FabSwingers.com forum: Secretly recorded at meets

By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

We have always wondered if we was being recorded at someone's place during a meet. Obviously now days with modern tech you could possible be sitting in a film set n not know it.

So how would you go about protecting yourselves from such a thing.

Reason we're asking this, is not because we're planning on filming without premission. but we have just discovered our smart tv has a camera in it. Completely brand new news to us, and it's completely invisible. (It's built into screen I believe)

One meet we left before it even heated up as we noticed him playing about with his laptop and suspiciously angled towards the bed.

Anyone had anything similar ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have always wondered if we was being recorded at someone's place during a meet. Obviously now days with modern tech you could possible be sitting in a film set n not know it.

So how would you go about protecting yourselves from such a thing.

One meet we left before it even heated up as we noticed him playing about with his laptop and suspiciously angled towards the bed.

Anyone had anything similar ?

No but just invite them to yours . Or tell them if they are going to film can we have a copy .

If they say yes, walk out as they are filming

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I have had this countless times. Either people whipping out their cameras or their phones on the side on video already ready to be picked up. It is disgusting. I have avoided chatting on cams just for this reason too - as I was chatting face to face with a woman and spotted a red dot on her desk, I asked what it was and she jovially replied "a camera" - she backed out saying it wasn't recording me - though I quit the conversation. Odd as I had met her a few times! I am more than certain I have been snapped without my knowledge on meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not had this of course it would breach my copyrights so I could I assume sue after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm blindfolded on my meets . One particular meet (meet up number 2) wanted me stood up in certain clothes waiting. I did this and I could see the light on his camera and he was videoing up my skirt!! I could see from beneath my blindfold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm blindfolded on my meets . One particular meet (meet up number 2) wanted me stood up in certain clothes waiting. I did this and I could see the light on his camera and he was videoing up my skirt!! I could see from beneath my blindfold."
Noooooo you were peeking ,naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a meet, a couple I had met before, where the husband sat downstairs, ostensibly doing some work, while I played with the wife upstairs. After half an hour or so I noticed another laptop high up on a wardrobe with the camera pointed at the bed.

Whether it was recorded or 'live', I never asked. If that's what they were in to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God but your body is straight from heaven. I can understand why he wanted to record his joyful meet but I wouldn't have the steady hands to manage the fiddly buttons. You're gorgeous.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We have recorded a meet before, but that was part of a specific fantasy. We were up front and told the guy before hand and we all work masquerade masks...we all loved it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No secret here we openly video our meets and wont meet camera shy people

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Informed consent.

I'd be livid if I found anyone doing that. Total breach of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have always wondered if we was being recorded at someone's place during a meet. Obviously now days with modern tech you could possible be sitting in a film set n not know it.

So how would you go about protecting yourselves from such a thing.

One meet we left before it even heated up as we noticed him playing about with his laptop and suspiciously angled towards the bed.

Anyone had anything similar ?

Yes once met a guy who moved his phone when I put my bag in front of it. So I moved the bag again and asked if there was a problem. .. Worried then that as I'd met him begore he could already have filmed us.

Is it a crime?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've not had anything like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy in a hotel and i realised after a while that he was filming us playing and it was playing live in a chat room.

I left and never met him again but i had already met him a few times and worried that he had possibly filmed us before too !

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Hate this. I've caught folk out who have taken photos and then passed them onto others who passed them on and hey presto - I get them back via a 4th or 5th party... Despicable and a violation of my privacy. I'm discreet to the point of being branded a fake as I don't show my veris but better this than being paraded over an all too public internet. Neutral locations all the way now unless with VERY trusted playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with anyone recording meets but then again I love being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful."

no...it is not tantamount to rape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape."
it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let guys ive been seeing for a while and trust video us. But we have to both be in it. I had a guy try to take video of me one night and i got such a fright i knocked the phone out of his hand. He was asked to leave after i made sure he hadnt got anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults"

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

"Is it a crime?"

Yes.

Voyeurism - Recording

A person commits an offence if he:

A) records another person (B) doing a private act

B) he does so with the intention that he or a third person will, for the purpose of obtaining sexual gratification, look at an image of B doing the act and

C) he knows that B does not consent to his recording the act with that intention.

