FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys..

Any couples that have only done same room sex and thought about slowly going into soft swap?

How did you go about it and get any awkwardness out of the way .. We are thinking of mixing it a little but only with the male half of the other couple.. How does this go down?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

whats in it for the other couple? Doesn't sound like there is much there for the other lady... perhaps think about meeting an understanding single fella?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

When i was on here with a partner we did want soft sex...we called couple back to ours and it got very uncomfortable as we wanted sex.. they wanted full! Wrong of them to say yes to soft then ask for full. A no is a no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh ok, yeah both girls will be getting it on, then join in with the other couples partner.

Can see why it could be uncomfortable .. :/ xx

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes.. very incomfortable and too much pressure. So we decided to go clubs instead. Xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

with soft swap on fab, it is very important to clearly define exactly what is on offer, and what you mean...

so if you want the 2 ladies to play, then can swap for oral with each others partners but no penetration - clearly state that - not just "mixing it up" as that could mean absolutely anything.

Be clear and state what you want - with your guidelines and boundaries defined so that anyone reading it can understand - it saves so many misunderstandings, and gets the awkward conversation started.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

We did before the meet... in the pub when we met first and they kept saying no problem.

But once at mine that was it.. they went for the kill.. well tried to. But we stuck to our guns.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what's happened to us before we've set ground rules and it's gone further and hard to get out of that situation without being rude :/

We don't want that to happen again x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

After that meet we decided to nail meeting privately... we just ended up going to chams and had more no pressure fun there.

People sometimes think they can change peoples mind... well we did dissapoint them lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started our swinging that way, in La Chambre many years back. First visit we just played together in crowded playrooms, No swapping that time, but on our second and later visits we swapped with other couples and just soft-swung. If they wanted to fuck we just said we were soft swingers and we didn't get any negative reactions. We got used to swapping and playing with other people then swapping back for fucking. When Rose was ready we did our first full swap. That's how we play most of the time these days but we still do soft swinging if that's what others prefer. We have some friends who never go further than that. You can have a lot of really sexy fun without a full swap.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We started our swinging that way, in La Chambre many years back. First visit we just played together in crowded playrooms, No swapping that time, but on our second and later visits we swapped with other couples and just soft-swung. If they wanted to fuck we just said we were soft swingers and we didn't get any negative reactions. We got used to swapping and playing with other people then swapping back for fucking. When Rose was ready we did our first full swap. That's how we play most of the time these days but we still do soft swinging if that's what others prefer. We have some friends who never go further than that. You can have a lot of really sexy fun without a full swap."

We met a lovely couple at AbFabs for soft swing and it was indeed very sexy!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

its all about setting boundaries and going with the flow, if it gets out of hand then just say stop please .. need time out, works for us..connie xx

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Pretty similar to our own experience. We had a great meet at Partners recently,lots of fun in the water and elsewhere but definitely soft swap. Penetrative sex is by no means our main objective. Meeting genuine, nice, sexy people, socialising (for a while at least) and then enjoying what a club, or a bedroom, has to offer is what we like.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys..

Any couples that have only done same room sex and thought about slowly going into soft swap?

How did you go about it and get any awkwardness out of the way .. We are thinking of mixing it a little but only with the male half of the other couple.. How does this go down?"

In a club environment I have enjoyed watching my hubby have mfm with a couple - always with a smile on my face knowing that I can participate in some fun myself afterwards. No problem. Is just a matter of agreeing and respecting boundaries.

Seeing my partner enjoy himself is a great aphrodisiac for me! x

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