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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a random musing here.

You know how men always get called shallow for wanting their ideal fuck to look however they fantasise them to be. Well mostly, because in the time I've been on here I've heard more than enough stories about how some guys get shouted down or dissed by women just because he didn't find her attractive to his taste.

So it kind of gives me a "hypocrite" feeling whenever I look through the Most Fab-ed pics section, and see all the lovelies there, go look their profile up, and eight times out of ten I guarantee you that they'll be like "8 inches or above only/only VWE/well hung/size monster". And don't get me wrong, they're beautiful and definitely fuckable in my books, but whenever I see such requirements being thrown out by the ladies it's an instant turn off!

I am not a VWE male, and I'm sure many guys here won't claim to be either. But it strikes me as a little pretentious that just because you have the looks and the body you can just go off and be all prissy about "requirements" regarding a johnson's size (in the case of a girl) or a girl's dress size (in the case of a guy). Looks and anatomy don't decide a good fuck! And if it's scientifically true that a woman's most sensitive part is at her entrance and not deep within what does size or length have to do with it? Ego boost? "Oh look I'm a sword swallower through and through!"

If only some of those women who are popular on Fab both in pics and in their profiles alone can be more open minded I'm sure they'd find a wider field to select from, and perhaps they'd get to experience something different from the usual wham-bam-ram. As it is, men like me would be more than happy to meet or play with them, but their preconceived notions that size is best already puts a dampener on our enthusiasm since we know full well that size isn't our best asset to offer!

Once again, just a random musing, not a flame thread! Any thoughts, comment below!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some people join here with certain requirements, its what this site is all about, finding something you perhaps couldn't get in the vanilla world. If such things turn you off then I can't see the problem as you're not interested in them and they are not looking for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess some people join here with certain requirements, its what this site is all about, finding something you perhaps couldn't get in the vanilla world. If such things turn you off then I can't see the problem as you're not interested in them and they are not looking for you."

Nah I'm not saying that it's a problem for me specifically, all I'm saying is that guys really don't need to put up with having their manhood judged the way some women do here. There's a thin line between "it's just a preference of mine/that's what I'm after" and "I'm the best on here, so all you men better fit my criteria because few of you are worthy of my beauty and sex!" kind of attitude that some profiles exude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess some people join here with certain requirements, its what this site is all about, finding something you perhaps couldn't get in the vanilla world. If such things turn you off then I can't see the problem as you're not interested in them and they are not looking for you.

Nah I'm not saying that it's a problem for me specifically, all I'm saying is that guys really don't need to put up with having their manhood judged the way some women do here. There's a thin line between "it's just a preference of mine/that's what I'm after" and "I'm the best on here, so all you men better fit my criteria because few of you are worthy of my beauty and sex!" kind of attitude that some profiles exude. "

I wouldn't let it bother you, people can ask for what they want.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?"

I'm not looking to change anything with this thread, it was just a musing simple as that.

As to why I started this when it doesn't bother me specifically, well because as a single male I see many others on here who deserve to get more fun than they're currently having and sometimes such "picky" attitudes from females or couples just make it unnecessarily hard for them.

Nosey me lols. Sticking up for the men here who aren't VWE. Oh deary me I hope I'm not being insensitive here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?

I'm not looking to change anything with this thread, it was just a musing simple as that.

As to why I started this when it doesn't bother me specifically, well because as a single male I see many others on here who deserve to get more fun than they're currently having and sometimes such "picky" attitudes from females or couples just make it unnecessarily hard for them.

Nosey me lols. Sticking up for the men here who aren't VWE. Oh deary me I hope I'm not being insensitive here! "

How do you know how much fun they are having? They may not want to sleep with lots of different people. Read any size thread on here (and there are many) the general opinion is that women prefer Mr Average.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It's not the size of your pencil, it's how you write your name.

Size queens want size. Doesn't matter how good you are in bed, they just want large cocks. I could go negative and suggest that they may be less than tight, but this is Fab and if their choice filters people out, it will upset those not chosen.

I've also seen profiles who say "no bigger than..."

I'm happy with my size (average) and so are most of my meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?

I'm not looking to change anything with this thread, it was just a musing simple as that.

As to why I started this when it doesn't bother me specifically, well because as a single male I see many others on here who deserve to get more fun than they're currently having and sometimes such "picky" attitudes from females or couples just make it unnecessarily hard for them.

Nosey me lols. Sticking up for the men here who aren't VWE. Oh deary me I hope I'm not being insensitive here! "

How do you know they deserve more fun?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?

I'm not looking to change anything with this thread, it was just a musing simple as that.

As to why I started this when it doesn't bother me specifically, well because as a single male I see many others on here who deserve to get more fun than they're currently having and sometimes such "picky" attitudes from females or couples just make it unnecessarily hard for them.

