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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

Hope you are all well! I'm pretty new to this site and swinging in general so if anyone could help with some pointers on how to get started please fire away! Be as honest and brutal with the profile as you please as its a first attempt without really knowing what's best to say/not say!

Look forward to chatting to some of you

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/11/15 20:49:21]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not allowed to post kik usernames on here btw, you coukd get a ban for that.

Profile, nice to see no cock pics but you need more detail in your profile. What you are looking for, likes, dislikes etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Phew thanks for the quick heads up so I could delete the kik name! Good to know thank you fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew thanks for the quick heads up so I could delete the kik name! Good to know thank you fantasy "

No problem

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Naked with socks on noooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Phew thanks for the quick heads up so I could delete the kik name! Good to know thank you fantasy

No problem "

Thanks for the heads up about more detail as well, I'll be sure to add that in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naked with socks on noooooooooooo "

Heyyyy be gentle it's November and I live in an old pre-war London house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type more about yourself what you like to do and hobbies and many might wonder why you cant accommodate, most of all patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Type more about yourself what you like to do and hobbies and many might wonder why you cant accommodate, most of all patience is the key."

I live at a family home, hence the reason why I can't accommodate #LondonHousePrices

Appreciate the hobbies/likes/dislikes advice though, thank you!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Being younger isn't necessarily an attractor on here....more about you as a person and bear in mind what is in the back grounds of photos. You've already alienated the ocd people with that scrumpled towel.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Naked with socks on noooooooooooo

Heyyyy be gentle it's November and I live in an old pre-war London house"

You need a woman to snuggle up with then

So the socks kept you warm even when naked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being younger isn't necessarily an attractor on here....more about you as a person and bear in mind what is in the back grounds of photos. You've already alienated the ocd people with that scrumpled towel. "

Haha if someone is that OCD they're probably not the person for me either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naked with socks on noooooooooooo

Heyyyy be gentle it's November and I live in an old pre-war London house

You need a woman to snuggle up with then

So the socks kept you warm even when naked? "

I do indeed

Haha extremities are the first to get cold you know

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think you should just join in with interacting on fab, in the forums, in the chat rooms, go to socials, clubs, have a sympathy wank with a guy called Shagtonight in Penge and spend a while looking and learning then rewrite your profile so it reflects your personality. Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you should just join in with interacting on fab, in the forums, in the chat rooms, go to socials, clubs, have a sympathy wank with a guy called Shagtonight in Penge and spend a while looking and learning then rewrite your profile so it reflects your personality. Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve? "

Thanks for the (slightly arrogant) advice haha I can see confidence goes a long way here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve? "

He's closer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should just join in with interacting on fab, in the forums, in the chat rooms, go to socials, clubs, have a sympathy wank with a guy called Shagtonight in Penge and spend a while looking and learning then rewrite your profile so it reflects your personality. Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve? "
lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve?

He's closer?"

I like you already

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve?

He's closer?

I like you already "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think you should just join in with interacting on fab, in the forums, in the chat rooms, go to socials, clubs, have a sympathy wank with a guy called Shagtonight in Penge and spend a while looking and learning then rewrite your profile so it reflects your personality. Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve?

Thanks for the (slightly arrogant) advice haha I can see confidence goes a long way here "

It's not arrogance - it's not me per se, I said it to make it relevant as I'm posting. Change my name to any mans name. Find your USP - why would a lady choose you over (insert a mans name)? Answer that, and you'll find fab an easy place to be.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think you should just join in with interacting on fab, in the forums, in the chat rooms, go to socials, clubs, have a sympathy wank with a guy called Shagtonight in Penge and spend a while looking and learning then rewrite your profile so it reflects your personality. Ank yourself this and you'll be well away: why should a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve? lol."
bazinga

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha thanks for the advice Steve of Brighton (thought I'd go a bit medieval). I shall try and make myself sound amazing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Haha thanks for the advice Steve of Brighton (thought I'd go a bit medieval). I shall try and make myself sound amazing "

Be careful though. If something seems too good to be true it usually is

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Takes a while but just to Fab photos of people and joining in forum chats and then people will start looking at your profile and away you go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha thanks for the advice Steve of Brighton (thought I'd go a bit medieval). I shall try and make myself sound amazing

Be careful though. If something seems too good to be true it usually is "

So maybe don't mention the fact I'm a dragon riding ninja?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Takes a while but just to Fab photos of people and joining in forum chats and then people will start looking at your profile and away you go "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more advice anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile just updated with more about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your text is fine but in the light of your "freshly shaved" status update, I would get rid of the first photo. The bathroom setting is somewhat off-putting and, at least for me, so are the pubes.

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