FabSwingers.com forum: Str8 male harrassed by bi males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

Help

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

block single males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

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Yep ya can block all single males in ya settins mate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers soapy thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was getting the same problem and blocking single males has worked for me so far so give it a whirl dude.

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

Go to "MY ACCOUNT" then "MESSAGE FILTERS" and select select "Block them" in the "Single Men" section. and then you should be free from the messages. Though if the person is already on your friends list they can still send you messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite problem. Keep getting messages from males whos profile says straight but want to play with me! I just delete and block

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

it works both ways, the amount of mails i get from so called 'Straight mails' wanting to play

tehre should be several options you can block depending on your profile setting,

example a straight male can block all males from contacting him,

a Bi guy, has the option to block straight males only.

a gay guy has the option to block all but gay or bi guys contacting him, (assuming gay guy plays with bi guys, some do not i know) an in the second case block bi guys awell

same applies to the ladies here who are only looking for other woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was getting the same problem and blocking single males has worked for me so far so give it a whirl dude."

Done it now thanks for the valuable advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No different from getting messages from married men, dominant men, men under 45, men from ethnic groups, dominant men, couples!!!

Think it's a little unfair you can only block single men...they are the only ones I want!!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i only want straight single guys but keep getting messages from couples, tv/cd, bi, married and ones out with what age limit i set

how about a filter to block the ones we not looking for

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am the same with females and couples contacting me, I have single guys blocked as well... as I only want to play with myself......

fucking pests they are..

they just don't appreciate a good wanker when they see him..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

Help"

To be honest most peeps don't bother to read profile's with ours we get loads of friends requests but we clearly state that we will not added just anyone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It doesn't take long to read a profile, I read all profiles that way I can see if we are compatible or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opposite problem. Keep getting messages from males whos profile says straight but want to play with me! I just delete and block"

And here lies the problem, not everyone is entirely honest on their profiles, some state straight just because they feel uncomfortable stating bi.

I have had interest from bi guys, I'm straight, but it's no big deal, I express I'm straight and therefore decline any offer, I've still had some very decent conversations via message box, just because I've no interest sexually doesn't stop me enjoying convo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

Help"

Yeah I have that problem with St8 guys, and my profile says BI....perhaps its your 2 pictures and your age that are attracting them. I wonder if the 25 year old army lads with their bare chests and numinous cock pictures have the same problem !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone who mails you and your not happy about it just block them.

simple.dont waste time just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?"

no couple option.just checked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

Wow what a tangled web we weave...but is that the fun of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?"

I was about to say the exact same thing!

I got the odd message from bi guys and I set my filter. But there's no block for couples, tv/ts or fems. We talk about preferences all the the time, shouldn't site options reflect this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

Wow what a tangled web we weave...but is that the fun of it...

its called the truth mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

I was about to say the exact same thing!

I got the odd message from bi guys and I set my filter. But there's no block for couples, tv/ts or fems. We talk about preferences all the the time, shouldn't site options reflect this?

i think there should be, i get lots of mail for couples even tho i state i dont meet them, or men from couples mailing off their couples profile, again which i dont meet, so i would like to see a blocking filter for couples, well i suppose to be fair you should be able to black ever group, its not only single guys who can be 'pests'

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

Wow what a tangled web we weave...but is that the fun of it...

its called the truth mate.

Wow! a sweeping generalisation of couples there

At the moment the site is only able to block one type and as it was mostly the single men that people were wanting to mass block then that was the one that was chosen

Hopefully that may change in the future and everyone can mass block to their hearts content

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

Help"

You protest too much perhaps?

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Well I need a button to block single females, just far to many emails from them..............have I been dreaming again

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I did chuckle at the use of the word HARRASSED..

bless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I need a button to block single females, just far to many emails from them..............have I been dreaming again

Oh no!!! Those bloody single females are a right pest lol!! We are just waiting on our first message from a single guy (blame the nytol for our dreams!!!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other hand, you could always turn bi

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?"

'Cause youy're not supposed to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did chuckle at the use of the word HARRASSED..

bless.

Any way is that? Some of us feel uncomfortable with bi men contacting them I certainly do and the pics they send me saying I wanna do this to you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

'Cause youy're not supposed to

but you should be able to I do want couples contacting me if the male is bi same as tvs I can't block them either

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

'Cause youy're not supposed to

but you should be able to I do want couples contacting me if the male is bi same as tvs I can't block them either"

think you may mean.... you DON't want couples where the guy is BI contacting you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what I meant sorry

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

'Cause youy're not supposed to

but you should be able to I do want couples contacting me if the male is bi same as tvs I can't block them either

think you may mean.... you DON't want couples where the guy is BI contacting you..