Nosey me lols. Sticking up for the men here who aren't VWE. Oh deary me I hope I'm not being insensitive here! "

You can start a thousand threads sticking up for guys who aren't VWE. It will not change the requirements of people who specify VWE for meets ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a random musing here.

You know how men always get called shallow for wanting their ideal fuck to look however they fantasise them to be. Well mostly, because in the time I've been on here I've heard more than enough stories about how some guys get shouted down or dissed by women just because he didn't find her attractive to his taste.

So it kind of gives me a "hypocrite" feeling whenever I look through the Most Fab-ed pics section, and see all the lovelies there, go look their profile up, and eight times out of ten I guarantee you that they'll be like "8 inches or above only/only VWE/well hung/size monster". And don't get me wrong, they're beautiful and definitely fuckable in my books, but whenever I see such requirements being thrown out by the ladies it's an instant turn off!

I am not a VWE male, and I'm sure many guys here won't claim to be either. But it strikes me as a little pretentious that just because you have the looks and the body you can just go off and be all prissy about "requirements" regarding a johnson's size (in the case of a girl) or a girl's dress size (in the case of a guy). Looks and anatomy don't decide a good fuck! And if it's scientifically true that a woman's most sensitive part is at her entrance and not deep within what does size or length have to do with it? Ego boost? "Oh look I'm a sword swallower through and through!"

If only some of those women who are popular on Fab both in pics and in their profiles alone can be more open minded I'm sure they'd find a wider field to select from, and perhaps they'd get to experience something different from the usual wham-bam-ram. As it is, men like me would be more than happy to meet or play with them, but their preconceived notions that size is best already puts a dampener on our enthusiasm since we know full well that size isn't our best asset to offer!

Once again, just a random musing, not a flame thread! Any thoughts, comment below! "
look their are lots of sayings that get the sheep hooked eg once you've had black you don't go back,BBC only ,VWE only ,bareback only ,no bi guys,I'm not bi ,I don't swallow ,only beautiful people ,verified people only, they are mostly just a thought ,a fantasy ,a variable a chic thing to say but in the moment all these things mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't what they're looking for, so their profile isn't supposed to be attractive to you.

Really is that simple.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Well, in the name of research I have just read every single profile on the first page of most fabbed to see if the OP's claims are correct (I was bored). Out of those, only 2 specify they are looking for VWE guys specifically. Some have preferences clearly stated and far more state they are looking for decent ordinary guys, girls and couples they have a spark with. I wouldn't say that demonstrates that those with hot pics aren't open minded.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Honestly, I'm a bit of a size queen. It's not a 'preference' that the average or smaller guy feel like a sausage in a corridor.

Can't help that. It's not a psychological thing, like thinking only a or b or c is attractive, I just can't feel you in there.

And it really isn't your place to decide on whether women know enough about their own wizards sleeves to settle for a chipolata that thry know won't satisfy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have the right to be as 'pretentious and prissy' as they want - and you are no better for judging them now.

I have lots of criteria that needs to be met before I even consider talking to someone. Why? Because I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're assuming that guys with very large dicks are crap shags or what was it you said, wham bam ram? I've only ever slept with guys with big penis' it's one of my requirements, call me a size princess not quite a size queen as I wouldn't want one larger than 9 inches in length. 7.5 to 9 inches for me, obviously with decent girth too.

It's nothing to do with penetration for me, it's all about cock worship before actual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm so according to you only "perfect" woman get in the most fabbed pics??

I'm a BBW/plus size/fat and often get in the most fabbed pics.

Anyway neverless people are entitled to preferences. Some prefer huge cocks, personally I don't as i have a short cervix and find huge ones painful although I don't mind a thick one.

People will always have preferences whatever they look like, just because someone is unattractive to you doesn't mean that they have to go for mingers

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

The truth of the matter is, Like most hook-up or dating sites. For the Ladies there is considerably more choice of partners than for the Guys.

Because of that they can be as picky as they desire. That doesn't mean they are all having fun.

I used to use POF to meet women. There were always the ladies that thought they were something special as they were getting hundreds of messages. They would reject anything less than an adonis. However when I went back on to POF after 6 months, Those same women were still there.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just a random musing here.

You know how men always get called shallow for wanting their ideal fuck to look however they fantasise them to be. Well mostly, because in the time I've been on here I've heard more than enough stories about how some guys get shouted down or dissed by women just because he didn't find her attractive to his taste.

So it kind of gives me a "hypocrite" feeling whenever I look through the Most Fab-ed pics section, and see all the lovelies there, go look their profile up, and eight times out of ten I guarantee you that they'll be like "8 inches or above only/only VWE/well hung/size monster". And don't get me wrong, they're beautiful and definitely fuckable in my books, but whenever I see such requirements being thrown out by the ladies it's an instant turn off!

