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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what are the rules regarding social meets? Are there any tips?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't think there are any rules as such.

Apart from your own. e.g. if you don't want to be kissed then make sure they know in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader "

Broader, do you have examples? Lol

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't drink too much..!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader

Broader, do you have examples? Lol"

Well if I was meeting a non swinger couple or single man for the first time I wouldn't expect to discuss bondage or spanking with them

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Behave as you would at any social meeting although the conversation might be slightly broader

Broader, do you have examples? Lol

Well if I was meeting a non swinger couple or single man for the first time I wouldn't expect to discuss bondage or spanking with them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah a little more blue then got you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't drink too much..! "

Not much of a problem for us. So we will be okay on that front

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You'll talk about all sorts but the conversation will get round to Fab at some point. And you'll be able to talk freely & openly about it

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Don't harris people. Take pen and paper so you can swap fab names.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Relax, don't get d*unk, find a common interest to talk about

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ah a little more blue then got you"

It depends, I think you need to approach this with the person or people you're meeting and venue in mind. I would be very uncomfortable discussing detailed scenarios at a social or where we could be overheard but likes, dislikes, boundaries etc would be fine.

We have had really enjoyable social meets with only one at which I was made to feel extremely uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what are the rules regarding social meets? Are there any tips?"

Don't pretend you have Tourette's for a bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah a little more blue then got you"

Remember this depends on the person though! For instance when chatting to a lady - some of us don't like the conversation to get too sexually direct!

I'd let the people you're chatting to take the lead to an extent there! Just relax and have fun!

If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you make the rules up that suit you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah a little more blue then got you

Remember this depends on the person though! For instance when chatting to a lady - some of us don't like the conversation to get too sexually direct!

I'd let the people you're chatting to take the lead to an extent there! Just relax and have fun!

If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense?"

That sounds very good, just chill and be ourselves.

thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If you've never been to a social before, the only thing I can liken it to is a birthday party, house-warming et cetera - where you may barely know anybody, but you will have something in common so you can make an effort to chat to lots of people there and people will be friendly! Hope that makes some sense?"

Great analogy

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