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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look after her. This story isn't going to help you get laid here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what sort of answer you want. You've been here long enough and been having fun....

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Man up and do the right thing. Sex is not the be all and end all and how many forums do you need to post this on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CarersUk can help with support if you need that? Good luck, it can be hard looking after someone who's ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?"

carry on fucking anything with a pulse like you have been doing.

why would you even bother asking, anyone whos read your profile can see you for what you are, and that isn't a loving husband that's for sure.

its one thing needing sex if its missing from your life, with your wifes permission but the rest of it, im not surprised she doesn't want to have sex with you.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Can we call this one 'crash' & the other thread 'burn'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we call this one 'crash' & the other thread 'burn'? "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

TALK to her. She might understand that the situation is hard for you and give you her blessing to seek fun elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt will go well esp if he tells her on here and been meeting .

Yes he has it hard but he should try and see it through partner's eyes ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TALK to her. She might understand that the situation is hard for you and give you her blessing to seek fun elsewhere."

According to his profile he's has and she's fine with it.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Remember you vows in sickness and in Health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so why is he posting two forum posts on it ???.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TALK to her. She might understand that the situation is hard for you and give you her blessing to seek fun elsewhere.

According to his profile he's has and she's fine with it. "

Can't see the point of this thread then unless he's looking for acceptance of his situation which is unlikely on here, its a tough crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TALK to her. She might understand that the situation is hard for you and give you her blessing to seek fun elsewhere.

According to his profile he's has and she's fine with it.

Can't see the point of this thread then unless he's looking for acceptance of his situation which is unlikely on here, its a tough crowd

It might be a vain effort for sympathy. Not sure fab forums work like that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TALK to her. She might understand that the situation is hard for you and give you her blessing to seek fun elsewhere.

According to his profile he's has and she's fine with it.

Can't see the point of this thread then unless he's looking for acceptance of his situation which is unlikely on here, its a tough crowd

i don't see the point either. hes given a speel about the fun hes having with Italians or Spaniards or some such person, then how he parties all weekend then sleeps the rest. what is he ACTUALLY asking about?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This went well

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?"

What should you do about what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Marc were sick I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself sexually with someone else. Knowing he was ill and I chose to screw someone instead of be with him would be too much for me. Sex simply isn't that important to me.

If it were reversed, I would give him permission to play with others. Whether or not he would, I can't answer.

As for you, well, it's your life. Have a think and come to your own conclusions - though it seems as if you already have.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?

carry on fucking anything with a pulse like you have been doing.

why would you even bother asking, anyone whos read your profile can see you for what you are, and that isn't a loving husband that's for sure.

its one thing needing sex if its missing from your life, with your wifes permission but the rest of it, im not surprised she doesn't want to have sex with you. "

I agree entirely.This guy sounds odious having read his profile.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I just prepared her some chicken soup and bread. She is really sick atm.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?

carry on fucking anything with a pulse like you have been doing.

why would you even bother asking, anyone whos read your profile can see you for what you are, and that isn't a loving husband that's for sure.

its one thing needing sex if its missing from your life, with your wifes permission but the rest of it, im not surprised she doesn't want to have sex with you.

I agree entirely.This guy sounds odious having read his profile."

Its alright she does want to have sex occasionally. But what do you mean by the rest of it? If you mean my lifestyle well I'm working on it.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"CarersUk can help with support if you need that? Good luck, it can be hard looking after someone who's ill."

I didn't know that Carers UK offered such a holistic range of services!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CarersUk can help with support if you need that? Good luck, it can be hard looking after someone who's ill.

I didn't know that Carers UK offered such a holistic range of services!

They're brilliant, can't fault them.

They offer support just for talking to someone if you need that, meeting other carers so you aren't isolated, where to get financial help, even legal advice.

I do a bit of campaigning with them as well, they campaign against government cuts and for disabled peoples rights and their carers rights too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got the joke lol, no they don't offer sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you think would happen if the situation was the other way round ? Would you be happy with her having sex with a variety of strangers and for her to party all night and sleep all day at the weekends ? Would you be happy to fend for yourself while shes off having fun while you are ill ?

Seems selfish to me ! Life is about more than sex !

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"What would you think would happen if the situation was the other way round ? Would you be happy with her having sex with a variety of strangers and for her to party all night and sleep all day at the weekends ? Would you be happy to fend for yourself while shes off having fun while you are ill ?

Seems selfish to me ! Life is about more than sex !"

Don't forget the chicken soup...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I'm trying out polyamory" seems like a slightly contradictory phrase to me, not that any body's asking...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Just got the joke lol, no they don't offer sex...

lol

NOW I understand why they were so against the bedroom tax!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just got the joke lol, no they don't offer sex...

lol

NOW I understand why they were so against the bedroom tax!

Lol yeah.

I wanna post sensible answers to your jokes though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why OP has asked for advice or made this topic.

Yeah he is selfish and selfish often has negative connotations. But we aren't him, we aren't living his life, we don't really have the right to judge him or his life. Why can't people be selfish if it isn't harming anyone else?

OP what is it you want exactly? Maybe if you made it clearer people might be able to help, and don't be ashamed of having needs coz everyone has them.

If you're looking for sex then the meets section probably would've been better.

if you're looking for sympathy then unfortunately you're gonna have to make yurself vulnerable, which will leave you open to attack from others on here but will also make people be able to emapathise or sympathise with you in a better way.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

*LAM IN PROGRESS*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say, I know you're really sick but I want to empty my balls inside someone else. To soften the blow, then offer to fluff her pillow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just prepared her some chicken soup and bread. She is really sick atm.

By "prepared" do you mean poured out of a tin and heated up

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Seems selfish to me ! Life is about more than sex !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humans never fail to amuse, it's why we came here.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Put yourself in your partners shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?"

Is this a real question or are you just after a pity fuck?

Either way you're going to get the same answer - you're a dick.

Does your "long term ill" partner know you're meeting anyone and everyone for casual sex?

She deserves better.

She's sick and all you can think about is the fact that she can't have much sex anymore?

Nice... really nice.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?

Is this a real question or are you just after a pity fuck?

Either way you're going to get the same answer - you're a dick.

Does your "long term ill" partner know you're meeting anyone and everyone for casual sex?

She deserves better.

She's sick and all you can think about is the fact that she can't have much sex anymore?

Nice... really nice. "

Totally agree! Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been with my partner for over 20 years, she is long term ill, 59 years old and can hardly ever have sex anymore. What should I do?

Is this a real question or are you just after a pity fuck?

Either way you're going to get the same answer - you're a dick.

Does your "long term ill" partner know you're meeting anyone and everyone for casual sex?

She deserves better.

She's sick and all you can think about is the fact that she can't have much sex anymore?

Nice... really nice.

Totally agree! Well said"

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your fab profile....im sure you be joinning her on the sick bed then fella.

Seriously do you even have to ask. Man up and give her the care and help she needs

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