I am not a VWE male, and I'm sure many guys here won't claim to be either. But it strikes me as a little pretentious that just because you have the looks and the body you can just go off and be all prissy about "requirements" regarding a johnson's size (in the case of a girl) or a girl's dress size (in the case of a guy). Looks and anatomy don't decide a good fuck! And if it's scientifically true that a woman's most sensitive part is at her entrance and not deep within what does size or length have to do with it? Ego boost? "Oh look I'm a sword swallower through and through!"

If only some of those women who are popular on Fab both in pics and in their profiles alone can be more open minded I'm sure they'd find a wider field to select from, and perhaps they'd get to experience something different from the usual wham-bam-ram. As it is, men like me would be more than happy to meet or play with them, but their preconceived notions that size is best already puts a dampener on our enthusiasm since we know full well that size isn't our best asset to offer!

Once again, just a random musing, not a flame thread! Any thoughts, comment below! "

Why was this thread created? What's the point? If people you find attractive, have a preference you don't meet, move on to the next and don't dwell on it.

Just because a person you see as being hot thinks you're not, why are they prissy?

Why aren't people entitled to ask for what they want?

So many questions so little time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it strikes me as a little pretentious that just because you have the looks and the body you can just go off and be all prissy about "requirements" regarding a johnson's size (in the case of a girl) or a girl's dress size "

sorry but anyone has the choice of sleeping with people they find attractive.

why is it pretentious if the person saying it is someone you consider to have "the looks and the body"?

secondly


"If only some of those women who are popular on Fab both in pics and in their profiles alone can be more open minded I'm sure they'd find a wider field to select from, and perhaps they'd get to experience something different from the usual wham-bam-ram. As it is, men like me would be more than happy to meet or play with them, but their preconceived notions that size is best already puts a dampener on our enthusiasm since we know full well that size isn't our best asset to offer! "

why do you think a well endowed guy can only do "wham bam"?

Does having a small cock somehow make you a better lover ?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Just a random musing here.

You know how men always get called shallow for wanting their ideal fuck to look however they fantasise them to be. Well mostly, because in the time I've been on here I've heard more than enough stories about how some guys get shouted down or dissed by women just because he didn't find her attractive to his taste.

So it kind of gives me a "hypocrite" feeling whenever I look through the Most Fab-ed pics section, and see all the lovelies there, go look their profile up, and eight times out of ten I guarantee you that they'll be like "8 inches or above only/only VWE/well hung/size monster". And don't get me wrong, they're beautiful and definitely fuckable in my books, but whenever I see such requirements being thrown out by the ladies it's an instant turn off!

I am not a VWE male, and I'm sure many guys here won't claim to be either. But it strikes me as a little pretentious that just because you have the looks and the body you can just go off and be all prissy about "requirements" regarding a johnson's size (in the case of a girl) or a girl's dress size (in the case of a guy). Looks and anatomy don't decide a good fuck! And if it's scientifically true that a woman's most sensitive part is at her entrance and not deep within what does size or length have to do with it? Ego boost? "Oh look I'm a sword swallower through and through!"

If only some of those women who are popular on Fab both in pics and in their profiles alone can be more open minded I'm sure they'd find a wider field to select from, and perhaps they'd get to experience something different from the usual wham-bam-ram. As it is, men like me would be more than happy to meet or play with them, but their preconceived notions that size is best already puts a dampener on our enthusiasm since we know full well that size isn't our best asset to offer!

Once again, just a random musing, not a flame thread! Any thoughts, comment below! "

Long story short, the women you want don't want you = whiny post about small dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, in the name of research I have just read every single profile on the first page of most fabbed to see if the OP's claims are correct (I was bored). Out of those, only 2 specify they are looking for VWE guys specifically. Some have preferences clearly stated and far more state they are looking for decent ordinary guys, girls and couples they have a spark with. I wouldn't say that demonstrates that those with hot pics aren't open minded."
hey your figures looking amazing by the way and my addition to what you've studied is ,the beautiful people here especially women have so much choice they pass you over on the flick of a block button, its rare to find a beautiful person on here who will interact or chat and when I say that I mean a conversation not just yes no and maybe ,these beautiful people can have demands because they are in demand and because they are here and can ask for pictorial evidence ,if you were meeting someone in the real world you don't get to see the size of their apendage then ,its all down to look and personality that's how social websites differ in that people can demand things they wouldn't ordinarily get access to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If guys want to meet women who have those specific requirements, then they do need to put up with having their manhood a judged, whether they like it or not.

Your thread won't change that. And if it doesn't bother you specifically, why start the thread?"
Because it's his opinion. So why comment on it he's entitled to it. Mr W

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