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By *ed01 OP   Man
over a year ago

happy ville

Im finding it hard to take big cocks and am wondering what i could do as its very painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding it hard to take big cocks and am wondering what i could do as its very painful"

Take small cocks instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By big cocks do you mean long or thick, as they are 2 different problems, long is usually angle and thick is being relaxed and a stretching problem. always use tons of lube and buy different sized dildo's then practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that where poppers help?

Mr

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By *ed01 OP   Man
over a year ago

happy ville


"By big cocks do you mean long or thick, as they are 2 different problems, long is usually angle and thick is being relaxed and a stretching problem. always use tons of lube and buy different sized dildo's then practice ;-

Its thickness "

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By *ed01 OP   Man
over a year ago

happy ville


"Im finding it hard to take big cocks and am wondering what i could do as its very painful

Take small cocks instead? "

Most guys that reply have thick 9 inchers and i end up disapointing them ....

They only get a bj to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding it hard to take big cocks and am wondering what i could do as its very painful

Take small cocks instead?

Most guys that reply have thick 9 inchers and i end up disapointing them ....

They only get a bj to finish"

If you are finding something is painful,uncomfortable and you are deriving no pleasure from it,then I would say,,,don't do it.If your partner is physically incompatible with you and is so selfish that they won't take that and your feelings into account,then maybe that partner is not for you.

Maybe try to find someone who can be a bit more understanding of your needs and desires as well as their own.

Practically,I believe that trying to 'train' the sphincter muscles with increasing sizes of toys is only of limited value,relaxation is far more helpful for accepting larger insertions,in my opinion.,,,it can be,understandably,difficult to relax in the knowledge that 'this is going to hurt'.A bit of gentleness,patience and understanding from your partner would do a lot to help.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Im finding it hard to take big cocks and am wondering what i could do as its very painful

Take small cocks instead? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always use plenty of lube and take it doggy style, but don't let the fellow just ram it in, take control and you push back on to his cock at a inch at a time, allowing you to adjust.Then when you are ready allow it all inside you

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

As others have said, lube is very important. I really enjoy anal but find it can hurt sometimes and have even bled after it once. Best thing I find is to take time to relax and get in to it. Other foreplay with just a finger and then add more fingers as you get more in to it. Then when you're ready just going slowly. Just the head then a little more, building up. Def the best bet though is trying to find less girthy subjects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By big cocks do you mean long or thick, as they are 2 different problems, long is usually angle and thick is being relaxed and a stretching problem. always use tons of lube and buy different sized dildo's then practice ;-

Its thickness "

then need to train yourself and poppers will defo help you relax you. And yes someone to help you through and trust to take it easy will always help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often found that a large (length) cock, when going at it fairly hard, can be uncomfortable when in the doggy position. In a missionary or spooning, its been far more pleasurable.

If its girth that's the issue, then you would do best training yourself with fingers or toys, on your own, as you will be more relaxed and relaxation is the key. Training of your ass isn't about stretching it permanently, its about learning to control it. The ass is usually reacting to something its not used to, and will involuntarily contract. Training allows you to practise mind over matter and overcome the reflex action, when you want to.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Lots of things you can do instead of bum fucking,use your imagination..

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