The power of google

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

^^ Having said that, it would be interesting going to the police with that one!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd start telling jokes, then tell them about a funny thing that happened on my way to the meet before finishing on a big dance number - this could be my chance to be discovered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could film me ... but they'd need wide screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape."

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion."

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so."

Yes you are, but not to criticise someone for theirs because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so.

Yes you are, but not to criticise someone for theirs because of it."

i did not criticise them ; i disagreed with their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so.

Yes you are, but not to criticise someone for theirs because of it.

i did not criticise them ; i disagreed with their opinion."

Oh well that's tickety boo then. Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'll yeah! We were fucking in the jacuzzi at Hedonism. We noticed a guy with earphones holding an iPhone, pointed our way. Strange because there's always loud music playing. Plus Electronic devices are prohibited, I grabbed him & held him until security turned up. The security checked his phone first, but he'd deleted fast. Meaning we were uploaded up into a 'cloud'. He was kicked off the resort before I could batter him!

Sad bastard! Good job we put on one hell of a spectacle a lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so.

Yes you are, but not to criticise someone for theirs because of it.

i did not criticise them ; i disagreed with their opinion.

Oh well that's tickety boo then. Happy fabbing.

Lol.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We have met a couple of guys who tried to angle their laptops in the direction of where we were sitting pretending to be looking at their music play list , So I John turned it away from us just didn't feel right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just wrong to record images of anyone without consent if the activity is considered intimate or private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a "single" lady from another site several times. When we played, she always wanted to lay in the same position on the same mat in the living room. After a couple of times I did wonder if she had a camera. I had a meet with a couple off here who knew this girl, and asked me "if I had noticed the pation curtains were always open a little bit? It turns out that hubby liked to spy on his lady getting pleasured through the gap in the curtains. Ohhhh, I feel so used.....lol.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Where would I stand legally if I noticed someone filming on their laptop without permission, and then proceeded to jump up and down on said laptop wearing big boots?

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

If someone films you illegally without your knowledge or consent you can go to the police, when i film someone or a group etc i need photo id and consent forms signed before i can use the material.

Don't worry when swinging i leave my cameras at home lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet where we new it was being recorded for supposedly private use and a copy each.

We got a blank disc months later we saw the same woman selling hundreds of amateur porn films on another site.

How stupid were we!

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

This thread is making me a bit paranoid! One reason why it's good to play in clubs, as no cameras allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a meet where we new it was being recorded for supposedly private use and a copy each.

We got a blank disc months later we saw the same woman selling hundreds of amateur porn films on another site.

How stupid were we!"

So just out of interest if Someone has cctv warning signs up warning you may be filmed and or sound recorded

Surely you consent to bring filmed anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a meet where we new it was being recorded for supposedly private use and a copy each.

We got a blank disc months later we saw the same woman selling hundreds of amateur porn films on another site.

How stupid were we!

So just out of interest if Someone has cctv warning signs up warning you may be filmed and or sound recorded

Surely you consent to bring filmed anyway "
No. We were new and very naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just out of interest if Someone has cctv warning signs up warning you may be filmed and or sound recorded

Surely you consent to bring filmed anyway No. We were new and very naive "

The reason I asked is that I have cctv cameras that cover the way in and out of my place and One that covers my van .

I can check my cctv from my iPhone see if windows shut . I even get a notification if someone comes to my front door on my phone

My neighbours don't mind in fact they welcome it

Surely when you walk somewhere that has cctv like a shop bank club pub or past people's houses with cctv you are consenting to being filmed

How does not consenting to being filmed help in this situation

Bear in mind this has nothin to do with being filmed having sex from laptops etc just consenting to be filmed where cctv is installed legally

And if your out in public say in a pub Beer garden that had cctv And it was shown on YouTube etc where do you stand

Remember this has nothing to do with being filmed on laptops phones etc whilsy on a meet without permission or secretly

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

In the end there is no way to protect yourself.

It's just a random crap shoot, you can take precautions but in the end it's down to random chance.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

If they are recording secretly then there is little you can do.

We have take pics on a meeting, but we insist on swapping, so I'll take pics with their camera so I can be sure I'm happy with what is being shown.

