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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, I would just like some advice for on either a females point of view to what kind of messages they will actually reply to and also from any males that get a lot of replies/that are successful on here. I have sent out quite a few messages and had no replies

Thanks,

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine if you're asking for a generic question then you're going to be struggling...

Catch their attention, strike up a conversation.

Try talking in the forums and getting involved with the people on here. The vast majority of them are pretty cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics first, have to find them attractive. Then any respectful message that you can start a conversation off will do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female half here. We will respond if it shows that they've read our profile . A simple "hi" as sometimes happens just shows no thought or effort.Try to include something which shows you've read it. Something witty or funny might grab my attention too. Even a response to a status update. You sound sane and switched on so you'll get some responses I imagine. It might just take a while.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

messages where effort has gone into it, and ideally you've read profile and are pretty close to what's been asked for. Good luck OP, sure you'll do fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all of the help and advice guys. It's appreciated

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Make your subject and opening line really eye catching. We get a fair few messages a day, mostly with the subject heading of 'hey!xx' and the opening (normally only) line of 'How are you?'. They rarely get opened and find themselves in File 13 pretty swiftly.

Attaching a pic will help as the message preview will show the photo icon and therefore probably worth opening. If they're like us, they'll click on your profile before opening the message to have a nosey. If your bio is a one liner or is full of negativity and moaning then you'll likely be passed by. Similarly, if you have a million cock picks then there's likely not much more to you.

If all's well there then that should get your foot in the door. After that it's down to you to engage the recipients as eloquently as you can, showing you've read their profile and are someone they would want to check out.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your profile and start again.

Over a year with no veri = fantasists and delved before even reading the message

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over a year ago

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Make your subject and opening line really eye catching. We get a fair few messages a day, mostly with the subject heading of 'hey!xx' and the opening (normally only) line of 'How are you?'. They rarely get opened and find themselves in File 13 pretty swiftly.

Attaching a pic will help as the message preview will show the photo icon and therefore probably worth opening. If they're like us, they'll click on your profile before opening the message to have a nosey. If your bio is a one liner or is full of negativity and moaning then you'll likely be passed by. Similarly, if you have a million cock picks then there's likely not much more to you.

If all's well there then that should get your foot in the door. After that it's down to you to engage the recipients as eloquently as you can, showing you've read their profile and are someone they would want to check out.

Good luck "

This works for us and will always get a reply...Unfortunately it won't always be the response the sender wanted though.

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