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Does straight guys liking anal make them Gay/bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit confused I'm not Gay and have 0 interest in men. Although I have tried. I don't know how I feel about the experience. I like anal play toys ect But I've had people saying that don't make me bi or saying am bi and then not interested.

Any advice could help me

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Q: Does straight guys liking anal make them Gay/bi

A: Nope. Wanting a guy to do it to you would be a different matter. Even so, who really cares as long as you enjoy it!

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no of course not.

does a woman liking oral make her a lesbian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. My hubby loves being rimmed and a finger up his bum and he's 100% straight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does eating a carrot make you a rabbit

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What's an arse for, for goodness sake! Your orientation relates to the genders that you have sexual or romantic interests in.

Some warped people - lets call them vanilla - don't really understand some basic stuff like this.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Any man with a healthy prostate has the potential to enjoy anal penetration.

It has absolutely nothing to do with being gay or bi.

For the record, plenty of gay and bi men do not engage in anal penetration.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, straight guys can like anal and remain straight just as bi guys can hate anal and stay bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's an arse for, for goodness sake! Your orientation relates to the genders that you have sexual or romantic interests in.

Some warped people - lets call them vanilla - don't really understand some basic stuff like this."

Well said...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A penchant for all things anal doesn't define one's sexual orientation.

A better indicator would be how well groomed you are , and whether you find yourself singing along to Elaine Pages Radio show on a Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting a responsive part of your body stimulated by a toy or even a woman does not make you gay/bi.

Fancying men. Wanting sexual contact with them (if you're a man!) makes you either gay or bi.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Your body is your body. As long as you only want women to play with your arse, you're straight.

Slightly kinky, but that's not a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're gay and there's no going back. Start growing your moustache and look out the leathers.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Q: Does straight guys liking anal make them Gay/bi

A: Nope. Wanting a guy to do it to you would be a different matter. Even so, who really cares as long as you enjoy it!

You're welcome "

Exactly this. It's just a diffrent type of sex. If it feels good go for it and who cares even if you were bi or gay. If you enjoy it don't let a label ruin it for you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting a responsive part of your body stimulated by a toy or even a woman does not make you gay/bi.

Fancying men. Wanting sexual contact with them (if you're a man!) makes you either gay or bi. "

I think I'm heading down the bi or gay road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think buying scatter cushions is the first step for a man catching the ghay,

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Wanting a responsive part of your body stimulated by a toy or even a woman does not make you gay/bi.

Fancying men. Wanting sexual contact with them (if you're a man!) makes you either gay or bi.

I think I'm heading down the bi or gay road "

Go for bi, more fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A penchant for all things anal doesn't define one's sexual orientation.

A better indicator would be how well groomed you are , and whether you find yourself singing along to Elaine Pages Radio show on a Sunday "

I watch 'Four Weddings and a Funeral' about 20 times without suspecting that Gareth was part of a gay couple. I need more advice like this on the signs to look out for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a guy to use toys on your arse or stick a finger or tongue up it then yes it's gay/bi.

If you like those things but only want/would allow a woman to do it then that's straight.

Although I've known a few alpha type guys who thought any kind of arse play was gay, yet still positioned themselves in the recovery position to sleep cos they knew once their eyes were shut I'd stick my tongue up their arse.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A bit confused I'm not Gay and have 0 interest in men. Although I have tried. I don't know how I feel about the experience. I like anal play toys ect But I've had people saying that don't make me bi or saying am bi and then not interested.

Any advice could help me "

You are straight

And as long as another man uses his penis in you only for 'research purposes', you will remain straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a guy to use toys on your arse or stick a finger or tongue up it then yes it's gay/bi.

If you like those things but only want/would allow a woman to do it then that's straight.

Although I've known a few alpha type guys who thought any kind of arse play was gay, yet still positioned themselves in the recovery position to sleep cos they knew once their eyes were shut I'd stick my tongue up their arse. "

Can I spend the night with you please?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Nature put our "p" spot up our arse...

Make of that what you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Fancying men makes you gay.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Shed the labels and just enjoy what you enjoy! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit confused I'm not Gay and have 0 interest in men. Although I have tried. I don't know how I feel about the experience. I like anal play toys ect But I've had people saying that don't make me bi or saying am bi and then not interested.

Any advice could help me "
I like a kebab ..dosent make me turkish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does eating a carrot make you a rabbit"

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's an arse for, for goodness sake! Your orientation relates to the genders that you have sexual or romantic interests in.

Some warped people - lets call them vanilla - don't really understand some basic stuff like this."

Well its primary function is for shitting out of!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

What is it that gay or bi men do then?

I mean, you aren't bi if you suck a guy's cock or let him shove a dildo up there.

Do you have to add kissing to the whole thing or is that allowed as long as you don't "fancy men"?

Are you bi/gay if you enjoy the feeling of taking a cock in your ass but wish it was something else ?

OP...liking ass play doesn't make you bi. Just whether you enjoy sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Fancying men makes you gay."

Oh god. I'm gay.

What do I do now then? I'm married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit confused I'm not Gay and have 0 interest in men. Although I have tried. I don't know how I feel about the experience. I like anal play toys ect But I've had people saying that don't make me bi or saying am bi and then not interested.

Any advice could help me "

No... not all bi/gay guys like anal. Why they got the whole top and bottom titles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting a responsive part of your body stimulated by a toy or even a woman does not make you gay/bi.

Fancying men. Wanting sexual contact with them (if you're a man!) makes you either gay or bi.

I think I'm heading down the bi or gay

Go for bi, more fun xxx"

This is very true =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit confused I'm not Gay and have 0 interest in men. Although I have tried. I don't know how I feel about the experience. I like anal play toys ect But I've had people saying that don't make me bi or saying am bi and then not interested.

Any advice could help me "

who cars - if you enjoy it go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman's doing it fine if a guy is ur bi or gay

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Q: Does straight guys liking anal make them Gay/bi

A: Nope. Wanting a guy to do it to you would be a different matter. Even so, who really cares as long as you enjoy it!

You're welcome "

This!

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