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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How often do peeps go through your friends lists and have a cull!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I only keep a very short friends list, less than 10. If I don't hear from them for a month or so I delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, that's a tricky one. I think you've blocked me anyway! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only keep a very short friends list, less than 10. If I don't hear from them for a month or so I delete "

I do similar, and don't add loads either.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We got through ours every month or so. Anyone who sends us a friend request and are added after an exchange of winks but no chatting will likely be cut if we've had no contact.

We don't have face pics in our private gallery but the ones in there are a bit more special to us so shouldn't be available to people who don't really want to know us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two people on my friends list. If I add someone and we don't end up meeting I delete them,but I don't add many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have that many but if there has been no chatting in pm's or no interaction on the forums for a few weeks/months I usually remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have that many but if there has been no chatting in pm's or no interaction on the forums for a few weeks/months I usually remove them"

I do the same.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Paul has an occasional cull but the reasons for being culled will depend on his mood at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been removed from a few lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a 3 month limit on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend list is empty. Why add if they want just a pic view and then dont chat. For me to add I got to have chatted and fancy them first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A fair few. They are there for a reason even if they don't chat.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Cull every few weeks but less unfriending is needed now I only add only those I've met in person, intend to see again or see regularly, social or play.

I also cull people by blocking those who have sent a friend request without messaging. If they've got awesome verifications I might let them off. Harsh but if they can't read my profile and send a message then they're not for me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I only keep a very short friends list, less than 10. If I don't hear from them for a month or so I delete

I do similar, and don't add loads either."

I need to have met or are seriously planning to meet someone for them to go on the list.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Never. As i dont have a list.

This aint facebook for me

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By *achnrandyCouple
over a year ago

Ascot

We get fed up with those that reply chat and never move forward with a meet, be easier just to say... When we have had enough, a cull takes place...

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

I rarely cull. Okay I don't

Went in there today and accepted about 6 if people don't mention it I forget and I only go in there if needed

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I only keep a very short friends list, less than 10. If I don't hear from them for a month or so I delete "
ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only have a few

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Every now and then we will look through our list and remove any who we feel will not be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I feel like doing it, I never announce it and only remove those who haven't been on in a while or those I don't talk to. I had one Monday I think and a few hours later, one I deleted messaged me to let me know I'd deletedhim, iI let him know I was aware and I'd done it as I never talk to him and will probably never meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have always had a very small friends list but at the moment it's completely empty.

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By *eauNaturelMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury


"We have always had a very small friends list but at the moment it's completely empty."

My friends list is very small too - I have room for a sexy couple from Newport just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do peeps go through your friends lists and have a cull!

X

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Regularly - it is nothing personal; my circumstances can change and I am not able to see that person again (I move a lot round the country with my job) and I can't cope with the frustration of seeing their tempting updates.

Same reason as I block some people if I don't fit their criteria. No point in chasing things you can never have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a fairly long friends list - every so often have a cull but we chat to a lot so just need a longer message archive - keep losing people off the bottom so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have that many but if there has been no chatting in pm's or no interaction on the forums for a few weeks/months I usually remove them

I do the same. "
so do I

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Once a month and we write in our private notes why incase they ask, only 2 have lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 8 friends and they are couples we have either met or intend to meet in the near future. We only add people who we have been chatting to for a while, the most annoying thing on here is random adds from people who cant be bothered chatting first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do peeps go through your friends lists and have a cull!

X

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oh at least 3 times a week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have any on our friends list but have deleted the odd person who hasn't been on fab for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every couple of weeks... if not talking then why be friends, my pictures are private for a reason

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Never. I see no need to, it doesn't cost me anything to add people.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

Channel islands

I have 5 on my friends list. If we've not spoken in a while I do tend to delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps never go through our friends list,we don't show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got rid of one.

She never replies to my mails, which is ok - but she posts pics every 5 mins. And cos she was a 'friend' I see her face every time I go to updates screen.

Like every single time - her face from a new pic uploaded 5 mins ago. Etc etc etc.

Why accept friends from someone and then never reply? Does this qualify as a rant?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

our friends list, we keep to people we have meet, and hope to meet again..connie x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

about once a month or so,sometimes more frequently, if they havn't chatted for a while, it is cull time

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I don't have a huge friends list but I'm defo due a clear out. Far to many dead legs and none meeters just taking up space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never go through my friends list, i don't delete winks and friend requests, i never delete messages either. I'm the laziest fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never go through my friends list, i don't delete winks and friend requests, i never delete messages either. I'm the laziest fabber "
the laziest one eyed fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never go through my friends list, i don't delete winks and friend requests, i never delete messages either. I'm the laziest fabber the laziest one eyed fabber "

Sssshhhh...I've got a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never go through my friends list, i don't delete winks and friend requests, i never delete messages either. I'm the laziest fabber the laziest one eyed fabber

Sssshhhh...I've got a headache "
well I've told you about drinking that meths before

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