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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? " Good advice | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? " I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write | |||
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"Put yrself in the womans shoes mate.. if you saw a womans profile with very little on there and not much on communication...and another where there was more on the profile and you was more chatty... where would you go. Not easy i know.. we were all young once and start somewhere. And yes i was like you. Preferred the more maturer ladies and was a toyboy in my youth. Lol Chin up.. xx" I have updated my profile a bit feedback would be good I'm not very good at writing added a couple pics to here's hoping | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write" If you could answer it, then you'll have your USP - what can you offer a lady? What's in it for her? Tell people a bit about yourself - what's your hobby? It's not just all about sex - it's about making a connection mentally with people. | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write If you could answer it, then you'll have your USP - what can you offer a lady? What's in it for her? Tell people a bit about yourself - what's your hobby? It's not just all about sex - it's about making a connection mentally with people. " USP? (Might make myself sound stupid but what's that ) i like to play football I play ever weekend I enjoy playing pool and I love going out on my motorbike and I can offer a lady a gentleman that would like to have a social before anything else I like to get to know a person before just diving in to bed it's not all about sex your right | |||
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"Profile looks ok.. polite and none forceful. Join the 10 mile long queue full of youngsters in your situation Have fun.. good luck.. hope you find some nice ladies matey But dont expect miracles" Thanks I'm not looking for miracles think if I got a few verifications would help its just getting the ball rolling think going to a club sound like best bet see what happens thanks for the help | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write If you could answer it, then you'll have your USP - what can you offer a lady? What's in it for her? Tell people a bit about yourself - what's your hobby? It's not just all about sex - it's about making a connection mentally with people. USP? (Might make myself sound stupid but what's that ) i like to play football I play ever weekend I enjoy playing pool and I love going out on my motorbike and I can offer a lady a gentleman that would like to have a social before anything else I like to get to know a person before just diving in to bed it's not all about sex your right "Unique selling point.....football means fit, pool means you like to get your balls in a hole  and the motorbike is a good thing! 
Last bit of advice - ladies get sexually turns on when you stimulate their imagination - most men get off seeing everything, so rather than attract men with your cock photos, make the ladies think 'mmmm, I wonder what's under that towel?....I can see his torso and a hint of bum - I think I'll message him and ask..' See?
Whereas I'd see a cock and say 'fancy a fuck, mate?' You need to attract her, not guys like me. Good luck | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write If you could answer it, then you'll have your USP - what can you offer a lady? What's in it for her? Tell people a bit about yourself - what's your hobby? It's not just all about sex - it's about making a connection mentally with people. USP? (Might make myself sound stupid but what's that ) i like to play football I play ever weekend I enjoy playing pool and I love going out on my motorbike and I can offer a lady a gentleman that would like to have a social before anything else I like to get to know a person before just diving in to bed it's not all about sex your right "Some of that looks like info that could go on your profile to me. This will take time, don't expect or hope for an instant return. You seem to be asking, listening and acting accordingly with good grace. That's a good thing. | |||
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"You have two threads on the same subject. Put as much energy into your profile as you have done asking for help. Do a forum search for 'profile help/advice' etc and take some time to write about yourself. Answer this: why would a lady rather meet you than me? I have no answer for that tbh it's just what woman prefer I'm not very good at talking about myself and don't know what to write If you could answer it, then you'll have your USP - what can you offer a lady? What's in it for her? Tell people a bit about yourself - what's your hobby? It's not just all about sex - it's about making a connection mentally with people. USP? (Might make myself sound stupid but what's that ) i like to play football I play ever weekend I enjoy playing pool and I love going out on my motorbike and I can offer a lady a gentleman that would like to have a social before anything else I like to get to know a person before just diving in to bed it's not all about sex your right
Unique selling point.....football means fit, pool means you like to get your balls in a hole and the motorbike is a good thing!
Last bit of advice - ladies get sexually turns on when you stimulate their imagination - most men get off seeing everything, so rather than attract men with your cock photos, make the ladies think 'mmmm, I wonder what's under that towel?....I can see his torso and a hint of bum - I think I'll message him and ask..' See?
Whereas I'd see a cock and say 'fancy a fuck, mate?' You need to attract her, not guys like me. Good luck "Steve thank you very much you have definitely helped I will definitely use your advise and I will have to take some new pictures so the can get the mind working brilliant advise and thanks again | |||
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