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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking too see what other people have sent too other people in there first messages

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Hello, thanks for the wink. Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Hail fellow well met?

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

My first message is always polite and introduce myself and ask them to look at my veris to show I am genuine. Nothing rude and just face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Fancy a fuck "

Well it didn't work when I sent that message to you.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Depends on my mood.. after sending a few polite opening messages and getting no where...not even a reply. Sometimes i just say a quick hello or a wink.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I seldom if ever send a message unless I've already been chatting with the person either in the chat rooms, on the forum or they have messaged me first. The chances are any first message, however brief and blunt or in-depth is going to have little to no impact if you're just massaging woman at random. It's just junk mail and spam for them, and you know what you normally do with most of that yourselves.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like the message to reference something in my profile so i know they have read and thought about it.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I like the message to reference something in my profile so i know they have read and thought about it."

How about if I just tell I thought about it. Would that work?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Looking too see what other people have sent too other people in there first messages"

There's no perfect answer or message. Try and make yours memorable and refer to their profile and attach a pic and don't hassle them for a reply....send and forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why many single guys fail. They don't personalise their message. I definitely try to make mine personal so that the recipient feels special.

i.e. I don't use 'fancy a fuck?'

I use 'Hello (insert name here), fancy a fuck?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Dirty bitch...do you want dick cum all over your pussy"......naturally no reply and blocked haha xxxx

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile."

Works for us...Doesn't guarantee a meet but unless we're snowed under it will always get a reply.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile.

Works for us...Doesn't guarantee a meet but unless we're snowed under it will always get a reply."

Well I always appreciate a reply. Even if its a no thanks.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury


""Dirty bitch...do you want dick cum all over your pussy"......naturally no reply and blocked haha xxxx"

Don't see the problem with that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"

Always seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Dirty bitch...do you want dick cum all over your pussy"......naturally no reply and blocked haha xxxx

Don't see the problem with that lol "

Me either... That's kinda hot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For shits and giggles i just sent this to a random woman.

"Right, there is two of us, you must like one of us enough to fuck the other as well?"

Sent with face pics.

I'm not expecting a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck "

Oh, go on then. I thought you were having a break, having a kit kat, but seeing as how you made such an effort in the message....!

I'm in Sevenoaks if you fancy a drink btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."
i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lol

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Fuck ur hot do u do anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lol"
lol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lollol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to?"
no sadly never been...but i will one day. Id love to do a nowegian cruise thru the ffjords

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"My first message is always polite and introduce myself and ask them to look at my veris to show I am genuine. Nothing rude and just face pics."

Funnily enough this bugs me. I know if I want to look at veris or not

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."

FFS Shag, we're not bloody yanks. What's with 180lbs?

Try 12st 12lbs.

(Jesus.. )

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


" Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x."

Not a bad message as such but I always think your profile tells us your name and height so why tell me something I already know?

Everyone says they read the profile even if they didn't. Are you specific about why you think you are a good match?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x. i have norwegian blood in me and im all for putting plats in my hair lollol yes, that is a good one, yeah nice place Norway is too, do you visit it to?no sadly never been...but i will one day. Id love to do a nowegian cruise thru the ffjords"
Yes I have never been to them ffjords either, would be fun to be in a boat to see them one day as well. Nice scenery too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do send a msg I am always informative so they kinda know who I am and can form a mental pic in their mind.

Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x.

FFS Shag, we're not bloody yanks. What's with 180lbs?

Try 12st 12lbs.

(Jesus.. ) "
lol I know, cos I prefer to use lbs you know as its what we do in bodybuilding and as well use kg's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Hello, my name is shag. I am 5.10, 180lbs, muscular guy from the land of snow and Vikings and I have read your profile and I am looking for the same and I think we will be a good match, so if you feel the same, get in touch and let's organise something x.

Not a bad message as such but I always think your profile tells us your name and height so why tell me something I already know?

Everyone says they read the profile even if they didn't. Are you specific about why you think you are a good match?"
Thanks and yes as well if they don't got time to look at your profile maibe so good to point it out I think.

No I wasn't specific as to why we was a match more like we like the same things, but good idea to point it out as well in the msgs isn't it to?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"

Always seems to work for me

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That is so funny..am giggling out loud

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For shits and giggles i just sent this to a random woman.

"Right, there is two of us, you must like one of us enough to fuck the other as well?"

Sent with face pics.

I'm not expecting a reply. "

Today was your lucky day then seeing as I replied to it. I like originality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"

Always seems to work for me

That is so funny..am giggling out loud"

Alas I can't see yours so not sure it would work but glad you like my humour

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"

Always seems to work for me

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Mmm trifle

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Note to self: OP messages will be unoriginal

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Note to self: OP messages will be unoriginal "

Exactly. Meet me I write all his material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come with me if you want to live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously just send a cockpic and write "wanna fuck".

What could go wrong?

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone


"Looking too see what other people have sent too other people in there first messages"

Hello, I'm conducting research on behalf of Sydney University, i wonder if you could......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour humour humour... Make us laugh with an opening message and you stand a much better chance... The one liners are ignored( unless c is in the mood to wind people up).And to be honest the ' hi I am xxxxxxxx and ' cue their life story can be boring.xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Hello, your fanny reminds me of a knocked over trifle, I'm hungry lets eat"

Always seems to work for me

Mmm trifle "

That's just reminded me, I have a mini trifle in the fridge for later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Note to self: OP messages will be unoriginal

Exactly. Meet me I write all his material. "

Oh go on then

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Looking too see what other people have sent too other people in there first messages"

The trouble is..

You're all on your own for the second message!

What on earth are you going to say??!!

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Wanna see my sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats a fair point Unleashed but I always try to tailor my message to the woman or couple were I can to show I have read the profile."

Best way its a shame more dont. We get a lot say they have, pick out bits as proof but totally ignore the parts that rule them out from the word go.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Note to self: OP messages will be unoriginal

Exactly. Meet me I write all his material.

Oh go on then "

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

Some of these are class

We had a great one today, which pulled us in and got us chatting, nothing rude, not massively long but it had a kick to it...

We tend to ignore the "hi how are you" ones.... Snooze fest....

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