FabSwingers.com forum: want to meet couples but scared

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been swinging seriously for a few month now and have met couples in a club environment, but want to start meeting at home but the thought is a little scary. My mind goes into over drive and thinks of all different scenarios, plus finding a couple who appeal is hard with there being so many single guys posing as couples.

Just want a little advice on where to start.

Thanks guys in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

How about meeting a couple that you have already met in a club for a private meet??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello

How about meeting a couple that you have already met in a club for a private meet??

Sadly it was a while ago and one couple has gave this scene up and the other, I was that terrified with it being my first time I scarpered without getting names.

Know I need to take the plunge but need to find the confidence.

Thanks for the reply though, will keep it in mind next time I venture to a club x

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By *eanutButterJellyTimeCouple
over a year ago

the middle of the world

How about popping down to the next local social? Would give you s chance to have a chat and see if there's anyone you want to meet in a more personal setting...

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Take your time, there is no rush. And those that want to rush, there not worth knowing.

If your unsure that a couple are 'a couple' ask to see them both on cam. Once satisfied then maybe meet for a social no pressure drink. Then if your happy your free to arrange a further meet in your own time.

Personally I wouldn't do that in my own home.

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Just start to attend some private parties as there is less pressure with a bigger group of people than a direct meeting

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Love to help you, but we are outside your age range

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By *elsimCouple
over a year ago

colchester

We know the feeling. Good luck.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Plenty of communication, always, is really the best advice. Do not meet until you feel, as much as you are able, that you can trust them.

To be honest though, whatever you do once you meet a couple in their home you are theroetically at risk.

Look on the bright side though - there are lots and lots of lovely couples on Fab who have nothing more nefarious in mind than giving a woman they welcome into their home a night of unbridled pleasure. So good luck, you'll almost certainly find what you are looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick to parties for the time being. Feeling comfatable and safe is important.

Lucy.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always scared of meeting couples when i was on here as a single female. I found a couple in a club who i became good friends with and eventually felt comfortable enough to play with them. I felt this was the best for me as i don't think i would of physically arranged a meet with a couple off here and met them.

Good luck!!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some lovely couples both from chatting on here and also at clubs! I've not played with very many but those I have i have a great friendship with ! I'm very respectful of their boundaries and, from my point of view, I mainly speak with the female or both if they are both online ! Take it at your own pace and don't rush into it X I am always flattered if a lovely couple want me to join them! Hope it goes well for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been swinging seriously for a few month now and have met couples in a club environment, but want to start meeting at home but the thought is a little scary. My mind goes into over drive and thinks of all different scenarios, plus finding a couple who appeal is hard with there being so many single guys posing as couples.

Just want a little advice on where to start.

Thanks guys in advance x"

dont rush into anything only meet on your terms and always make sure its safe

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I haven't ever done it but I would suggest chatting to some on fab first followed by phone calls to both male and female just to make sure there is a female xx

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Why not pop up to the Newcastle social on 14th of Nov.

Loads of couples there you can chat to in a social context.

Some are very sexy indeed.

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