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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our supporter pass ends soon. And for the past 3 weekends the Mrs has looked for a meet with a guy and nothing has come of it. Tbh we've not had a lot of interested ourselves. Some were not for her or others are miles away.

She's been speaking to a few guys for a while now and have never met cos of their x y and z excuses! Up until was only lastnight she decided to block um! Is fab worth staying for or is going down hill.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find I have good patches and bad patches on this site. I hadn't had a sniff of interest for over a month them last Sunday arranged three meets. One has since cancelled but that's life.

It is all about PMA on here. I have a full and varied social life, and sex is for me a garnish, not the main course. But, in the words of ShagTonight, it takes patience, and when you're meeting single blokes, lots and lots of patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried a club? Many couples say that men back out last minute etc, but at clubs the men are already there and your wife may take interest to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our supporter pass ends soon. And for the past 3 weekends the Mrs has looked for a meet with a guy and nothing has come of it. Tbh we've not had a lot of interested ourselves. Some were not for her or others are miles away.

She's been speaking to a few guys for a while now and have never met cos of their x y and z excuses! Up until was only lastnight she decided to block um! Is fab worth staying for or is going down hill.

"

Guys for some reason do that , make meets etc etc . Get cold feet or can't get away from wifey ..

Try a club , or social .

Just for a laugh post a meet Saturday night. And see how many message you . Then post a meet where they meet in a car park and get a bj on way or from work .

Pretty much proves how many have wives in your area ,

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Have you tried a club? Many couples say that men back out last minute etc, but at clubs the men are already there and your wife may take interest to one. "

Yep bang on we only do club meets now due to let downs... Plus we can still have a play even if just ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find I have good patches and bad patches on this site. I hadn't had a sniff of interest for over a month them last Sunday arranged three meets. One has since cancelled but that's life.

It is all about PMA on here. I have a full and varied social life, and sex is for me a garnish, not the main course. But, in the words of ShagTonight, it takes patience, and when you're meeting single blokes, lots and lots of patience. "

I agree with the above, but will also say, you need patience when meeting single women and/or couples too. We all go through the frustrating let downs, but it's worth sticking with if you enjoy the lifestyle!

If its your thing attend a club to limit the frustration!

Good luck in whichever path you choose

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"Have you tried a club? Many couples say that men back out last minute etc, but at clubs the men are already there and your wife may take interest to one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use fab for networking and forums very rare I have a meet unless its at a club just go with an open mind x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

This us our second time on here. W3 joined quite a few years ago but only soft swap and met quite a few couples then. We even ventured full swap sep room. She even met 1 or 2 guys alone for a 1 on 1 at theirs And back at ours sometimes.

Since rejoining alot have left and alot seem to be time wasters.

We have talked about clubs but not in our area and she's scared if others seeing us there..even tho were all in same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point deleting. Maybe hide your profile and return after a break?

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By *andEberryCouple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

You will get let down a lot but you will meet good guys as well. If there are better sites out there we can't find them. It all depends how quickly you want to meet. It is very hard though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is free, so there is really no point leaving lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Thanks guys

This us our second time on here. W3 joined quite a few years ago but only soft swap and met quite a few couples then. We even ventured full swap sep room. She even met 1 or 2 guys alone for a 1 on 1 at theirs And back at ours sometimes.

Since rejoining alot have left and alot seem to be time wasters.

We have talked about clubs but not in our area and she's scared if others seeing us there..even tho were all in same boat "

Understand ,we did have the same reservation of going to a club if someone we know was there but fook it its not like we wont see them there either we havent so far and have only ever had good experiances of the club we go to. I just cant understand the time wasters probably pic collectors. I trust you have already set your messages to verified. Thats ironed out quite a lot for us and although you have had some bad experiances we have met a couple of a nice genuine blokes.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Our supporter pass ends soon. And for the past 3 weekends the Mrs has looked for a meet with a guy and nothing has come of it. Tbh we've not had a lot of interested ourselves. Some were not for her or others are miles away.

She's been speaking to a few guys for a while now and have never met cos of their x y and z excuses! Up until was only lastnight she decided to block um! Is fab worth staying for or is going down hill.

