FabSwingers.com forum: COUPLE...OR NOT?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anybody else had problems wiv single males contacting them using profiles of couple? we've spoken t quite few couples who appear 2 not have a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single male can be a wiley creature

A few pretend to be a couple or even a single fem, if you have any suspicions contact admin and they can check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I was contacted by a straight couple and arranged a meet. Just before the meet I got a message, saying that the female couldn't make it, but let's meet anyway. I thought this was odd so declined. A week later, the "couple" profile changed to become a bisexual single male.

Not on this site though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I do like the look of xLEXI-and-MATTx, so I'll just go off and set up my couple profile...

Can somebody help please ? When xLEXI-and-MATTx respond what are the best excuses I can give for the absence of a female partner ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol not funny especially if female setting up meet wiv couple...only t find out there is no female...v.worryin i think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't think what the fake couple (ie, single male) thinks is going to happen ? Does he think, ok, that couple say no to single males, but if I fool them and turn up by myself, they'll welcome me with open arms. Are some males really that thick ? Surely not !

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I just can't think what the fake couple (ie, single male) thinks is going to happen ? Does he think, ok, that couple say no to single males, but if I fool them and turn up by myself, they'll welcome me with open arms. Are some males really that thick ? Surely not !"

I don't think the majority ever have any intention of meeting up,they get their kicks from any sex talk and leading people to believe they want to meet.......saddos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious, what are the excuses given for the lack of a female partner ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

In the bath

At work

Walking the dog

Asleep

Out with friends

Cooking the dinner

oh theres lots of excuses

I always think that if theres any hint of something not quite right then I stop talking to them straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no point contacting admin, i did and the fake profiles are still on here

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

i have one on msn who wants to swap photos. so far he has sent 5 different womens photos as his wife

only keep him on for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm curious, what are the excuses given for the lack of a female partner ?"

We had one who told us his partner had been shot in Afganistan and may die.... but she had called telling him to comfort himself with some fun..

I mean ff's lol... Like you would if she had, like she's be able to call if she was dying.. like any woman had been shot in service to start with lol...

Thick twat..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have one on msn who wants to swap photos. so far he has sent 5 different womens photos as his wife

only keep him on for a laugh "

That just means he is a Mormon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm curious, what are the excuses given for the lack of a female partner ?

We had one who told us his partner had been shot in Afganistan and may die.... but she had called telling him to comfort himself with some fun..

I mean ff's lol... Like you would if she had, like she's be able to call if she was dying.. like any woman had been shot in service to start with lol...

Thick twat.........."

Now that's what I was interested in - the excuses that make yer just wonder....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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We have an opposite problem.

If the man posing as a couple hasn't read our profile properly and assumes we are looking for couples.

We get a mail saying they are a couple do we want fun etc, we reply saying we only look for single men, and their reply is normally " we have just split up"

We have timed them and the fastest break up we ever had was 29 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"We have an opposite problem.

If the man posing as a couple hasn't read our profile properly and assumes we are looking for couples.

We get a mail saying they are a couple do we want fun etc, we reply saying we only look for single men, and their reply is normally " we have just split up"

We have timed them and the fastest break up we ever had was 29 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard a story once, cant think if it was someone from here or not but they were chatting to a "couple" on web cam, bad focus etc and the guy said his wife was lying on the bed, they could just make out a shadowy figure....turned out it was a big teddy bear with a dressing gown on!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I heard a story once, cant think if it was someone from here or not but they were chatting to a "couple" on web cam, bad focus etc and the guy said his wife was lying on the bed, they could just make out a shadowy figure....turned out it was a big teddy bear with a dressing gown on!!!!

lmao, he must have been hoping that they would think she just hadn't trimmed that week

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

What about the one that Angels of the north had.......they had asked to see the wife a few times and eventually the guy said ok and put the cam on........it was the guy in make up and wig pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the one that Angels of the north had.......they had asked to see the wife a few times and eventually the guy said ok and put the cam on........it was the guy in make up and wig pmsl"

PMSFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"What about the one that Angels of the north had.......they had asked to see the wife a few times and eventually the guy said ok and put the cam on........it was the guy in make up and wig pmsl"

lololol

I lost my mascara on that one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, shows how inventive and creative us men are. We must all be in touch with our feminine side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a similar problem with this. Was chatting to a "couple" who asked where my gf was i said in bed asleep and I asked if they had cam (for future reference) and they said "no sorrys y would we put cam on any way if your girl is asleep" to which I exclaimed it was for future reference....only to get "bye fake"...now our profile has 2 verifications....this "couple" had no verifications in 4 months...dodgy dya think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly they're saddos,pic collectors,in2 phone sex and want ya t tell em stuff t get their cocks up..no intention of ever meetin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The favorite seems to be that she's right their wiv them,lol believeable 4 while,thats wat latest one i come across kept sayin,went offline wen i asked t speak t her personally,wen i said didn't want t chat any more til spoken 2 her lol not been online f 3 days now...prob got new profile..yes its sad,but could also be v.dangerous t newcomer who isn't aware that this goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had another "girl" last night. Suspected it was a cam....so typed their email address into facebook...it was a guy. So started call him by his real name...he soon log off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have one on msn who wants to swap photos. so far he has sent 5 different womens photos as his wife

only keep him on for a laugh "
Good for you - play him at his own game! Wonder why he doesn't just come out and say that he's bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have an opposite problem.

If the man posing as a couple hasn't read our profile properly and assumes we are looking for couples.

We get a mail saying they are a couple do we want fun etc, we reply saying we only look for single men, and their reply is normally " we have just split up"

We have timed them and the fastest break up we ever had was 29 seconds

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Lol

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Couple or not?

Don`t forget that there are "single" female profiles out there that are actually couples!!

How many time have you seen it where the "I" becomes "we"?

Some of them don`t understand when you tell them the reason you mailed was because you believed them to be single and you were looking to play without a "silent" partner being there!!!!

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

"Just had a similar problem with this. Was chatting to a "couple" who asked where my gf was i said in bed asleep and I asked if they had cam (for future reference) and they said "no sorrys y would we put cam on any way if your girl is asleep" to which I exclaimed it was for future reference....only to get "bye fake"...now our profile has 2 verifications....this "couple" had no verifications in 4 months...dodgy dya think?

Maybe they don't have verifications but can't really say they are fake...as you have read...some fakes do say their partners are asleep, cooking. out dancing...though some real couples can give these kind of reasons as well...so maybe they're just being careful...:D....Surely you guys wouldn't show yourself on cam if the other party won't show and want future references eh?

Some profiles have verifications and also go on cam...but the moment you ask them to do things recorded cam won't do like peace sign or hands on head....they went offline...:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens a lot after seeing ppl on cams after third time of face showing if no wifey comes on i assume they are single and fibbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profiles have verifications and also go on cam...but the moment you ask them to do things recorded cam won't do like peace sign or hands on head....they went offline...:D"

Yeah i know they could still be real, but from the things they/he/she were saying...something didn't seem right...but you never know i could be wrong. But you do hear alot of people on here talking about fakes...i feel you tend to think most people are fake until proven other wise. is that a wrong/unfair mentality?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I think you have to be cynical yes, after all, it is the internet.

We always make sure both of us are here to be able to show face on cam and why we never go onto MSN until the night time, saves any confusion and having to chat too many times before a meet.

But if we were looking for couples, we wouldn't even chat to them on MSN unless the both of them were there, saves any timewasting at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are wanting to go to a club at some point...atleast that way we can see who is who...

or have people been lied to at clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with all this kind of stuff going on guys dressing as women , teddy bears in the bed , and the general bullshit its a wonder anyone anywhere gets anything !!! afterall we all got to start somewhere , i dont have the attitude of everyones a fake unless proven otherwise , personally i dont think thats right , if these people want to get their kicks from that thats their business bit sad but its their life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have one on msn who wants to swap photos. so far he has sent 5 different womens photos as his wife

only keep him on for a laugh

That just means he is a Mormon."

I think you may mean he's a MORON

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

"Has anybody else had problems wiv single males contacting them using profiles of couple? we've spoken t quite few couples who appear 2 not have a partner.

I have...

She is out or in bed or out swinging alone!

