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"Each swingers site is different to be honest the point of the verification system on fab is to allow others to see who have verified you & what they thought of the experience - if they have left the site/deleted their profile then others can't see who verified you therefore the verification is useless as it could be anyone who wrote the verification best way to get good verifications is to keep active and not rely on one or two good ones "But if people decide to use the site function to "not show" their verifications then isn't that just the same? To me it doesn't matter what a verification says about someone because not every meet is ever going to be the same. I like to make my own mind up about people. | |||
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"Each swingers site is different to be honest the point of the verification system on fab is to allow others to see who have verified you & what they thought of the experience - if they have left the site/deleted their profile then others can't see who verified you therefore the verification is useless as it could be anyone who wrote the verification best way to get good verifications is to keep active and not rely on one or two good ones
But if people decide to use the site function to "not show" their verifications then isn't that just the same?
To me it doesn't matter what a verification says about someone because not every meet is ever going to be the same. I like to make my own mind up about people. "Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up "Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!  | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now! "lol how did u no a would look...  | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look... "Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them! | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them! "hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them!
hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl "It did also help that I know one of the people in the pics and didn't need my magnifying glass to spot them either lol | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them!
hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl
It did also help that I know one of the people in the pics and didn't need my magnifying glass to spot them either lol "lol I c... well at least it shows our verifications are genuine... kinda backs up my point... I like to show our pics off | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them!
hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl
It did also help that I know one of the people in the pics and didn't need my magnifying glass to spot them either lol
lol I c... well at least it shows our verifications are genuine... kinda backs up my point... I like to show our pics off "hmmm am wondering which headless fella/fellas your recognize tho... | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them!
hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl
It did also help that I know one of the people in the pics and didn't need my magnifying glass to spot them either lol
lol I c... well at least it shows our verifications are genuine... kinda backs up my point... I like to show our pics off
hmmm am wondering which headless fella/fellas your recognize tho... "No naming allowed in the forums pmsl x I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too | |||
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" Yeh I agree but by the same token I do like to see the kind of peeps that a person I might want to meet has previously met and to be honest those that hide their verifications does make me wonder why they have been hidden - again it is personal choice! I also like to make my own mind up and verifications do not dictate if I will or will not meet someone but it does help to make my mind up
Right 5 minutes is enough time for you to have looked through my verifications, I'm off to hide them now!
lol how did u no a would look...
Just a wee hunch
and yeah you are right you can tell a lot from people's verifications put together with some pictures and you can work out who is in them!
hmmm did not no your fab's very own inspector clueso... pmsl
It did also help that I know one of the people in the pics and didn't need my magnifying glass to spot them either lol
lol I c... well at least it shows our verifications are genuine... kinda backs up my point... I like to show our pics off
hmmm am wondering which headless fella/fellas your recognize tho...
No naming allowed in the forums pmsl x
I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too "lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm  | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm "I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading. | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading. "Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time... | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time... "I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway! | |||
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"while one of two verifications can be a bit hit or miss, if someone has quite a few you can normally pick up on a few recurring themes that give you a good idea of what that person is really like. I do lament the loss of a few of mine tho. my favourite started something like this. "we've been on the scene for a few years and never wanted to meet any single males but ......" a sad day when I lost that one" Yeh a no - we have had good ones and peeps have left again a suppose for the single guys it does help to have decent ones but on a positive side the guys that chat in the forum's must have a better chance as more peeps get to know them than just the joe bloggs dropping you an email | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway! "This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u... | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u... "Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago "That is a shame... but there is always next time.... | |||
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"Recently joined the site, being genuine, I have had some wonderful feedback from meets, However, one person who left me a wonderful verification has left the site, as she got married and that verification has gone from my profile. Why?" Show all the other verifications that you got? It's just one of those things that a veri disappears when the profile leaves the site. We don't show all ours and tend not to bother too much with them now as anyone can see we're genuine and thats what they're for really. Z | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago
That is a shame... but there is always next time.... "It sure is and from the look of things here some might say we need to get a room sooner rather than later! | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago
That is a shame... but there is always next time....
It sure is and from the look of things here some might say we need to get a room sooner rather than later! "pmsl - well stop talking to me then... | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago
That is a shame... but there is always next time....
It sure is and from the look of things here some might say we need to get a room sooner rather than later!
pmsl - well stop talking to me then... "I wouldn't be the gentleman that I am, if I did that, now would I? | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago
That is a shame... but there is always next time....
It sure is and from the look of things here some might say we need to get a room sooner rather than later!
pmsl - well stop talking to me then...
I wouldn't be the gentleman that I am, if I did that, now would I? "lol now ur just trying to get me in trouble... | |||
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" I'm just waiting for the chance to see the other 99 pics too
lmao there will be a lot more by the end of Sat night... mmm
I thought there might be and no detective work required there, just a bit of profile reading.
Lmao hmmm ur very perceptive... shame u can't make it - would have added u to friends... oh well maybe next time...
I was never invited
But you are correct; I can't make it this time anyway!
This was me doing my Inspector Clueso bit... a gathered u either could not or was not interested otherwise a would have had an email from u...
Yup was definitely interested but have a few things on this weekend already or you may well have had that mail ages ago
That is a shame... but there is always next time....
It sure is and from the look of things here some might say we need to get a room sooner rather than later!
pmsl - well stop talking to me then...
I wouldn't be the gentleman that I am, if I did that, now would I?
lol now ur just trying to get me in trouble... "Me? Never! | |||
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"Yeh a no - we have had good ones and peeps have left again a suppose for the single guys it does help to have decent ones but on a positive side the guys that chat in the forum's must have a better chance as more peeps get to know them than just the joe bloggs dropping you an email "can't think what you mean by that | |||
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"*Comes in with a bucket of cold water before the thread steams up completely*" Thanks, I was getting a little hot under the collar there | |||
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"*Comes in with a bucket of cold water before the thread steams up completely*" Sorry honeypot - *goes for a cold shower...* | |||
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"*Comes in with a bucket of cold water before the thread steams up completely* Sorry honeypot - *goes for a cold shower...* "Can I join ya? Damn I am at it again! | |||
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"Right, many Thanks for all comments. Thread closed or should I rename it the Scottish Chat up and Flirt Room mmmmm" Is the thread closed? Really? And I was doing so well too! | |||
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"Recently joined the site, being genuine, I have had some wonderful feedback from meets, However, one person who left me a wonderful verification has left the site, as she got married and that verification has gone from my profile. Why?" I cant believe she's got married again as she's still married to me and has been for 16 years! LOL | |||
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