"

Try a club; there are pros and cons

Pros: The guys are already there and she might find one she takes a fancy to (and vice versa)

Cons: It is a limited selection; once you have seen them all and you don't fancy anyone then its time to pick up your handbag 'cause past midnight, hardly any more will arrive

FabS works too. I do arrange to meet new people from here but only in a club and only on dates which I had planned to be there anyway. That way, if someone doesn't turn up then it hardly matters. But if you have 'overbooked' and both (or more!) 'bookings' turn up, then be prepared for a somewhat busy evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not socials are a good way to go different meeting in person than online x

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

These type of threads always seem so clear cut.. Pay site supporters or leave. Just don't pay! Even hide your profile if you want. Maybe just mooch around browsing every so often, without having expectations to meet straight away

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back."
step back to a bar and buy two pints of good ale with your £5.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back. step back to a bar and buy two pints of good ale with your £5. "

Or half a pint and two straws in Brighton.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"These type of threads always seem so clear cut.. Pay site supporters or leave. Just don't pay! Even hide your profile if you want. Maybe just mooch around browsing every so often, without having expectations to meet straight away"

It is strange how many people assume site supporter = guaranteed meets. All it guarantees is the odd extra feature and a decent, free site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not the paying to site that were bothered about,its £5 doesn't break the bank lol it's to help the owners Plus you get added extras. It's just more to the time waters. If she or us look for a meet , we don't expect a meet there and then..crikey lol We would prefer to arrange a meet with notice with talks first and tby she would prefer a regular guy rather than randomers.

Also it's funny how alot of guys all say they can't accom cos they 'house share' lol if they're still at home fair enough but seems alot have partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't look for single guys do can't really compete experiences.

I don't know how you go about searching but maybe look for guys with meets posted, and see if any take your fancy.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a real shame it's not working out especially as you're hot as fuck.

I just don't understand all this letting peeps down shit.

Really, I just don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our supporter pass ends soon. And for the past 3 weekends the Mrs has looked for a meet with a guy and nothing has come of it. Tbh we've not had a lot of interested ourselves. Some were not for her or others are miles away.

She's been speaking to a few guys for a while now and have never met cos of their x y and z excuses! Up until was only lastnight she decided to block um! Is fab worth staying for or is going down hill.

"

Oh come on now ....

Fab is amazing , it must be your selection criteria at fault . There are so many wonderful people to meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back. step back to a bar and buy two pints of good ale with your £5. "

Blimey Steve where do you drink!?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"The site is free, so there is really no point leaving lol."

Why didn't you say they need patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

patience? Lol we been here few time over the years. Have met couples and singles. This time round seems to be full of messers who just wana talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried a club? Many couples say that men back out last minute etc, but at clubs the men are already there and your wife may take interest to one.

Yep bang on we only do club meets now due to let downs... Plus we can still have a play even if just ourselves "

this it works really well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is free, so there is really no point leaving lol.

Why didn't you say they need patience "
lol ty. I forgot about that bit

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back. step back to a bar and buy two pints of good ale with your £5.

Blimey Steve where do you drink!? "
they are imaginary pints

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The site is free, so there is really no point leaving lol.

Why didn't you say they need patience lol ty. I forgot about that bit "

I think you should change your name to 'forgetful William'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If it isn't working for you to the extent that you feel it isn't worth five pounds then maybe it is time to step back. step back to a bar and buy two pints of good ale with your £5.

Blimey Steve where do you drink!? they are imaginary pints "

I like them due to the imaginary hangover.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried a club? Many couples say that men back out last minute etc, but at clubs the men are already there and your wife may take interest to one.

Yep bang on we only do club meets now due to let downs... Plus we can still have a play even if just ourselves

this it works really well for us"

Yeah as said earlier have thought about it so who knows. 1 day we may make an appearance somewhere lol x

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Our supporter pass ends soon. And for the past 3 weekends the Mrs has looked for a meet with a guy and nothing has come of it. Tbh we've not had a lot of interested ourselves. Some were not for her or others are miles away.

She's been speaking to a few guys for a while now and have never met cos of their x y and z excuses! Up until was only lastnight she decided to block um! Is fab worth staying for or is going down hill.

"

I would say stick it out, this is our second profile we had to close our last profile because of idiots messing us around, but don't regret setting up this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is free, so there is really no point leaving lol.

Why didn't you say they need patience lol ty. I forgot about that bit

I think you should change your name to 'forgetful William' "
Yes or king david the 1st

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