When asked for a pic of the other partner, nothing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Def not implying that its only men doing this,not at all! just that fake profiles we've had probs wiv have been men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sorry but i don't agree....they should create honest profile,tellin people truthfully wat they want..weather it be chat,cam wateva! that way people lookin f that kinda stuff can contact em..they are exploiting and abusing peoples trust ,trickin em in 2 sendin pics etc...they prob sendin v.same pics out t people claiming they pics of imaginary wife...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I'm sorry but i don't agree....they should create honest profile,tellin people truthfully wat they want..weather it be chat,cam wateva! that way people lookin f that kinda stuff can contact em..they are exploiting and abusing peoples trust ,trickin em in 2 sendin pics etc...they prob sendin v.same pics out t people claiming they pics of imaginary wife..."

Thje problem is they reckon "if I'm honest, they wont wanna meet me", and hence where their argument falls apart as they've lied to get the interest going, but then have no follow through.

My problem is quite the opposite - proving am a genuine single male. For some reason I have complete strangers convinced I have some secret wife!

If anyone (that knows me or otherwise) knows of this supposed secret wife, please tell me cause I reckon she owes me 3 years worth of shagging she holding out on!

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Thje problem is they reckon "if I'm honest, they wont wanna meet me", and hence where their argument falls apart as they've lied to get the interest going, but then have no follow through.

My problem is quite the opposite - proving am a genuine single male. For some reason I have complete strangers convinced I have some secret wife!

If anyone (that knows me or otherwise) knows of this supposed secret wife, please tell me cause I reckon she owes me 3 years worth of shagging she holding out on!"

Yeah...that's a case of "you're fakes or cheaters unless proven otherwise"...though if people believe that you are cheating/playing away there can't really be anyway to prove it...:D

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Sorry, but if we were llooking for couples, we would do as many checks at the beginning of any contact to make sure we were not going to waste any time.

In fact, we do more or less the same to the single men we want to meet, what is the point in getting to a meeting point without checking their cam etc beforehand ?

So yes, you have to be cynical to a certain extent, and wary of who you are speaking to at the beginning as the net has lots of liars on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am part of a couple and the female part with vertification. My male counter part has a profile with a couple and with vertification. But I am the one on cam most of the time and always get asked where the hubby is.

He does go on his profile on cam when kids are a sleep. We do get a laugh trying to get people to relise that we are in bed together but not playing. But it takes a lot of talking to get them to relise that he is my other half. Its great fun.

But have a problem was approached by a couple who wanted to meet with couples, talked to female on phone but they only wanted a female. They became very pushy in what they wanted and didn't care for my partners feelings or his needs. So since I turned them down they don't want to talk.

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

I had a couple mail me the other day. Their pics look like model shots off the internet and when I asked to see more of the male, nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple mail me the other day. Their pics look like model shots off the internet and when I asked to see more of the male, nothing

ok, here's a thought. How about taking a look at the Browse menu and choosing New Women. Would you say some of them are fakes ? I have suspcions about the "19" and "20" years old girlies, with one-liner profiles.....

or am I being cynical ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive also had a strange one i was mailed by a couple or so they said they only had photo's of the lady on there profile. I chatted to the guy on MSN ans asked several times if his partner was there howevere she was never avaialable. It became clear that this was a single guy who just wanted to talk about sex.

Why pretend tp be a couple?? very odd

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Anyone willing to prove am a legit single male?? Or willing to risk trying to find this supposed "wife that am hiding" ?

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we find that so many people couples send an invite without messaging yet when you reply asking what they are looking for? you get nothing. one we where asked by we had scene at youtopia the night still trying to work that one out

we been verified by two or three couples, yet.

We are starting to feel like clubs are the only way to meet people.

Alos why all asking to have phone chat after first message, god they writee six words to you and what to phone chat.

Sue

(who has got real boobs LOL)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone willing to prove am a legit single male?? Or willing to risk trying to find this supposed "wife that am hiding" ?

how about a 24 pack of beer each and a 24 hour marathon on fifa...your wife would soon come out complaining!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just you couples that get it also had blokes pretending to be girls or couples and chatting to me - bloody not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not just you couples that get it also had blokes pretending to be girls or couples and chatting to me - bloody not nice

that goes on quite often, best is to look at the verifications I think

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Its not just you couples that get it also had blokes pretending to be girls or couples and chatting to me - bloody not nice

Ask them to cam as soon as you start chatting, if they won't or keep dithering, move onto the next one.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we have cam on the laptop but really not used it only the main reason that people can record it on to the their hard drive, or so been told. So we do not want to cam until we have meet and then cam for fun. ( does that sound too sillyLOL)

I think i was thinking could you not look at people profiles and see if you see any people on their friends list you know ?

