FabSwingers.com forum: Shitting a brick

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I find myself on the guest list for a private party next Friday, gonna be my first time,going with a lady friend who's also a first timer.

I've been told I will be fine as I'm such a confident guy and a seasoned party guest has promised to help me relax.

All good? So why am I shitting a proverbial brick?

There's so many what ifs going through my head.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Put the what ifs away. Parties are like any other meet you do what you're comfortable with.

Hope you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking through the door is the hardest part, once you're in you'll probably wonder what all the fuss was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fear of the unknown

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Don't worry about it...I (LB) was exactly the same on our first meet. And the second if truth be told but now we get an excited/nervy tingle even with people we've already met. Just go with the flow and you don't have to stay if it doesn't feel right. Good luck and just have fun

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Wish I was in your shoes......!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shitting a brick could be painfull

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Presumably it will be a social event involving activities you like have practiced and may even have been complemented on so just relax. And try not to remember ladies may fake it and their feed back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I find myself on the guest list for a private party next Friday, gonna be my first time,going with a lady friend who's also a first timer.

I've been told I will be fine as I'm such a confident guy and a seasoned party guest has promised to help me relax.

All good? So why am I shitting a proverbial brick?

There's so many what ifs going through my head."

I will be going as well if it's the same one , I am thinking off, don't worry I won't let the nasty bullies take your lunch money .

Will private message you .

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

Have a wank a few hrs before so u don't cum too quickly ur first go. After each time u'll last longer anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I find myself on the guest list for a private party next Friday, gonna be my first time,going with a lady friend who's also a first timer.

I've been told I will be fine as I'm such a confident guy and a seasoned party guest has promised to help me relax.

All good? So why am I shitting a proverbial brick?

There's so many what ifs going through my head.

I will be going as well if it's the same one , I am thinking off, don't worry I won't let the nasty bullies take your lunch money .

Will private message you .

Awww thanks everso

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a wank a few hrs before so u don't cum too quickly ur first go. After each time u'll last longer anyway"

Lol that's got nothing whatsoever to do with it. Never crossed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop thinking about it.

Go with an open mind rather than trying to work out, how it's going to go in your head.

Sounds like you're good in a social scene anyway so just be yourself, relax and go with the flow....oh and take condoms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you both being first timers don't get too ambitious. Come away wishing you had done more rather than wishing you had done less. You can always do more next time. And whatever you do make sure your lady is happy with everything and doesn't get pushed too far too soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the input guys.

I've been asked by my friend to make it public knowledge that we are not an item. Were fare sharing singles I'm guessing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wank a few hrs before so u don't cum too quickly ur first go. After each time u'll last longer anyway"

Do people actually have a tactical walk before meets?

I thought it was just off the inbetweeners and look how they turned out.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Shitting a brick could be painfull

Could? I'd say it's a definite.

OP - We always get nervous before a meet or party, I'd imagine that some others going will be too.

Just go at your own pace and you'll be fine.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"The fear of the unknown "

True, fear heightens your senses,raw awareness.

Op go with the flow and explore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fear of the unknown

True, fear heightens your senses,raw awareness.

Op go with the flow and explore

Going with the flow is an interesting choice of words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

"Have a wank a few hrs before so u don't cum too quickly ur first go. After each time u'll last longer anyway

Do people actually have a tactical walk before meets?

I thought it was just off the inbetweeners and look how they turned out."

All the time!! But not certainly not necessary if there will be copious amounts of alcohol then bad combo with whiskey dick/d*unk droop!

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By *adbusbossMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Relax i had a bi mmf threesome with my fb a few weeks ago and my nerves spoiled it for me

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

It's just like going to a normal house party no pressure and their not all at it when you walk in you get to chat and socialise if you hit it off with anyone go off for some fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I find myself on the guest list for a private party next Friday, gonna be my first time,going with a lady friend who's also a first timer.

I've been told I will be fine as I'm such a confident guy and a seasoned party guest has promised to help me relax.

All good? So why am I shitting a proverbial brick?

There's so many what ifs going through my head."

I'm a seasoned party goer and have promised to look after u lol with whatever means that entails plus the party venue is one of the best there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to"

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it"

No it doesn't u Norman are u that stupid to think id go there if it did, no I wouldn't and I'm mental lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it

No it doesn't u Norman are u that stupid to think id go there if it did, no I wouldn't and I'm mental lol"

What the fcuk is a Norman. Nothing you do or say surprises me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it

No it doesn't u Norman are u that stupid to think id go there if it did, no I wouldn't and I'm mental lol

What the fcuk is a Norman. Nothing you do or say surprises me in the slightest."

Lol u like me failing all else I will shag u that will shut u up xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it

No it doesn't u Norman are u that stupid to think id go there if it did, no I wouldn't and I'm mental lol

What the fcuk is a Norman. Nothing you do or say surprises me in the slightest.

Lol u like me failing all else I will shag u that will shut u up xxxxx

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That's assuming I will shag you lmao pmsl ROFL lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's gonna getgangbanged and you're gonna be sitting in a corner on your own hehe!

Idiot it doesn't happen at this party he's going to

It best fekin not happen or someone's gonna get it

No it doesn't u Norman are u that stupid to think id go there if it did, no I wouldn't and I'm mental lol

What the fcuk is a Norman. Nothing you do or say surprises me in the slightest.

Lol u like me failing all else I will shag u that will shut u up xxxxx

That's assuming I will shag you lmao pmsl ROFL lol"

Fine I will remember that billy no mates lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP and myself share banter he will be fine and the lady friend who's coming bet she got a bigger pair than him haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The OP and myself share banter he will be fine and the lady friend who's coming bet she got a bigger pair than him haha

No idea what OP means sorry. The gobshite only tells me what she wants me to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP and myself share banter he will be fine and the lady friend who's coming bet she got a bigger pair than him haha

No idea what OP means sorry. The gobshite only tells me what she wants me to know"

You are such a knob I think I will detach yours from your scrotum on Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The OP and myself share banter he will be fine and the lady friend who's coming bet she got a bigger pair than him haha

No idea what OP means sorry. The gobshite only tells me what she wants me to know

You are such a knob I think I will detach yours from your scrotum on Friday

You see what its like folks insult after insult in as many places as possible. And you know why? Well it wouldn't be fair to divulge it all.

Basically we had a ffm with a much younger girl and I got all the attention. Madam hasn't gimme an break since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The OP and myself share banter he will be fine and the lady friend who's coming bet she got a bigger pair than him haha

No idea what OP means sorry. The gobshite only tells me what she wants me to know

You are such a knob I think I will detach yours from your scrotum on Friday

You see what its like folks insult after insult in as many places as possible. And you know why? Well it wouldn't be fair to divulge it all.

Basically we had a ffm with a much younger girl and I got all the attention. Madam hasn't gimme an break since"

Lol someone is getting their self at it he hasn't got it in him for ffm haha and I'm an angel anyway not naughty like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Angel my arse. The tramp has forgotten more than most people know. Prob something to do with the golden years approaching.

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