They can take pics with our camera so we can edit them to our hearts content afterwards.

Ie remove faces and tattoos.

But you just have to hope you meet nice folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just browse x hamster and see if you can spot anyone you know? I wouldnt trust at least 90% of people on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just out of interest if Someone has cctv warning signs up warning you may be filmed and or sound recorded

Surely you consent to bring filmed anyway No. We were new and very naive

The reason I asked is that I have cctv cameras that cover the way in and out of my place and One that covers my van .

I can check my cctv from my iPhone see if windows shut . I even get a notification if someone comes to my front door on my phone

My neighbours don't mind in fact they welcome it

Surely when you walk somewhere that has cctv like a shop bank club pub or past people's houses with cctv you are consenting to being filmed

How does not consenting to being filmed help in this situation

Bear in mind this has nothin to do with being filmed having sex from laptops etc just consenting to be filmed where cctv is installed legally

And if your out in public say in a pub Beer garden that had cctv And it was shown on YouTube etc where do you stand

Remember this has nothing to do with being filmed on laptops phones etc whilsy on a meet without permission or secretly "

Because those places have signs saying they are covered by cctv and you have the choice to enter or not enter if you prefer not too. so by entering said building you are giving your consent to be filmed on cctv and most establishments override them over a set time period too so they are deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just out of interest if Someone has cctv warning signs up warning you may be filmed and or sound recorded

Surely you consent to bring filmed anyway No. We were new and very naive

The reason I asked is that I have cctv cameras that cover the way in and out of my place and One that covers my van .

I can check my cctv from my iPhone see if windows shut . I even get a notification if someone comes to my front door on my phone

My neighbours don't mind in fact they welcome it

Surely when you walk somewhere that has cctv like a shop bank club pub or past people's houses with cctv you are consenting to being filmed

How does not consenting to being filmed help in this situation

Bear in mind this has nothin to do with being filmed having sex from laptops etc just consenting to be filmed where cctv is installed legally

And if your out in public say in a pub Beer garden that had cctv And it was shown on YouTube etc where do you stand

Remember this has nothing to do with being filmed on laptops phones etc whilsy on a meet without permission or secretly

Plus most of those places you aren't going to be naked and fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely everything is about Informed Consent - without consent the people need to be dealt with quickly and harshly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems it's going to, or already arrived, at a stage where you cannot be sure you are not being filmed. The big problem is that if you don't know where the camera (s) is/are then how in God's name can you ever hope to put in an Oscar winning performance and hide your fiddly bits!

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I met a guy in a hotel and i realised after a while that he was filming us playing and it was playing live in a chat room.

I left and never met him again but i had already met him a few times and worried that he had possibly filmed us before too !"

dam girl that's insane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's going to, or already arrived, at a stage where you cannot be sure you are not being filmed. The big problem is that if you don't know where the camera (s) is/are then how in God's name can you ever hope to put in an Oscar winning performance and hide your fiddly bits!

I have seen them looking like fire alarms and burglar alarm sensors one of mine is so small and mounted in a window Frame from more than 2 foot away looks like a 6 mm hole even further you can't see it

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

I guess you have to trust the people you are meeting or provide the location and be alert.

Secret camera recording equipment are now very small and can be anything from a teddy to a frame in these times of nanny cam etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess you have to trust the people you are meeting or provide the location and be alert.

Secret camera recording equipment are now very small and can be anything from a teddy to a frame in these times of nanny cam etc"

It's also becoming more Common place when your out and about you see

So many more houses with cctv outside you can get a door camera now that replaces your eye hole

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"This thread is making me a bit paranoid! One reason why it's good to play in clubs, as no cameras allowed."

Yes, my thoughts exactly. Hadn't ever occurred to me that someone might do this.

We have a private meet on Thursday. They person we're meeting seems very trustworthy but, just in case, I'm now going to do a quick check of electronic devices!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is making me a bit paranoid! One reason why it's good to play in clubs, as no cameras allowed.

Yes, my thoughts exactly. Hadn't ever occurred to me that someone might do this.

We have a private meet on Thursday. They person we're meeting seems very trustworthy but, just in case, I'm now going to do a quick check of electronic devices!

