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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x" Has your 'o' gone? | |||
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"Fair enuf seems allot of men have been letting a lot of girls down x" Text speak , too Many xxx Then the age group your going for , 45 , we didn't grow up with text speak , we find it annoying , it's like something one our children wrote in a text that we can never understand . And the embarrassment of asking the girl in the shop what it means . As we have no idea . As your after such a wide range of ages , you need to change how you write to the chosen audience . Also anyone over 45 would be put off by the age, and their are some pretty fit men and women over 45 , would you really turn them down because of two years out your age range . Then the lower edge , it's highly unlikely you will find a genuine 18 year old her , so raise the lowere age to 20 or 21 or older . I know this profile is rubbish but only do club meets | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x" I would be totally put off by the text speak, it is like communicating with a teenager Surely it's not difficult to type 'don't' instead of 'dnt'? It just seems lazy to me, sorry | |||
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"It is like a roulette, mostly by luck if a reply is given lol." its got nothing to do with luck or roulette, the text speak will be putting most of, its all about the effort you put in and how you put yourself across. | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x" . You have good photos and are young so time is on your side . However you need a lot more than that to generate interest . You profile says little about you and some members will be put off by spelling mistakes . Profiles have to be really worked on as they are your only marketing tool . | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x. You have good photos and are young so time is on your side . However you need a lot more than that to generate interest . You profile says little about you and some members will be put off by spelling mistakes . Profiles have to be really worked on as they are your only marketing tool ." Try attending clubs that have a select few blokes as a means of getting a foot hold. | |||
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"and when you do go to clubs. Don't creep around people or follow them around." on the other hand, I remember getting into a jacuzzi in a spa with a few people in it (none playing) and greeting everyone with a cheery "alright?".....nobody spoke.... | |||
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"Fair enuf seems allot of men have been letting a lot of girls down x" How do you know that? Even if it's true, it won't affect your chances one bit... | |||
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"Some people are rude and don't reply. Better to find out they are rude before wasting time on chatting. " It's not rude. It's in site FAQS that no response is a no thankyou. My profile says not meeting. I still get mail. Is it rude to not reply? No. It was rude of them to try to waste my time as well as their own. Even when I was meeting I didn't reply to all. Most just got deleted as I could read the whole message without opening. Or I'd read the profile 1st and any number of things could have put me off. Not wasting my own time if not interested. | |||
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"Some people are rude and don't reply. Better to find out they are rude before wasting time on chatting. It's not rude. It's in site FAQS that no response is a no thankyou. My profile says not meeting. I still get mail. Is it rude to not reply? No. It was rude of them to try to waste my time as well as their own. Even when I was meeting I didn't reply to all. Most just got deleted as I could read the whole message without opening. Or I'd read the profile 1st and any number of things could have put me off. Not wasting my own time if not interested. " If the site FAQs said it's ok to shave your head, the site would be full of bald people. | |||
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"Some people are rude and don't reply. Better to find out they are rude before wasting time on chatting. It's not rude. It's in site FAQS that no response is a no thankyou. My profile says not meeting. I still get mail. Is it rude to not reply? No. It was rude of them to try to waste my time as well as their own. Even when I was meeting I didn't reply to all. Most just got deleted as I could read the whole message without opening. Or I'd read the profile 1st and any number of things could have put me off. Not wasting my own time if not interested. If the site FAQs said it's ok to shave your head, the site would be full of bald people. " Errr....not a fair or accurate analogy at all. Those that wanted to shave their head would, and those that didn't, wouldn't . The site would not be full of bald people. | |||
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"Some people are rude and don't reply. Better to find out they are rude before wasting time on chatting. It's not rude. It's in site FAQS that no response is a no thankyou. My profile says not meeting. I still get mail. Is it rude to not reply? No. It was rude of them to try to waste my time as well as their own. Even when I was meeting I didn't reply to all. Most just got deleted as I could read the whole message without opening. Or I'd read the profile 1st and any number of things could have put me off. Not wasting my own time if not interested. If the site FAQs said it's ok to shave your head, the site would be full of bald people. Errr....not a fair or accurate analogy at all. Those that wanted to shave their head would, and those that didn't, wouldn't . The site would not be full of bald people. " Fair point. x | |||
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"Some people are rude and don't reply. Better to find out they are rude before wasting time on chatting. It's not rude. It's in site FAQS that no response is a no thankyou. My profile says not meeting. I still get mail. Is it rude to not reply? No. It was rude of them to try to waste my time as well as their own. Even when I was meeting I didn't reply to all. Most just got deleted as I could read the whole message without opening. Or I'd read the profile 1st and any number of things could have put me off. Not wasting my own time if not interested. If the site FAQs said it's ok to shave your head, the site would be full of bald people. Errr....not a fair or accurate analogy at all. Those that wanted to shave their head would, and those that didn't, wouldn't . The site would not be full of bald people. Fair point. x" Otherwise it'd be "Kojakswingers" Showing my age now. | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x" it takes a while ,your profile needs filling out, a lot of women are funny about grammar and punctuation and text speak also pics a little boring ,when you message read their profile and base your message on it oh and send a face pic hugs | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x" Things happen when you least expect them to, I got a message from an attractive, really nice woman out of the blue the other day and we're meeting next week. You need to have a lot of patience on this site. | |||
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"I no a lot of single men are on here but I'm polite a don't keep re sending and I dnt just put hi so how come I dnt get replies lol x I would be totally put off by the text speak, it is like communicating with a teenager Surely it's not difficult to type 'don't' instead of 'dnt'? It just seems lazy to me, sorry " It is evem easier to KNOW when to say NO. | |||
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"Oh, and when you post a thread asking for advice and make no effort to react with it even though you've been on after half the comments were made, that says great things too. " I know!!! I begrudge giving advice to people who seem like they don't deserve a meet anyway!!! Grrr | |||
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"Oh, and when you post a thread asking for advice and make no effort to react with it even though you've been on after half the comments were made, that says great things too. " It's a regular thing. As soon as they get a response that doesn't match their predefined idea of what they SHOULD be getting, they pretend the thread doesn't exist. 3 weeks later, the virtually identical thread appears. | |||
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