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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does if your close to a cliff or very tall building

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any genuine help out there ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I seem to remember a thread about this recently, why not try a search?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Works?for sure it does but it's nothing new...been goin on for centuries...It is also known as self discipline..

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

AKA Tantric sex I believe. Ancient technique and a search on the forums brings up quite a few threads.

L2

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The more that you can train yourself to not cum, the greater your skill should be. As with sports, everyone will have different abilities, so the only way to explore what's possible for you is to explore it. There are forums out there where guys discuss it.

Edging is also used to build up the pleasure and intensity level of when you do cum too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated "
yes mind you don't fall off hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being edged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we like it oop ere in the north. Helps to separate the garden and is an attractive backdrop. Bit of waney lap fence does the same job but much 'igher maintenance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does and will help you with the male multiple orgasm

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Fuck yes

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated "

Wanking and holding off and off will no doubt help but there is only a certain amount that is ever going to help. It's going to stop you popping on first sight, but you probably already have that. What you need is variety of meets and resulting technique. I thought I had control, until some woman mounted me like a hobby horse - shamefully embarrassed myself lol. Getting a decent technique is as important as good stamina. You can be pounding for England with no 'flavour' and it be just boring and dry or you can rock it for a few minutes and it be explosive as hell.

Plenty of women crack on about lasting all night, and repeater this and that ... you blow their rocks off and yeah, they wanna go again, but in all honesty, that 1, 3, 5 or 7th+ in the space of 20 minutes or 3 hrs quietens them down. Get technique I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we edge/tantric often, its awesome when you both hold back it makes everything more intense,

as others have said it may not help with stamina but should help you recognise your point of no return giving you time to stop before you blow, also you need to be disciplined with yourself to be able to stop before you cum, enjoy practising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it works. Been edging for 30+ years now!! Take yourself close to cumming when you wank, then slow down or stop. Start again soon as you can and take yourself close as you can and then stop again. See how many times you can do so without cumming. The more times and longer you last, the more intense your orgasm will be. Keep doing it when on your own and then you will find you last so much longer when you're with a woman. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more that you can train yourself to not cum, the greater your skill should be. As with sports, everyone will have different abilities, so the only way to explore what's possible for you is to explore it. There are forums out there where guys discuss it.

Edging is also used to build up the pleasure and intensity level of when you do cum too. "

I liked how you tied edging in there with sports

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There's quite a few videos online with this in for ideas.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Or you can just use those special condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes edging does work the orgasm when you do allow it is so intense,been trying out another "experiment" taking something to increase volume in my cum what guy does not want bigger loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to see the op getting good advice rather than the mickey taken out of him!

Hope it all helps op!

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated "
frankie goes to hollywodd started dis didnt he

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It does work, on the downside it can be difficult to reverse... resulting in three hours of pounding and jelly legs for the walk home for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it will help...see if you can get the book 'the multi orgasmic man'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it will help...see if you can get the book 'the multi orgasmic man'"

Will look into that,thanks

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated

Wanking and holding off and off will no doubt help but there is only a certain amount that is ever going to help. It's going to stop you popping on first sight, but you probably already have that. What you need is variety of meets and resulting technique. I thought I had control, until some woman mounted me like a hobby horse - shamefully embarrassed myself lol. Getting a decent technique is as important as good stamina. You can be pounding for England with no 'flavour' and it be just boring and dry or you can rock it for a few minutes and it be explosive as hell.

Plenty of women crack on about lasting all night, and repeater this and that ... you blow their rocks off and yeah, they wanna go again, but in all honesty, that 1, 3, 5 or 7th+ in the space of 20 minutes or 3 hrs quietens them down. Get technique I say "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that it's more psychological than physical it takes work but I find it reduces the excitement by trying to distract you're self before you get too close to cumming.