Shurrup you.

Yo could have put your dress on, turned up with me & we could have shagged him.

Is our old MF couple profile still around somewhere?

(you looked great in that dress)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a block button for single bi guys and couples please... Im so jealous of you single straight men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe some people think your 2 public pictures don't match up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block them matey. but you'll never avoid the trannies ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"maybe some people think your 2 public pictures don't match up..."

what's that supposed to mean?

There's a pic of me and one of my cock I've seen worse on here, least it's not cock shot after cock shot very boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"maybe some people think your 2 public pictures don't match up..."

when you can do better then my pics then you can get back to me, why show your body like you do and hide your face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe some people think your 2 public pictures don't match up...

when you can do better then my pics then you can get back to me, why show your body like you do and hide your face?"

hey. people have been trying to help you mate.

drop the attitude or go sort it out yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can a body pic and a cock pic not match up? No one knows what's under my clothes so that's why I put a cock pic up, if you call that helping then god help us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i posted earlier in this thread with the advise you needed.

i then see you having a go at another member.

swallow it or bed over and take a cock which it seems your looking for,

ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Handbags away please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well he's been told what to do and it looks like attention seeking now because he is keeping the thread going by moaning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i posted earlier in this thread with the advise you needed.

i then see you having a go at another member.

swallow it or bed over and take a cock which it seems your looking for,

ok?"

bed or bend over? No thanks your not my type lol

I see where you was coming from and have removed that pic so thanks for the advice parader

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Handbags away please

can't find mine can I borrow yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to get lots men sending me mail so i bloked them ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i used to get lots men sending me mail so i bloked them ha ha"

I've blocked them now but doesn't stop the tvs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well he's been told what to do and it looks like attention seeking now because he is keeping the thread going by moaning."

I wasn't moaning and have taken your advice so thanks I just didn't understand regarding my pics that's all but see what you mean now so thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Handbags away please

can't find mine can I borrow yours?"

What colour? I have 100s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Handbags away please

can't find mine can I borrow yours?

What colour? I have 100s

green it will go with my eyes

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

the tvs ts cd can be pain but say just thanks but no thanks its all part of the game you have to put up with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe some people think your 2 public pictures don't match up...

when you can do better then my pics then you can get back to me, why show your body like you do and hide your face?"

Hey, his picture matches up very nicely... the face, the t-shirt, the mug and even the cushion are a lovely shade of red... I wonder if he wants me to pass him my dress!!!!

**written in a humourous tone** ----disclaimer!!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

all I get is the occasional wink and the odd polite message (maybe 5 or 6 in the 20 months I've been here) enquiring as to whether I might like to partake in some cock.

I'm rather put out! what's wrong with me? am I not attractive enough for them?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"all I get is the occasional wink and the odd polite message (maybe 5 or 6 in the 20 months I've been here) enquiring as to whether I might like to partake in some cock.

I'm rather put out! what's wrong with me? am I not attractive enough for them?

Regardless of the issue, have a go at creating some topics

at least it'll draw attention to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most People on here do not read the profile they just skip straight to the pics, the first line of mine reads

"NOT LOOKING FOR OVER 39'S, MF/FF COUPLES OR FEMS THANKYOU"

but I get umpteen messages a day from the above, as previously mentioned in other posts there should be more blocking facilities, not just for the single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

Wow what a tangled web we weave...but is that the fun of it...

its called the truth mate.

Wow! a sweeping generalisation of couples there

Welcome to the single man's world! lol

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Welcome to the single man's world! lol

'nother highfive BK

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

you get messages ? id not knock any lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you get messages ? id not knock any lol"

I am with you on that, a compliment is a compliment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No different from getting messages from married men, dominant men, men under 45, men from ethnic groups, dominant men, couples!!!

Think it's a little unfair you can only block single men...they are the only ones I want!!

I agree we need better filters with more options

mind you nothing more frustrating than seeing the same people look at you time & time again only to have single males blocked

I have a MM profile with a friend - it would be so easy to abuse it but I'm better than that - pitty some of the bi guys abuse their MF or MM profiles to get around the single guy block

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

Dont you just hate it when you see a Meet listed that states looking for M MF MM ect. and when you click the profile its got "Not Looking For Single Guys" checked so you cant message them or wink them!

