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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Couples reactions only please.

We were winked yesterday a fairly rare event for us given we are no longer in the first flush of youth as it were and...

Gorgeous lady leaning naked against a gleaming very expensive sports car. Boobs pert and arguably assisted to be so.

We took one look and both of us instantly said nope not for us way to flash.

Ever experienced that sort of reaction your selves?

L2

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've looked at pictures and realised that the people in them won't suit us nor we them but I don't think we've ever thought of anybody as too flash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a good few couples wink chat fab our pics but as soon as we accept their friends request they stop mailing

Obviously we're not everyone's cup of tea but we have enough public pics to show that (check our profile you'll c what we mean )

Just wish ppl would be honest

But yeah we have thought some couples too hot for us and way out our league

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yeah, there's this one couple in Edinburgh that he keeps messaging, he's very interested in meeting the female. They're very fit and definitely won't look twice at me.

They read our messages but never reply, I eventually removed them from our friends list because there was no point being there if they wouldn't speak. I've kept them hot listed though so he can still have a good perv lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, there's this one couple in Edinburgh that he keeps messaging, he's very interested in meeting the female. They're very fit and definitely won't look twice at me.

They read our messages but never reply, I eventually removed them from our friends list because there was no point being there if they wouldn't speak. I've kept them hot listed though so he can still have a good perv lol

Don't mind a perve after all we wouldn't post pics if didn't want ppl perving over us , say us but its Mrs gets the most fabs , gotta say had s look at yours and like my muchly

"

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By *eally Filthy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Couples reactions only please.

We were winked yesterday a fairly rare event for us given we are no longer in the first flush of youth as it were and...

Gorgeous lady leaning naked against a gleaming very expensive sports car. Boobs pert and arguably assisted to be so.

We took one look and both of us instantly said nope not for us way to flash.

Ever experienced that sort of reaction your selves?

L2"

I understand your immediate reaction but what did you have to lose by just having a quick email chat? You may have lost out on meeting some great people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I've been approached many times on here by people who I've thought are way out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because people are beautiful doesn't mean they are unattainable xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had a good few couples wink chat fab our pics but as soon as we accept their friends request they stop mailing

Obviously we're not everyone's cup of tea but we have enough public pics to show that (check our profile you'll c what we mean )

Just wish ppl would be honest

But yeah we have thought some couples too hot for us and way out our league "

Same

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Never thought of anybody as too flash or out of our league. There are only two classes of fabbers for us: Fanciable and not Fanciable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because people are beautiful doesn't mean they are unattainable xxx "

It is if you'd spend the entire time feeling self conscious

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Yeah, there's this one couple in Edinburgh that he keeps messaging, he's very interested in meeting the female. They're very fit and definitely won't look twice at me.

They read our messages but never reply, I eventually removed them from our friends list because there was no point being there if they wouldn't speak. I've kept them hot listed though so he can still have a good perv lol

Don't mind a perve after all we wouldn't post pics if didn't want ppl perving over us , say us but its Mrs gets the most fabs , gotta say had s look at yours and like my muchly

"

Thank you

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Just because people are beautiful doesn't mean they are unattainable xxx "

True, doesn't mean they'll be a good meet either. Was disappointed by a guy recently who I thought would be great

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Never thought of anybody as too flash or out of our league. There are only two classes of fabbers for us: Fanciable and not Fanciable. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes I do it all the time, I get loads of messages from guys who I look at and think.....surely he's having a laugh there's no way hes going to like me

Just send them a polite thanks but no thanks reply

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Never thought of anybody as too flash or out of our league. There are only two classes of fabbers for us: Fanciable and not Fanciable. "

yup got it in one but then us Yorkies reknown for being straight talkers lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I tend not to worry about things like this. If they want to say hello then they are interested.

It's a big positive of swinging clubs that you don't see the car that people arrive in, you don't worry as much about will they like me or won't they.

We've played with couples from 19 - 56. Wealthier and less wealthy. People into high brow culture people into sport. In the end none of that mattered.

We have 2 criteria.

Do we fancy them.

Is there some chemistry when talking to them.

Everything else is irrelevant, it's not an arranged marriage we are trying to organise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God yes I do it all the time, I get loads of messages from guys who I look at and think.....surely he's having a laugh there's no way hes going to like me

Just send them a polite thanks but no thanks reply"

Your terrible for selling yourself short, your fookin' beautiful so stop it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt intimidated by pics or profiles. However, if we're messaged by someone and their profile or pics aren't for us we decline and move on, and if anyone should feel that way about us then we hope they'd do the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand in one way, but I don't think we've felt intimidated. We might have thought - blimey they're gorgeous, but we all find beauty in different forms.

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