FabSwingers.com forum: Bi curious sides

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A question to ask is, what is the best and easiest way to say about exploring your bi sides any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question to ask is, what is the best and easiest way to say about exploring your bi sides any ideas? "

Putting a dick in your mouth? Sorry have I not understood the question...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was always straight and had an mmf and didn't know the guy was bi.

I'm bisexual by accident I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always bi sexual, now I'm straight. What's the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I popped a cock in my mouth

Really though, I waited until the right situation arose with the right people and it came up naturally...let it be organic.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

As Christos says, wait for the right situation.

In my case I am not attracted to me at all but I know cocks are fun, after all I have one myself. My wife used to have a regular lover who was bi, and one time during an MMF I went down on him, figuring "it's now or never". And yes, I enjoyed it and have done similar on a few occasions since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all"

Don't be so harsh on yourself

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself "

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all""

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I did wonder how people or couples experience these ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I did wonder how people or couples experience these ideas "

Ah, i remember sucking my first Dick...it stank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bi, I am just straight(ish) lol

Honestly though I would say I am bi-oral as I enjoy sucking a cock on occasion with the right person and often its both of us pleasuring a cock at once.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I did wonder how people or couples experience these ideas

Ah, i remember sucking my first Dick...it stank.

I remember my first, I deepthroated it straight away and felt like a fucking champ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I wanted to be a girl at 5yrs old. I knew I liked boys as much as I liked girls at 12yrs old.

I love fucking girls as their fella fucks me

Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply I have thought about playing with another guy, but wasn't sure how to approach it, but will keep a eye open for the right moment and person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want it to be right so not to put you off anything in the future.

I remember my first time. I'd been talking to a guy online (local) via another website for a while as it was always something I wanted to try. He asked me around numerous times and I declined. Then one day I just thought lets do this. I won't know unless I try it. So went around. We gave each other head and then he fucked me with a dildo. It felt amazing.

I really love women but every no and again I like to stray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set up a profile on fabguys. Then chat to a few guys and see if owt takes your fancy. I've always said is easier for a guy to get sex with another guy than it is to find a woman. Men are such sluts as a rule! Lol

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fucking girls as their fella fucks me

Just sayin

Yes, I can now confirm how good this is.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fucking girls as their fella fucks me

Just sayin

Yes, I can now confirm how good this is.

Claire

XX"

That is on our to do list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd been bi-curious since before time and other than kissing a couple of girls whilst d*unk had chosen not to pursue it any further.

I'd had plenty of offers but because I didn't fancy them I questioned whether I was infact bi.

Fact of the matter is I am just as picky with women as I am with men, absolutely nothing wrong with that, I just had to find the right one!

So, after a pint at the pub I plucked up the courage to message a girl I'd been talking to and tell her I was on my way to her house to make her cum

it was a do now or don't do moment. I fancied her but was just so scared

Turns out I did the right thing and I'm very glad I waited for her and that time.

Don't rush yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

Nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

Nothing wrong with that "

Agreed, hence the wink

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By *eeDee25Woman
over a year ago

crook

How many secretly bi men would tell their wives? And what would the concequences be.my daughter was 15 wen she heard bout her stepdad meeting a local man. I told my ex to leave and the marriage was ova.howeva can people with a bi partner (the man) make it work. And how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

Nothing wrong with that

Agreed, hence the wink "

And I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many secretly bi men would tell their wives? And what would the concequences be.my daughter was 15 wen she heard bout her stepdad meeting a local man. I told my ex to leave and the marriage was ova.howeva can people with a bi partner (the man) make it work. And how? "

Sorry but why couldn't it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but why couldn't it work?"

My thoughts exactly. I think there are two separate things going on in the post. It sounds like there was a guy cheating. Cheatin' is cheatin' - I don't see what difference it makes whether he cheated with a man or woman?

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By *ony5Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

That will be me then

I don't mind sucking the odd cock if the mood is right and have a slight thing for TV/TS's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

On that note, I am sick of seeing profiles saying "up for anything" - OK I'd like to fuck your ass with a prosthetic leg a la Marilyn Manson. They never seem to be up for that though...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I make it clear what I am up for, and what I am not.

as for my wife and i, we are completely honest and open about our Sexualities and desires. I don't see how it's a problem. I occasionally play with men in group situations and while my wife prefers not to watch, she is aware and ok with it.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"A question to ask is, what is the best and easiest way to say about exploring your bi sides any ideas? "

Arrange a meet with a couple where the male is also Bi-Curious and you can all experiment together

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By *inky Leeds 30sMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I would imagine first of all set your profile to bi curious.

I've met bi couples and had my best meets doing that.

We're on a swingers site, some people won't meet bi or curious guys, others will.

If you meet a bi guy or bi couple then things happen.

Be yourself. Life's too short

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

On that note, I am sick of seeing profiles saying "up for anything" - OK I'd like to fuck your ass with a prosthetic leg a la Marilyn Manson. They never seem to be up for that though... "

inflating dildo, yes. Prosthetic leg, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no different to a couple where the fem is bi.

I don't actually like the terms bi, straight or gay, at the end of the day, we're all just "fuckers". The human race is a sexual being so why shouldn't we give in to our desires? If two(or more) people are attracted, they should go for it & to hell with any tags or stigma!

Happy fucking everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was secretly bi for thirty years. Kept it to myself and, apart from a d*unken fumble at 30 when I was single, I never explored the possibility.

When talking about a reconciliation with my now wife, I decided I had to be 100% honest for once in my life if it was going to work.

For me it worked out.

The barriers have slowly dropped away and now all four of my adult kids know, and most of my friends, that I'm bi and transgender.

Coming out with the latter wasn't easy as I was struggling with what I actually felt myself. Too many years with it bottled away. (About 40)

We are what we are. We can't change it. If we hide it our personalities get distorted. I was tetchy and unhappy all my life.

Apparently I'm more approachable and relaxed and more importantly; happy.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Happy to hear you are now able to be yourself

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals

Like the poster above, I bottled mine away for a long time. I met my current partner, told her I was curious. I left it bottled up for a long time again. Eventualy, we had the chat, after having some crappy life events. We started trying the things we said we would, and see how it went.

She loves playing with pussy now and then, and I love the feeling when a cock is throbbing in my hands. Good luck, with whatever happens.

You'll never know if...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like the poster above, I bottled mine away for a long time. I met my current partner, told her I was curious. I left it bottled up for a long time again. Eventualy, we had the chat, after having some crappy life events. We started trying the things we said we would, and see how it went.

She loves playing with pussy now and then, and I love the feeling when a cock is throbbing in my hands. Good luck, with whatever happens.

You'll never know if..."

The last line of this is just so true.

Life is way too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be scared, denying who I was

Acting straight but then going out to the gay fish clubs

Dancing with the Marlins making out with the all the Snappers

I'd take a Salmon home and work that Coddle Fin for hours

But now I'm out and I'm free to love what I want

Be it Yellow Fin or Bass or them trout in Vermont

I slapped that Holland ass, make that Grouper butt shake

I'll come to your house and have an orgy in your motherfuckin' fish tank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She loves playing with pussy now and then, and I love the feeling when a cock is throbbing in my hands. Good luck, with whatever happens.

You'll never know if..."

Sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not attracted to me at all

Don't be so harsh on yourself

LOL

It was meant to say "I am not attracted to men at all"

Yeah you ain't bi you're just horny with no limits! Welcome to 2015

A.k.a. a slut

Oh I'm definitely a slut

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