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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all. (first forum message 6 months in)

After a couple of meets i was told my profile wasn't very accurate and lacked details, (true). She said it sounded a little arrogant and didn't represent me very well after we'd met and i appreciated her honesty, before it didn't state what i was looking for in a person/people.

Having updated it i wondered if you females/couples could give me any pointers?

I.e if there's something else you'd like to know after reading it that should be on there possibly,

Couples, Females Male, Gays, Bisexuals, Transexuals, all welcome, Critical and constructive, feedback would be gratefully accepted

Still arrogant? not arrogant enough? fine line between arrogance and confidence which i'm trying to represent..

Thanks for reading

Mr.L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems ok, that sidney university thing means nothing so might as well remove that.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Too much about what you're looking for and not enough about what sort of person you are/what you have to offer.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hello all. (first forum message 6 months in)

After a couple of meets i was told my profile wasn't very accurate and lacked details, (true). She said it sounded a little arrogant and didn't represent me very well after we'd met and i appreciated her honesty, before it didn't state what i was looking for in a person/people.

Having updated it i wondered if you females/couples could give me any pointers?

I.e if there's something else you'd like to know after reading it that should be on there possibly,

Couples, Females Male, Gays, Bisexuals, Transexuals, all welcome, Critical and constructive, feedback would be gratefully accepted

Still arrogant? not arrogant enough? fine line between arrogance and confidence which i'm trying to represent..

Thanks for reading

Mr.L"

Profile fine, though you are a bit specific in what you are looking for, if you where a bit more generalist you might get more meets, I personally would not show the verifications but only because they are Cam ones, just show you are verified and leave people guessing who/how many you have met ....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What does the original critic say now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above comments about it being very specific in your requirements with lots about what they person you are looking for should be like, but not a huge amount about you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

done, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers divine fox, will refine text.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers _ivnwcpl, will do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

appreciate your reply Sunshine71 Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actually pretty impressed. Its articulate, honest, confident and concise. and I dont think it comes across as arrogant.

Sasha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the second picture. Makes you look like Popeye.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im a bit confused with you listing of sensual etc with rough and dirty sex.

im not saying you cant have both, but the way you have worded it says you are basically looking for anything..

maybe a paragraph for each, explaining what that means for you

i mean dirty sex could be anything...

plus you dont list your preferences

have a thing and see if you can expand it slightly..

no you dont, at the moment, come across as arrogant x but some more publis pics would be good.. and if you have a face pic to send privately, say so in your profile ..good luckx

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