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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys and Girls

I just wondered if I could ask you to take a look at my profile and tell me "what it says" or "how it reads" to you.

I have been on here for 7 weeks now and trying to separate yourself as one of the genuine single guys on here is very difficult - I have had a few meets but they are via chat because people can get to know that your genuine.

So if anyone would like to tell me what they think I should try or if anything on my profile could put you off - then please tell me

Thanks in Advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuck ET off the bike for a start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats Not ET.... its ME

Not sure who the guy on the bike is. haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the ET pic, i am very happy since i've seen that and have no advice for you coz ET.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep the ET pic, i am very happy since i've seen that and have no advice for you coz ET."

Im glad ET makes u happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ET picky could work for you in a humorous way, but the flip side it could crash and burn you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ET picky could work for you in a humorous way, but the flip side it could crash and burn you !"

So are we saying keep the pic on profile but change it from my display pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ET picky could work for you in a humorous way, but the flip side it could crash and burn you !

So are we saying keep the pic on profile but change it from my display pic? "

I'd bin it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like the ET pic... made me smile.

Still not everyone has my sense of humour but I don't think you can go far wrong by making people smile.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

At least hide it in friends pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it...gives people something to talk about with you also.

Probably only me likes it really.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Thats Not ET.... its ME

Not sure who the guy on the bike is. haha. "

Oh you're good! Maybe too good?

Keep this man away from our womenfolk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might need to start a new thread purely for the E.T pic ... "keep or lose" lol

Im trying to understand why something as simple as a pic with E.T is so criminally damaging on here?? haha its not like he is naked!

As some people seem to understand it was simply some light humour....

Is there anything else on my profile anyone else would change?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats Not ET.... its ME

Not sure who the guy on the bike is. haha.

Oh you're good! Maybe too good?

Keep this man away from our womenfolk!

"

The best bit... only my friends have seen my pic with the HoneyMonster!!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I might need to start a new thread purely for the E.T pic ... "keep or lose" lol

Im trying to understand why something as simple as a pic with E.T is so criminally damaging on here?? haha its not like he is naked!

As some people seem to understand it was simply some light humour....

Is there anything else on my profile anyone else would change? "

Mate, if the women love it or it makes them laugh, that's all that matters.

Like the lady above said, it's ok because ET!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might need to start a new thread purely for the E.T pic ... "keep or lose" lol

Im trying to understand why something as simple as a pic with E.T is so criminally damaging on here?? haha its not like he is naked!

As some people seem to understand it was simply some light humour....

Is there anything else on my profile anyone else would change?

Mate, if the women love it or it makes them laugh, that's all that matters.

Like the lady above said, it's ok because ET! "

Great Advice.

Cheers.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

A couple of things, but I am a pedant ... hygiene is not free as soap etc costs money, as does water these days. Also, if age is not an issue, why stop at 45 .... wouldn't be the type of profile that attracts us for a number of reasons as you don't fit our preferences, so the advice is general.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I like your profile, it made me chuckle.

In my opinion, humour is a great way to attract us women.

Nita X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A couple of things, but I am a pedant ... hygiene is not free as soap etc costs money, as does water these days. Also, if age is not an issue, why stop at 45 .... wouldn't be the type of profile that attracts us for a number of reasons as you don't fit our preferences, so the advice is general."

To be honest the way i see it, If you can afford the internet to connect to this site, and you can afford the travel for a meet or a social - Then surely u have soap and water... and if not why?.....

On the Age thing, I take your point and ill have to rethink how im wording that but just cause i use the age 45... doesnt mean its my limit.

Appreciate u taking the time to actually read my profile though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your profile, it made me chuckle.

In my opinion, humour is a great way to attract us women.

Nita X"

Thanks Nita x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A couple of things, but I am a pedant ... hygiene is not free as soap etc costs money, as does water these days. Also, if age is not an issue, why stop at 45 .... wouldn't be the type of profile that attracts us for a number of reasons as you don't fit our preferences, so the advice is general."

Ive reworded the hygiene quote at the end and will look to reword the part about age cause you are right.

Thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here you go:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Profile%2badvice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like the ET photo. Even better if you had a back to the future delorean. Or an x-wing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have any sensible advice but I do like the ET photo too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tomcat, I think you're gonna have to start a thread in the lounge over your ET pic - see how many like/dislike it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Tomcat, I think you're gonna have to start a thread in the lounge over your ET pic - see how many like/dislike it "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tomcat, I think you're gonna have to start a thread in the lounge over your ET pic - see how many like/dislike it

This!!! "

Do it!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

don't get rid of the e,t, profile pic,, whatever you do,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And so it shall be done!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad profile at all keep the pic it's different and stands out.

It's a numbers game on here just keep plugging away clubs social etc!

Oh and a great man once said (frequently) you need patience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tomcat, I think you're gonna have to start a thread in the lounge over your ET pic - see how many like/dislike it

This!!!

Do it! "

Done!! ....

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/446415

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