I thought about doing but not sure if thats too cheeky to do

Sue

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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We would never meet anyone without camming first, you won't know who you are meeting if you just went on pictures...and we don't like blind dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very easy to record webcams, even easier to stream a video as a fake webcam. We always make sure the other couple have cam and make sure the streaming isn't fake. If you don't do n e thing dirty on cam then if they do want to record it then they won't get the footage.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Lots of people who have friends list as long as their arm can't really know all of them , so I can't see what that would prove to be honest.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

If they been verified by a meeting in person would that not do it.?

Ok i get me coat LOL.

Is been verified by fabswingers when you send with the date and a photo of you both does thatmake a difference

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Verifications are important for a lot of people. The PV is also a good indication that you are who you say you are.

But we go by gut instinct and camming to show face.

If we were looking for couples, then we would still go more with gut instinct but take everything into account.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Agree with the gut feeling,

still we only been swinging about 8 months or so.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

"If they been verified by a meeting in person would that not do it.?

Ok i get me coat LOL.

Is been verified by fabswingers when you send with the date and a photo of you both does thatmake a difference

Possible but not foolproof as apparently some could have their friends verify or went on meets with call girls or female friend just for verification...:D

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

"If they been verified by a meeting in person would that not do it.?

Ok i get me coat LOL.

Is been verified by fabswingers when you send with the date and a photo of you both does thatmake a difference

Possible but not foolproof as apparently some could have their friends verify or went on meets with call girls or female friend just for verification...:D

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Hey Ahabs we've seen you with a few wives! not saying you're married to them though pmsl

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a guy who i took over to msn and because i wouldnt put my cam on there and then(looked like shit) he said i was a fake and a time waster and was probley a guy. Now that may have been acceptable for him to say that if i didnt have loads of verifications and pictures on site. He had no pictures and said his cam was broke now wtf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Hey Ahabs we've seen you with a few wives! not saying you're married to them though pmsl"

Lol.. none of them were mine, I can neither afford the divorce nor bail money for polygamy

I however will make breakfast for any lovely lady that comes round for the night, and couples have a safe place to park the car also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shes under the patio isnt she lol

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Hey Ahabs we've seen you with a few wives! not saying you're married to them though pmsl

Lol.. none of them were mine, I can neither afford the divorce nor bail money for polygamy

I however will make breakfast for any lovely lady that comes round for the night, and couples have a safe place to park the car also

Safe in Balham? you having a laugh? I originate from Streatham nothing is safe round there not even the wives pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have one on msn who wants to swap photos. so far he has sent 5 different womens photos as his wife

only keep him on for a laugh "

Dam that would mean 5 Mother-in-laws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would never meet anyone without camming first, you won't know who you are meeting if you just went on pictures...and we don't like blind dates

We never cam, never have and never will, not knocking it's effectiveness but it's just not our thing.

We do have some fairly good verifications but even they mean nothing unless everyone knows everyone.

The best method of proving who you are is to attend an organised meeting or munch or party etc etc. Word soon gets round as to who is the real deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea we were contacted by a couple profile the other day and added them to msn for wee chat, altho who ever it was chatting said she was the female part of couple and sent a blurry pic of a female to us, when she said they wanted to meet up we showed her a pic of us as a couple and as they had been on the site for a few months and not verified by photo or from others we asked to see a pic o them both, but sadly she did not have one of them both even tho they supposedly been together for years and had 3 kids lol, we said no pic no meet, she then went funny and blocked us on msn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had it so many times its the first thing we ask for a pic off both , dosnt have to be rude ones face pics are much better and recent ones aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"weve had it so many times its the first thing we ask for a pic off both , dosnt have to be rude ones face pics are much better and recent ones aswell "