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yeah my search is for people looking for men and i get that ..no single men thing grr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the same with females and couples contacting me, I have single guys blocked as well... as I only want to play with myself......

fucking pests they are..

they just don't appreciate a good wanker when they see him.."

LOL _iew - thats prolly the reason why they are contacting you! they want you to show them how to do it hun!

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

"I am the same with females and couples contacting me, I have single guys blocked as well... as I only want to play with myself......

fucking pests they are..

they just don't appreciate a good wanker when they see him.."

I dont think they've yet set up fabwankers.com you could be in with a business plan there.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Why's this an issue? ANYONE can block single guys. QED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the single man's world! lol

'nother highfive BK

Back at ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guess thats because couples cheat and even though they have no single males on their profile she goes off behind his back.

and he goes off behind her back with a man too

Wow what a tangled web we weave...but is that the fun of it...

its called the truth mate.

Wow! a sweeping generalisation of couples there

Welcome to the single man's world! lol

haha that's real talk right there lol.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"I'm a straight male, my profile says I'm straight so why do I keep getting bi males contacting me? Is there a filter for this on here has I can't see one.

Help"

This is almost the same as the constant winge form couples not wanting males.... Just goes to show how many peeps haven't got the patience to read instructions when setting up their account/profiles. Bet you have parts left over when building flat pack too! lol

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"what i want to know is how comes its only single males you have the option to block, why is there no option to block couples?

I was about to say the exact same thing!

I got the odd message from bi guys and I set my filter. But there's no block for couples, tv/ts or fems. We talk about preferences all the the time, shouldn't site options reflect this?

As usual Naughty you speak the truth.....just look at the number of times I've tried to block you but you always find a way round it! Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My question was answered 2 weeks ago so no longer whinging!

Please read all the posts in future

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"My question was answered 2 weeks ago so no longer whinging!

Please read all the posts in future "

lol maybe u should have read previous posts on this very subject rather than dredging it up yet again. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My question was answered 2 weeks ago so no longer whinging!

Please read all the posts in future

lol maybe u should have read previous posts on this very subject rather than dredging it up yet again. lol

i was new to the forums! Jesus your hard work and not nice to newbies. Forums are here for a reason if you don't like the post don't comment keep nasty comments to yourself it folks like you that stop people wanting to post on here

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"My question was answered 2 weeks ago so no longer whinging!

Please read all the posts in future

lol maybe u should have read previous posts on this very subject rather than dredging it up yet again. lol

i was new to the forums! Jesus your hard work and not nice to newbies. Forums are here for a

reason if you don't like the post don't comment

keep nasty comments to yourself it folks like you

that stop people wanting to post on here "

Little upset? as u say open forums expect answers that you won't always like as well as advice and when you sign up to sites in the future maybe you will read how to set up and not worry about unwanted attention. Other wise you will end up being seen as just another moaning single guy...... That's the way it is here as you will see as you read more threads......

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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Forgot to add " this topic has been done to death forget it and move on" sound familiar? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get a life your boring me now

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

batman ,dont rise to the bait hun .

you asked a question ,it was answered and you happily took the information on bord . some people forget they were new to site once too and it can be alil over whelming . you did the right thing to ask if your unsure about anything and people more than happy to pass on advise . the person could of phrased it better and more posativly when mentioning the search feature .as they say its not what you say but they WAY you say it.

keep posting and enjoy the site !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will do temptress and thanks for that

I feel sorry for newbies on here if that's what happens yes some questions may see trivial to some but we should still try to answer them if someones asking for help

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yes your right ,as i was told the only stupid question is the one you dont ask x

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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Got one thanks for your concern and just pointing out ur own Style of reply in another post,

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got one thanks for your concern and just pointing out ur own Style of reply in another post,

Have fun"

touche

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I will do temptress and thanks for that

I feel sorry for newbies on here if that's what happens yes some questions may see trivial to some but we should still try to answer them if someones asking for help"

Stick with the forums and don't take the bait.

We were all new once... *whimsical sigh*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sum times you can't help but take the bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will do temptress and thanks for that

I feel sorry for newbies on here if that's what happens yes some questions may see trivial to some but we should still try to answer them if someones asking for help

Stick with the forums and don't take the bait.

We were all new once... *whimsical sigh*

I like to think of my self as slightly used, 1 careful owner

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Any straight guys want sucked off?

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