Keep repeating this and train yourself over time to last longer and longer.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Fuck yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being tied and edged, I find it incredibly horny being controlled by a woman, only her deciding if, and when I get my release. Hours and hours of an aching, throbbing cock with regular rough wiping away of pre-cum oozing from my member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does if your close to a cliff or very tall building "

Hey no coercing suicide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated

Wanking and holding off and off will no doubt help but there is only a certain amount that is ever going to help. It's going to stop you popping on first sight, but you probably already have that. What you need is variety of meets and resulting technique. I thought I had control, until some woman mounted me like a hobby horse - shamefully embarrassed myself lol. Getting a decent technique is as important as good stamina. You can be pounding for England with no 'flavour' and it be just boring and dry or you can rock it for a few minutes and it be explosive as hell.

Plenty of women crack on about lasting all night, and repeater this and that ... you blow their rocks off and yeah, they wanna go again, but in all honesty, that 1, 3, 5 or 7th+ in the space of 20 minutes or 3 hrs quietens them down. Get technique I say "

Oh my lord.. Women crack on about going on all night. Ive had messages from guys telling me they can go all night, repeat cummers.. So do not just say its us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated frankie goes to hollywodd started dis didnt he"

Yes, Relax do not do it when you want to go to it...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Does edging work"

Does it ever

I've never tried it from the point of increasing stamina, but as a way of getting ever increasing levels of intense stimulation, it's fantastic..

Cal

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

The longest I've edged was three weeks - in the end I was dripping precum so finally let it all go and it was amazing - a long lasting orgasm and lots of spunk though it was watery compared to my usual thick wads. Have also had edging sessions with other guys and it was a great turn on to see who could last longest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does work, on the downside it can be difficult to reverse... resulting in three hours of pounding and jelly legs for the walk home for her "

And thats a bad thing because?

You can also 'edge' a lady during sex...take her to the brink, then stop, do something else until the climax subsides...she will be screaming at you after a number of times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The longest I've edged was three weeks - in the end I was dripping precum so finally let it all go and it was amazing - a long lasting orgasm and lots of spunk though it was watery compared to my usual thick wads. Have also had edging sessions with other guys and it was a great turn on to see who could last longest "

Three weeks? I'm confused. Did you not eat or drink?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

No continuously lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I edged a guy once till he couldn't stand it any more - he put his hands behind his back and by contracting his muscles made his cock bob up and down - after a few bobs he shot his load no hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated "

I grew out of 2 pumps and a squirt when I was about 17!

Now days I can pretty much choose when I cum. Strengthen your kegel muscles and then eventually you can just squeeze and it stops you from cuming. But sometimes it backfires and you can't cum at all. (No pun intended)

I'm not sure what edging is if I'm honest.h

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does work but now find it hard to cum by sex or bj as either still hard and the lady has finished or the natural stimulation is not enough and need the more rigorous wanking to get me over the point of no return.

Too much edging will leave you on the edge of you get my drift.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

It works on a few fronts be it exercising control or loading up for plans

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By *exyjane4funTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

I too have edged from an early age it's very intense pleasure being edged and I can have lots of little orgasms I'm so in control with shooting my load.

When I do cum I'm kinda gutted cause I find the pleasure addictive.it does help you last longer rather than having a quick wank.iv been edging and stopping all day today and still hard as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edging is getting close and preventing yourself from cumming by just stopping until you've "calmed down". I have done this pretty much all my wanking life as well as surfing which is getting to the point of cumming and then slowing down just enough to stop cumming but keeping things going enough to stay hard and in a euphoric state.

This is a real art form if you are able to take it to the extreme. People talk about marathon sex and masturbation sessions lasting hours but i am able to wank all day without cumming then after a night's sleep start all over again continuing for days without cumming.

It's hard to describe what this feels like, it is extreme and a total waste of your life but the sexual peak you reach is like nothing else! You go past wanting to cum and to the point where the last thing you want to do is cum.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Great for you to join the party! Resurrection of a 25 week old thread

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I want to improve my stamina and have heard of edging. Does it work, what's the best way to do it/ how often etc? Any advice is greatly appreciated "

Never worked for me

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