The idea of a fixed cctv system is the box is usually locked away so in event of breakin people don't steal the box

I reckon the best way is to just ask for a copy of any recording as soon as you go in

And of course there's dogging as well people with dashboard cams I have them in mine

I have a small clip on cctv that records sound and video it's smAller than a clipper that is used at work

It's so easy to record stuff these days most have mobile phones with video in vide camera etc etc etc

Now it's trendy to have cctv dash cams body cctv how many are actually being recorded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have always wondered if we was being recorded at someone's place during a meet. Obviously now days with modern tech you could possible be sitting in a film set n not know it.

So how would you go about protecting yourselves from such a thing.

One meet we left before it even heated up as we noticed him playing about with his laptop and suspiciously angled towards the bed.

Anyone had anything similar ?

It's seriously rude to not tell people and a massive breach of confidentiality if they find out and don't agree, not to mention if the recording gets out you are opening yourself up to being dragged through courts.

Fuck the embarrassment I'd bloody lynch someone that didn't ask.

ASK!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some pics taken on a meet at my request, using my camera. I will be doing the same on Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any pics /films are taken on my phone any pics that include others get sent to them and if theres any part of me in pic they ask before posting them.I've put in pic requests with someone I meet regular...ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No secret here we openly video our meets and wont meet camera shy people

Exactly this, why bother being all covert and weirdo-ish when most folk are fine with it.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

IDE never vid any lady in my company unless she wanted to but I was photoed bye a guy while I fucked his lady but IDE given permission first n IDE Luved being photoed bye him n he sent copies of photos to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Camera definitely in use on Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have said..well this is why i/we only meet in clubs but seriously, how do you know the club owners arent recording anything or indeed any attendees at the club..?

Cameras are everywhere now..

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3219484/Travelodge-guest-disgusted-camera-hidden-shower-linked-caretaker-s-cupboard.html

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy in a hotel and i realised after a while that he was filming us playing and it was playing live in a chat room.

I left and never met him again but i had already met him a few times and worried that he had possibly filmed us before too !

dam girl that's insane."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape. it is illegal to record a sexual act without full consent of the adults

im sure it is ,but is is in no way tantamount to rape.

She does say " as far as I'm concerned " and is entitled to her opinion.

it was a he actually,and he is entitled to hold that opinion, but i hardly think an invasion of privacy is 'tantamount to rape'...and i am equaly entitled to say so.

Yes you are, but not to criticise someone for theirs because of it.

i did not criticise them ; i disagreed with their opinion."

No problem with any of that - didn't realise I had started such a debate. I believed I was viewing it from the female perspective and assuming that video could end up posted on YouPorn or similar. I think that is taking advantage of someone sexually without their consent. Obviously, physical rape is worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our first meet the guy warned us about hidden camera and always play in your own hotel room for safety. Since then that's what we did.

Thank god we didn't invite people to our house as had a couple of regulars whom we thought we could trust turn bad.

I love hotels as very neutral ground, less chance of hidden cameras etc

Last thing on earth I would want is my picture plastered over the net for clients and family friends to see. This is my own private little world. I would like to keep it that way

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Back when i was single i used to meet a couple, he stayed downstairs and everybody went upstairs. It was never mentioned but there were cameras in every corner and hubby was downstairs watching on a huge wall mounted tv. Was quite obvious about it but was never mentioned, never had a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was to happen to me, I would take the laptop/webcam and smash it to pieces!!!

How dare anyone secretly film you, if a couple asked me I wouldn't have a problem with it, but to do it behind your back is disgusting

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

"Filming without permission is tantamount to rape as far as I am concerned - would never do it, nor be happy if it happened. Awful.

no...it is not tantamount to rape."

Its definitely not the same as rape but its still a massive breach of trust. All comes down to consent at the end of the day.

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over a year ago

When we first started swinging we said we wouldn't meet at someone elses house for this exact reason, and we never have .

Ofcourse you trust that a playmate wouldn't ever be that disrespectful and breach your privacy but in reality with modern technology theres no way of being certain.

Its something we are aware of and we choose to take the calculated risk but feel this is lessened slightly by meeting at our house.

If someone did this to us we'd feel completely violated and disgusted.

Sasha x

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