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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As a pretty average guy I'd say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do. Your time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all average m8,no guy is better than anyone else.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "
WOuldn't know I'm below average I once paid to join a dating site who said they would find your perfect match,I got a photo of a flip flop as mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same way at times but I'm sure your time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty average, I do ok I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x"

Yeah, sorry about that. My enter key on my keyboard got stuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

Maybe change your username to DB10guy and see if it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we can but its not easy! The handsome hunks will generally have the pick of the site (as you'd expect on a casual sex site) but be sociable, take time to talk to people and don't necessarily dive straight in with naughty talk and the meets will (hopefully) follow.

Good luck fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .

If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.

Extra effort matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average to some will surely be above average to others ? None of us are everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .

If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.

Extra effort matey"
all well and good so what your saying is he should grow a bigger cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are average , you need more than just your cock so extra effort is required compared to the well endowed ones .

If you are well endowed , you get winks and fabs on your pictures and it's easy to meet as well so I guess it's just the way it is.

Extra effort mateyall well and good so what your saying is he should grow a bigger cock "

I don't do well endowed lol

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Average is subjective! And, a lot of the time, self-imposed

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If you mean average in regards to cock size, then yes, some of us prefer average. I don't meet WE or above guys - its painful.

If you mean average as in run of the mill, make no effort, then I am less interested. Everyone has a skill that makes them shine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D Just think you have to be patient on this site, dread to think what the ratio of men vs women is. Currently have 205 unread messages in my inbox and i'm certainly nothing special. Its a numbers game. Just be friendly, chatty and honest x"

One message is mine

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"
NOOOOOOOO!!! I don't drink......always alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average to some will surely be above average to others ? None of us are everyone's cup of tea. "

Very good point there

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border


"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"

I like that idea

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

if you think you are average and you don't stand out in any way at all....then i think that says more about how you perceive yourself than anything a swinging site can help you with......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fan of 'average joes' a good honest meet is far better than a meet with someone who is so in love with themselves that they expect to be showered in compliments.

Good luck OP. Don't give up.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

Embrace going for a drink, nervous excitement but fun!"

But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high!"

In what way would that be?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"if you think you are average and you don't stand out in any way at all....then i think that says more about how you perceive yourself than anything a swinging site can help you with......"

This is very true. It's really not all about looks. Concentrate on your personality

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I think if you don't take the site seriously, just come on to chat and expect nothing, then that comes off in your conversation and I find leads to more opportunities.

But worse by far is when your expectations on the site are WAY too high!

In what way would that be? "
Holy shit I think I'm developing a fetish cos this is the second time in as many days that I have said this "Love your shoes"

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"It's really not all about looks. Concentrate on your personality "

Many girls would disagree..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would same im average , patience is the key and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

Do all men like the same size or shape of woman? Ofcourse not. Everyone has different taste, so you might see yourself as average but there will be some people for whom you tick all the boxes.

Confidence is attractive.

Sasha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average men are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty average, I do ok I think "
ive heard yr a bit better than ok lol

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Not sure I am average or not; I would leave that for others to judge.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

In am an average guy, well a bit taller than most, and I do ok on here.

It's all about approach and being relaxed. Make friends way before asking about a meet.

It's a dating site with sex thrown in and no long term expectations. Treat it as such and you will be better off in the long run.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It's really not all about looks. Concentrate on your personality

Many girls would disagree.............. "

you are right.... but for some looks are just part of the bigger picture....

the brain is the biggest sex organ we have, you capture that.. and you go a long long long way....

looks are cool... but by no means the be all and end all some people like to think, or should that be want it to be!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Not sure I am average or not; I would leave that for others to judge."

I would like to think that no one in average... and they are in fact the best person they can be.....

i think average is a mindset thing.... am i average? no bloody chance! i'm unique.... you may like me or hate me... but i am me!!!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Not sure I am average or not; I would leave that for others to judge.

I would like to think that no one in average... and they are in fact the best person they can be.....

i think average is a mindset thing.... am i average? no bloody chance! i'm unique.... you may like me or hate me... but i am me!!! "

What a brilliant way to put it ! sums it up ..... 'I am me'

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I am the one and only....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Iiiiii am what I ammmmmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op If you believe you're average. Just go after ladies that you believe are below average. They will think you're a Greek god.

Then you have the upper hand.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

One persons 'average' is another persons 'wow!'

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"One persons 'average' is another persons 'wow!' "

This is true, however I am yet to find who thinks I am wow !

I await private messages fellow forumites !

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D ...

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I am certainly average and am looking for average people who I am attracted to

All the Hollywood stars have long ago left this site and gone to, erm, Hollywood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op If you believe you're average. Just go after ladies that you believe are below average. They will think you're a Greek god.

Then you have the upper hand. "
but I find women sexy an lustful in there own way an also where I live

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are all average, but some people are more average than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

One person's average is anotheretsons ecial treat m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

of course! keep trying, get to socials and maybe a club - you need to make friends and connections as you would normally x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if there's any one who fancies social meet message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys? Arent all guys average? Women too for that matter :D "

no, that's not how statistics work :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my advice, if you're feeling average stop being average and start being awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself fairly average but I'm doing ok, hang in there bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average male checking in

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Me too I consider myself average ... It does happen .... Strengthen your resolve bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do yourself down get yourself along to a club, get yourself out there

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"my advice, if you're feeling average stop being average and start being awesome."

This is what I did and it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your exactly right ...its all about being patient. ...I think the woman get far more mgs than men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are different looking men on here saying they are average. Average in what way?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Your exactly right ...its all about being patient. ...I think the woman get far more mgs than men... "

Ya think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's average is another person's phooooarrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do "

I think it's down to luck of the draw plus location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a average couple wud say do alot better than average , no one is better than the next based on looks alone , expectation to do better may end up disappointment , be what u are and rest will follow

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I think I'm a pretty average guy when it comes to looks and I'm enjoying myself on here so I'd say yes, average guys can do pretty well on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average guys do we get a chance to meet. I know it's mostly about attraction but I'd like to at least meet cpl women. Just once in a blue moon once every few month would do

I think it's down to luck of the draw plus location "

Yeah going to London for a weekend is like turning easy mode on lol :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe anyone is "average" or above or below average, we are all the same. Anybody can fancy anybody, as long as there's a sexual attraction there then who cares xxx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Average" is yet another inappropriate adjective to explain away lack of success on the site in this case..

That's pretty clear from the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I prefer personality over looks but in today's day and age theres a lot of people who wont give you the time of day even though you make the effort. On the flip side saying hia enough times to people does make them stop and think. X

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