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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone.

I joined FAB a few months ago, looking for mainly "nsa fun" friends and maybe someone to go to clubs with. I've not yet introduced myself on the forums so I thought it was about time I did. Not had much luck so far and starting to think my age is putting people off any tips?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Your age will be a barrier, and also the pointless legal ramble at the bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, welcome to the forums!

Your age will put some off yes, but there are all sorts of people on here and we all like different things from our potential meets so there will be others who won't mind your age.

I would suggest losing the warning on your profile as that is meaningless and takes up wasted space in which you could be selling yourself.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Add some photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess but i search for people that i match with there age requirements it just seems half of them need to change there age requirements to older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone.

I joined FAB a few months ago, looking for mainly "nsa fun" friends and maybe someone to go to clubs with. I've not yet introduced myself on the forums so I thought it was about time I did. Not had much luck so far and starting to think my age is putting people off any tips? "
no pics but a very complimentary veri from an older woman you've just got to be patient really ,a lot of older women like young guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changed it so got a few pics for friends only just dont like the whole public advertising of pics. A few weirdos on here haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Changed it so got a few pics for friends only just dont like the whole public advertising of pics. A few weirdos on here haha"

Don't ask advise if your not willing to take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed it so got a few pics for friends only just dont like the whole public advertising of pics. A few weirdos on here haha"

You don't have to display photo's if you choose not to but you can also display pics that don't give away who you are, torso, ass etc.

You will stand a better chance if you don't have an almost blank profile.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Changed it so got a few pics for friends only just dont like the whole public advertising of pics. A few weirdos on here haha"

that is fine... as long as you are then aware you are putting yourself at a disadvantage.....

think of it like this... why should someone put themselves out and meet you as oppose to anyway else? if you think of your profile as your shop window to the world... but there is something missing to entice people in...... why would people say "oh wow i must meet that person!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True that makes sense

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I see you've added pics but ones of a woman, a cock pic and your messy bedroom

I'd say you still have a bit of work to do

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like the b&w one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the b&w one "

What kind of photos would you advise? nd thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see you've added pics but ones of a woman, a cock pic and your messy bedroom

I'd say you still have a bit of work to do "

I thought you liked willies?

Lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your torso looks great so that, without the messy background.

The one of you on the bed is a good pic, just keep it in private for if someone ever asks for it. Although if you are looking for bi men then it's fine

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I thought you liked willies?

Lol "

Hi you, I do in person, not pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought you liked willies?

Lol

Hi you, I do in person, not pics "

Tut, never happy lol.

I had a look at this post - we struggle too, not a single meet off fab yet but have met loads of great people in chat and by going to clubs that we never would have known about if it wasn't for fab.

Leave the cock pics out, nobody has time for them. Try getting to famiriarise yourself with people in the chat rooms and on the forums. Mostly they're a good bunch.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought you liked willies?

Lol

Hi you, I do in person, not pics

Tut, never happy lol.

I had a look at this post - we struggle too, not a single meet off fab yet but have met loads of great people in chat and by going to clubs that we never would have known about if it wasn't for fab.

Leave the cock pics out, nobody has time for them. Try getting to famiriarise yourself with people in the chat rooms and on the forums. Mostly they're a good bunch.

Best of luck. "

Thanks for the tips. Would you recomend going to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes i would. "

Don't clubs have age limits?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes i would. "

Im quite nervous tbh heard a lot of bad things about single males going to clubs and being young i dont know if id fit in ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i would.

Im quite nervous tbh heard a lot of bad things about single males going to clubs and being young i dont know if id fit in ?!?! "

I'm pretty sure they're mainly over 18s, as long as you respect the rules and other people there i imagibe you'd be fine. In my experience of them they're a lot different to 'normal' clubs in the sense that there don't seem to be any idiots. Best thing is to research them, find one that is local and go. It can be expensive for single guys though.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yes i would.

Im quite nervous tbh heard a lot of bad things about single males going to clubs and being young i dont know if id fit in ?!?! "

It's best to go with someone first time if you are nervous, plus you'll be less likely to be questioned about being so young if you're a 'couple'.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hello everyone.

I joined FAB a few months ago, looking for mainly "nsa fun" friends and maybe someone to go to clubs with. I've not yet introduced myself on the forums so I thought it was about time I did. Not had much luck so far and starting to think my age is putting people off any tips? "

Afraid your age will be your stumbling block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone.

I joined FAB a few months ago, looking for mainly "nsa fun" friends and maybe someone to go to clubs with. I've not yet introduced myself on the forums so I thought it was about time I did. Not had much luck so far and starting to think my age is putting people off any tips? "
Don't worry fella. It can only get better from here

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