FabSwingers.com forum: Want to try a club but nervous

By *apasmurfete OP Couple
over a year ago

south benfleet

We have had our first private party experience and fancy trying out a club but we have never been so don't know what to expect! What's the rules? Where's the best place to go? We are in south east Essex. I've read the reviews on here and some places seem very unclean which would really put me off but then others say it's perfectly clean!! Confusing!

We maybe newbies but quick to learn and want to have some fun!

Where to go during the daytime? Any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated!!!

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our experience of clubs is: They are generally fun, low pressure, social and voyeuristic places. There a loads of people chatting and wandering about watching other people. Lots of the playrooms are lockable, many have windows to allow watching.

Generally, though we feel that there's less expectation than at a private party or meet.

Cal

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paradise spa on their party nights, are always fun, very friendly people and a good mix. It's in Dagenham.

By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

We are in Hadleigh and we go to Eureka in Kent. It's about 6 miles the other side of the Dartford crossing.

We always have a great time there.

No pressure and clean with friendly guests and staff...

There is also Pleasures in Kent, it's about 14 miles further...

Paradise Spa is still on our to do list...Every time we think about trying somewhere new we end up back at Eureka as we know we'll enjoy ourselves...

All you can do is try a few places and see which one you prefer...

We were wide eyed and terrified the first time we went to a club but there was absolutely no need to have been...

Enjoy... FnRx