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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone help me, can you be honest and tell me where I am going wrong please,,, Profile change? Pics? What I'm looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe too many cock pics? You got a nice cock btw so can see why you're proud of it, just can put some people off when all you have is cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too negative .

Offer positives - like where and how you can meet .

Do some better pics - more torso / full body .

Say what you have to offer , and what you are after .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Can anyone help me, can you be honest and tell me where I am going wrong please,,, Profile change? Pics? What I'm looking for? "

You've got the James Bond reference wrong - it's 'You only live twice'

How about going to an adult club? Or a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 pics all of your cock. Your profile does nothing to entice people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks and I'd have face pics but Iv found 2 relatives on here lol

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Think a few more cock pics might help

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Yip, pics need to go man, also cant accommodate or travel, that leaves about a one mile radius around your house, can you not get a train or something?

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

You don't necessarily need face pics, just something other than your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks and I'd have face pics but Iv found 2 relatives on here lol "

You don't need to put face pics up, just maybe lose some cock pics to private or friends, add body pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guy, I have taken your advice and gonna have a good sort out, happy fabbing

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

My advice: Profile looks fine.

Try putting your name down & go along to one of the Socials in your area dude. They're always in a public place, there's never any pressure, & you get to put faces to ID's you know from the Forums. Once you start to know folk with similar interests, wants & requirements you'll soon build up your Verifications & your social network. It also increases confidence in some, but more importantly let's people know you're genuine, a real person, & that you're not someone who thinks the site is a form of Instashag or quick gratification. Good luck.

Random

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Theo Ralking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Still has too many cock pics for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm liking the pic changes so far.

this guy needs a subtle oral fixated name i reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote a profile for someone earlier but he's now unlos. Altered it slightly. Feel free to have it Theo.

Congratulations, you’ve made it through to another profile! (And more cock pictures). Keep going though, you are doing great.

Firstly, I smell really good. The first part of you I shall penetrate will be the nostril. I always wear brands I've bought at the local market. Tommy Onefinger, Kevin Klein, Sean Paul Gaultier.

Secondly, I'm incredibly successful professionally, for example, I've got my own leather bound wallet and Nectar card so you won't go without.

Finally, I'm fully free of sexually transmitted infections.

I’m so proud of you for carrying on, when sometimes you didn’t want to. Happy whatever day this is when you're reading my profile.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's probably your gender, change that and you'll get loads of offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's probably your gender, change that and you'll get loads of offers. "

Yes - the biggest problem of all, being a single male on here. All say "Aaaahhhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The username.

The avatar picture (always keep the profile pic classy)

The underpants shot and the cockpit shot Tbh.

Go with more body shots a less childish name.

Don't go into so much detail about why you can't accomm it's just a downer.

Be happy, be open and be awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wrote a profile for someone earlier but he's now unlos. Altered it slightly. Feel free to have it Theo.

Congratulations, you’ve made it through to another profile! (And more cock pictures). Keep going though, you are doing great.

Firstly, I smell really good. The first part of you I shall penetrate will be the nostril. I always wear brands I've bought at the local market. Tommy Onefinger, Kevin Klein, Sean Paul Gaultier.

Secondly, I'm incredibly successful professionally, for example, I've got my own leather bound wallet and Nectar card so you won't go without.

Finally, I'm fully free of sexually transmitted infections.

I’m so proud of you for carrying on, when sometimes you didn’t want to. Happy whatever day this is when you're reading my profile."

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

If you're going to include aphorisms (and I see no need for them at all) choose some that may have some relevance to your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any profile photo of a cock and I won't even click on the profile, usually means there'll be more cock photos on it...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me, can you be honest and tell me where I am going wrong please,,, Profile change? Pics? What I'm looking for? "

Limit the cock pictures to a maximum of one and include some pictures of your torso.

Please check your grammar and spelling. It is very bad. Sentences end with a full-stop, not with a comma.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"If you're going to include aphorisms (and I see no need for them at all) choose some that may have some relevance to your profile"

Just googled 'aphorisms' and I agree !

I'm also going to try to drop the word into as many everyday conversations as I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I need to change my name,my pics,profile text and show veris and yet I still seem to get by ok.. You gotta go with what's natural to you,if you start posting in a way that's not you,pics or texts then people will see through it as soon as you meet.. If you can put up with having to look at the amount of cock pics these poor women (sic) have to look at,thumb through some of the other male profiles for ideas certainly but remember no matter how good you can pose,they're still gonna meet the real you in the end..

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"If you're going to include aphorisms (and I see no need for them at all) choose some that may have some relevance to your profile

Just googled 'aphorisms' and I agree !

I'm also going to try to drop the word into as many everyday conversations as I can."

Lol, I did too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your own instinct read through your profile and see if there's anything you might want to take out or add

Mr

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

You really need to sell yourself women and couples have a lot of choices on the site. Make yourself look interesting and somebody that they'd actually want to meet and maybe leave a little mystery instead of showing everything. What people forget is this site is no different then dating you still have to have some sort of connection to have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any suggestions to a new profile name

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any suggestions to a new profile name "

Andrew?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You spelled 'tongue' wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any suggestions to a new profile name

Andrew? "

Hahaha there's always one

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Maxim Oraleus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bertie Wooster

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