FabSwingers.com forum: Being too nice

By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets

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By *aidback pairCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "
how do you mean" being too nice?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean in a sickly sweet vomit inducing way then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "
its hindered me toughen up and start insulting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find offering money & gifts doesn't really pay any dividends so now i'm just trying to catch them with my caveman personality...club to the head

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Be possibly too polite or not forward enough ..

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Depends. If you blatantly arse kiss every woman on here they will notice.

I'm not sure anyone thinks politeness is a bad thing. How can u be too polite??

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

That's away to go .. I'm certainly toughing up and poss throw a few insults in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough .."

The right people for you will like your approach. It won't be for everybody.

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By *aidback pairCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't be too forward, read the profiles and see what they like, don't just ask for a meet and a f..k.x

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By *aidback pairCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find offering money & gifts doesn't really pay any dividends so now i'm just trying to catch them with my caveman personality...club to the head

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you can buy me gifts.x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough .."

Well, which is better?

"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?

"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal"

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By *aidback pairCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough ..

Well, which is better?

"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?

Or neither of them would get my attention.lol

"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be possibly too polite or not forward enough ..

Well, which is better?

"Hey ya flaccid loser, can I jam me vag-spear up ya wife's cum-bucket'?

"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""
see this is the approach that gets results

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "

Do you think you're too nice because you don't get replies to your messages?

If so, then that nothing to do with being too nice, but because there are hundreds of guys competing with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's away to go .. I'm certainly toughing up and poss throw a few insults in "

Yeh of course insulting people will win them over

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Haha I like both methods of approach ..

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

True I get the loads of guys going for same woman .. I get responses just not a great deal

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Insults Defo not a positive way to go .. Only as abit banter thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find offering money & gifts doesn't really pay any dividends so now i'm just trying to catch them with my caveman personality...club to the head

you can buy me gifts.x"

So can your wife Mr! Leave it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insults Defo not a positive way to go .. Only as abit banter thou "

No insults...but there's always time to get in sluts

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"Insults Defo not a positive way to go .. Only as abit banter thou

No insults...but there's always time to get in sluts

Very very true, plenty I hope

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Insults Defo not a positive way to go .. Only as abit banter thou

No insults...but there's always time to get in sluts

I saw what you did there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!

It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.

Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!

Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!

It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can

manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.

Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!

Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!

Why thank you for the advice..

I like to say i am very naughty behind closed doors ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!

It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.

Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!

Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!

Well said. I agree completely here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "

Just be yourself...

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets

Just be yourself..."

That I am trying , with mixed results

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Too" anything is not a good thing. The word means "to a higher degree than is desireable" so yes...it is a bad thing.

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By *ot Stud Stu OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

""Too" anything is not a good thing. The word means "to a higher degree than is desireable" so yes...it is a bad thing."

Why thanks for the advice

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I don't get the too nice?

Not sure how being nice would hinder anyone.

For us being nice is the 2nd requirement.

First we need to like the look of you, secondly we need to find you pleasant and easy going.

Now there is a difference between being nice and being mute.

If you don't say hi or talk then chances are we would never end up in bed with you. But if you are prepared to talk and chat like a normal human being, without any expectations of pressure to fuck. Well your chances go up massively from that.

I can't speak for everyone, but being nice and friendly is a massive turn on for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal""

HAHAHAHHAHA OH GOD. This is MINT. I'd kill to find out if you managed to get ANYONE at all using that line. Would make for an epic Fab story!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "

Do you really mean "nice" or...."shy"

There's a big difference even though they're often mixed up in guys' minds on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're nice as in a sycophantic simpering twit then yes that would hamper you in my book. But if you're just nice as in not a cock, then you're fine.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

But I personally agree there is no such thing as too nice.

Some people have low self esteem and allow others to steamroller over them. Not sure that is too nice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Dear couple, please may I take this opportunity to advise you of the availability and willingness of my penile equipment to slide up your lovely wife's vaginal canal"

HAHAHAHHAHA OH GOD. This is MINT. I'd kill to find out if you managed to get ANYONE at all using that line. Would make for an epic Fab story! "

You're welcome to use it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I personally agree there is no such thing as too nice.

Some people have low self esteem and allow others to steamroller over them. Not sure that is too nice.

It's also equally unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bout just be yourself and stop trying to please everyone...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Firm and assured but compassionate and empathetic is ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sometimes works best (and always wins me over!) is to be warm, polite and interesting on here - with the clear option to switch once the bedroom door closes...!

It's nice to have a guy who can go into "caveman" attitude in private (by agreement!), hold me down, spank my bum and ride me hard - but who can manage to be polite and respectful at all other times.

Unfortunately, this seems to be too close to multi-tasking for most guys - honestly, starting off with the crude tarzan role doesn't always make you look your best...!

Be nice now - you can be naughty later...!!!

Well said. I agree completely here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How bout just be yourself and stop trying to please everyone..."

this is a good point, you'll get the meets you want and enjoy them and so will the other person you're with.

guys pretty much have to be polite to me to make me interested in them, but i don't talk to a lot of guys any more anyway. loads of things turn me off even when they're being polite also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "

90% of messages we get dont stand out and are utterly boring

Hi im a profesional well mannered gentleman.hard working and reliable .....bla bla bla

1 dont really care if your profesional we want to fuck not write a will.

Hard working again its not a cv

So yeah in our opinion you can be too polite.we want exitement not a cup of tea and a scone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets "

The only thing I would say is just be yourself. On here there are loads more guys than ladies so your messages are going to be in heavy competition. My personal philosophy is if people don't like me for who I am, the way I am then that's their problem. So, if you're a bit cheeky be cheeky. I am!! Lol. Just be yourself and go with the flow!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Genuine politeness is lovely and is something I appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being to nice a good thing or does it hinder getting any meets

Yeah this

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