I take it all posters have seen the thread, Word or Mouth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea it is face pics we ask for and if we are interested dont have a prob showing hours its not just for verifacation but also to see if there is an attraction ect as we dont want to waste the time o others and ourselfs. dont put us off tho cos lots o gen people on here but does make us more careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the most common one we get is"we split up on the same day i put the profile on"

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

i have mentioned this on another thread and im gonna repeat myself on this one..lol

a cpl contacted us a few times and for some reason wouldnt take no for an answer so i finished the countless e-mail ping-pong by saying we dont meet cpls...

he then mailed us with a single guys profile with the same location and pics and tried again...his single profile heading was "" very genuine singe guy "" yea sure..!!!!!!

i contacted site admin with both profile names and mail but did they do anything..??? did they hell as both profiles are still there...whats the point...stella..xxxx

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

Ahabs for what it is worth i can vouch for u as being a single guy, well u were when we met u....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Hehehehe, I'm still alive, well and single - and hopefully have learnt even more since then

Dammit, this pic seems to float about

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Has anybody else had problems wiv single males contacting them using profiles of couple? we've spoken t quite few couples who appear 2 not have a partner.

A lot of single men do it. They must be idiots. I think they hope they can try something like "my wife/GF is Ill" will you meet me on my own? Surely single men posing as couples know they will get caught out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my take on this subject (for what it's worth lol). Not long after we joined this site, we bought a cheap mobile phone (you can get them real cheap on Ebay) and got 4 free sims cards off the internet (readily available for any network), so when we are contacted or we are contacting we always give our number for fem/fem chat. If they are fake, guess what? the phone don't ring; if they are genuine, the phone does ring. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. If we then get nuisance calls / texts, we've still got another 3 sim cards to use lol.

Also, Mr Martini spends more time in the chat rooms than I do but we usually in the same room together and he has the cam trained on me, so if we get people querying if we are genuine he'll either type in the chat or say out loud if he's got voice on for me to do something specific i.e. wave with your left hand / run your right hand through your hair. So most of the time it's him 'chatting', but I'm only about 10 feet away from him (we have a rather large kitchen lol).

One more thing (sorry, I know I go on sometimes lol) why is it that a lot of people don't put at least one pic on their profile? Are they scared that somebody might recognise them?? Well that's easy sorted... how did they find your profile in the first place and they weren't looking for the same thing as you are!!

Last bit (promise), if you are unsure about any member be it couples, males or females, just be polite and honest and say that you are really unsure if they are genuine but thank you for your interest. If it turns out the are in fact genuine, they WILL prove it one way or the other.

Mrs Martini x

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"One more thing (sorry, I know I go on sometimes lol) why is it that a lot of people don't put at least one pic on their profile? Are they scared that somebody might recognise them?? Well that's easy sorted... how did they find your profile in the first place and they weren't looking for the same thing as you are!!

Mrs Martini x "

Some good points however consider the following....

Imagine the folk who found your profile on here are a couple, single guy or girl who works with or simply knows you socially and they do not give a flying feck about who knows what THEY get up to, and suddenly your secret is out

Thats why most folk keep their profile pictures discrete and generally keep their faces and too many personal details hidden

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By *ounpaulCouple
over a year ago

Brum and Leeds

It's Bizarre, particularly as our profile says we will meet single guys..It's just we want to find the verified ones. Best was oh we can't meet tonight but I could pop in after work.....yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both, we have couple and I have my own one. I have a reason for wanting my own one and we have a reason for wanting the couple one. We don't see why we should have to explain our reasons to anyone -- they're ours

But each profile has its purpose and they're both staying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recently winked at and then contacted by a single female, we got to chatting, she had a verification (which I probably should have checked out) and it seemed to be going fine. She then wanted to know when I could visit and what my MSN and I made her a "Friend".

Now, given that I hadn't contacted her, or really said anything outrageous or offensive, I found myself blocked by her. She's now back posting in the "meet today" section and carrying on as normal.

I can see a number of reasons for all of this.

1) she changed her mind - perfectly legitimate and not a problem

2) she is a he - in which case what an arse!

3) she has no intention of meeting anyone

4) she pushed the block button by mistake

5)pic collector of some description?

6)who the hell knows?

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