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"If I'm feeling mischievous I'll tell them they can and then don't answer the question "

Oo I'm so gonna do that with the next one, love it

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Would you rather they just said "fancy a fuck?" ? "

Yes because I'm a very direct person - although something a little longer to show they've read my profile and know they're what I'm looking for helps too.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Is that their first message or does it occur in the middle of a conversation?

First message and that's all it says "

ok that is odd and a bit off putting! I can see it during a conversation as a way of seeing if a lady wishes to talk about sex or something personal but as an opening gambit it is hardly imaginative.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Its so they can start a conversation with you....i love that pic too"

Thank you too

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I just reply with

Yes you can but it is limited to 1 a day, and given that 'can I ask you a question?' is a question you have hit your daily allowance.

Goodbye

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"Why do people send this as a message - why not just bloody ask the question not ask if they can ask?!! Seriously girls get enough messages without this! "

Single guys who will say ANYTHING to get a message appearing in their inboxes?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

And there was I thinking that a nice introduction and saying some things relevant to the lady's profile might work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol they complain that no to fancy a shag and that and no to hi messages, so whats left to say for them?

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Q: Can I ask you a question?

A: Only if it's a rhetorical one.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I get this too.

Depending on my mood, the reply can vary but I've never carried on the conversation or had a meet with someone that started their fab chat with this question xx"

Me neither. Everytime I get this message I sigh lol

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I just reply with

Yes you can but it is limited to 1 a day, and given that 'can I ask you a question?' is a question you have hit your daily allowance.

Goodbye

"

I must do this

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Q: Can I ask you a question?

A: Only if it's a rhetorical one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always some really idiotic question as well that if they read the profile they would have got the answer ..

Seriosouly i have a few hundred stupid ass messages from guys, I cut and paste them up onto one of my jokey blogs for amusement . They get a good rise at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just reply with

Yes you can but it is limited to 1 a day, and given that 'can I ask you a question?' is a question you have hit your daily allowance.

Goodbye

"

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Funnily enough I got this question again last night lol. I said 'No'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

I get this quite a lot and I just message back saying no. I can't remember anyone getting back to me after I've said that.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I get this quite a lot and I just message back saying no. I can't remember anyone getting back to me after I've said that.

"

I haven't heard from him since

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I get this quite a lot and I just message back saying no. I can't remember anyone getting back to me after I've said that.

I haven't heard from him since "

Wonder if it's the same guy because I did too

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I get this quite a lot and I just message back saying no. I can't remember anyone getting back to me after I've said that.

"

Thats what I do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just reply with

Yes you can but it is limited to 1 a day, and given that 'can I ask you a question?' is a question you have hit your daily allowance.

Goodbye

"

Similarly to this but I say "you just did and one is enough"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I get them a lot and ignore them but I am sometimes tempted to respond with another question and see how long I could keep that up for before they got frustrated and blocked me.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I usually respond "you just did so no further questions required" then I block because it annoys the hell out of me too

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