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Female suddenly low sex drive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice for me please ,suddenly noticed my sex drive has gone really low and no idea why .

Before anyone suggests it I'm not pre menopausal or menopausal

Thanks debs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have you just changed to a hormonal contraceptive? Been ill, had a big event in your life, got thyroid problems? Try not to stress about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be as the winter months comes near, our body gets into hibernating mode.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It could b just ur tired r under stress r just lot of pressure to perform . Just relax n stop worrying n take things easy n above all don't stop sex just do a lot of hugging n kissing ur partner without penetration . When I started out first i had trouble but I was with a good lady who had patience n eventually I made up for lost time .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On my 2nd cold since sept. .its just weird as use to be high ..Thanks will try not to worry x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"On my 2nd cold since sept. .its just weird as use to be high ..Thanks will try not to worry x"

I was just about to suggest stress. At times of high stress I have been known to have almost permanent colds.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs had ups and down with her sex drive some weeks she doesn't want touched and others she could go for days being played with haha. Ovulating? Post monthly? Could be anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medication?

Lethargy?

Low self-esteem?

Depression?

Stress?

Xxxxx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Tired, stressed, a little run down, shorter days (SAD), a slight hormone imbalance. Can be anything, but most peoples libido go up and down at some point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I think your all right .Thank you all xx

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

A good sleep and some tlc / you time, mrs is run down at the minute good bit of her own time and good sleep (our littleones usualy break that rule) and shes back to her usual self a break from the norm does wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a result of shortening day length and lack of sunshine .Get yourself a nice holiday somewhere hot and sunny and wait for the winter solstice when the day length starts to increase again 22nd December ,shortest day.

Hope this helps

Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh forgot to day if partners a twat that wont help either.As you see I tend to go for the homeopathic approach,do what chicken breeders do change the cock in this situation .

Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your lacking in vitamin D this can do it especially this time of year without much sun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I completely sympathise with you. For the first time ever I have absolutely zero desire for sex. This is completely out of character for me. My libido has always been through the roof. I feel so guilty but my husband has been amazing and supportive and hasn't complained once. I just hope it comes back soon for both our sakes.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fingers crossed for you and me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh forgot to day if partners a twat that wont help either.As you see I tend to go for the homeopathic approach,do what chicken breeders do change the cock in this situation .

Cx"

Daves lovely no pressure couldn't ask for nicer x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Any advice for me please ,suddenly noticed my sex drive has gone really low and no idea why .

Before anyone suggests it I'm not pre menopausal or menopausal

Thanks debs x"

That is how I am the majority of the time with a few highs here and there; I thought that was normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice for me please ,suddenly noticed my sex drive has gone really low and no idea why .

Before anyone suggests it I'm not pre menopausal or menopausal

Thanks debs x"

I think your status sums it up perfectly .

While you may revel in the emotional pleasure vanilla life offers , the thrill and excitement that comes with the lifestyle is hard to forget .

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Medication?

Lethargy?

Low self-esteem?

Depression?

Stress?

SAD.... seasonal affective disorder....

Xxxxx"

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By *skentcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dartford


"Medication?

Lethargy?

Low self-esteem?

Depression?

Stress?

SAD.... seasonal affective disorder....

Xxxxx"

I think that you could be going into hibernation until the spring!

Could be time for a rest up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Medication?

Lethargy?

Low self-esteem?

Depression?

Stress?

SAD.... seasonal affective disorder....

Xxxxx

I think that you could be going into hibernation until the spring!

Could be time for a rest up?

"

Need a holiday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any advice for me please ,suddenly noticed my sex drive has gone really low and no idea why .

Before anyone suggests it I'm not pre menopausal or menopausal

Thanks debs x

I think your status sums it up perfectly .

While you may revel in the emotional pleasure vanilla life offers , the thrill and excitement that comes with the lifestyle is hard to forget ."

Did a lot if shall we say weird stuff with ex and hated it so to be vanilla for now is fine x

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Could also be low on vitamin b12 which is common these days

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