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By *emmeFatale10 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Twickenham

Hello, we've been to clubs a couple of times and chatted to some other couples. Our question is this though - how do you move it forward to play with another couple. Were looking for a lady for Femme to play with etc do you just say that to them or is there a code LOL. Are we missing something here?

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply ...... Ask

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Ask if you'd like to go to a private or couples room..?

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Sorry, ask if they'd like to, you obviously do!!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

If I am sure that hubby is happy and interested, I just stand up and say we are going to find a room now would you like to join us, if not enjoy the rest of your evening.

That is also how some people have done it with us, if I'm not interested I will just say have fun and maybe see you guys around later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put a meet up saying which club you're at and what you're looking for X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, we've been to clubs a couple of times and chatted to some other couples. Our question is this though - how do you move it forward to play with another couple. Were looking for a lady for Femme to play with etc do you just say that to them or is there a code LOL. Are we missing something here?

Thanks."
I suggest the woman drops to her knees naked in front of the other couples man's crotch this may be taken as a sign you like him ,just saying

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By *emmeFatale10 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Twickenham

Thanks guys. What if its just for girlie play etc. Better to ask than just presume. We don't want people thinking we full swap etc yet as were not ready for that. Going slowly and enjoying our ride as we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could ask what sort of things they are looking for i.e girls playing or full swap etc. And then say what you are looking for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey you look pretty sexy or the lady does so why would anyone not be interested ,is their a personality problem,if you don't ask you don't get

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Thanks guys. What if its just for girlie play etc. Better to ask than just presume. We don't want people thinking we full swap etc yet as were not ready for that. Going slowly and enjoying our ride as we go "

If you are talking to a couple and just want to play with the woman you do have to state this early on in my opinion. I well we, have been caught by this in the past so if we haven't had any prior contact via fab then we do ask during the chatting stage. But be prepared for things to end there.

But in a club you can normally find a single lady, me and hubby found quite a few single ladies to join us.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Approach single ladies to chat? Be upfront about what you are looking for.

Have to say, on the times I've had a partner in a club, I'd find it quite rude for a couple to chat away, and then only want to play with the lady if that had not been an upfront discussion early on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I am sure that hubby is happy and interested, I just stand up and say we are going to find a room now would you like to join us, if not enjoy the rest of your evening.

That is also how some people have done it with us, if I'm not interested I will just say have fun and maybe see you guys around later."

We do it this way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Approach single ladies to chat? Be upfront about what you are looking for.

Have to say, on the times I've had a partner in a club, I'd find it quite rude for a couple to chat away, and then only want to play with the lady if that had not been an upfront discussion early on..."

In any case, what would the other husband do, hold the drinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe put a meet up saying which club you're at and what you're looking for X "

What Sassy said!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Approach single ladies to chat? Be upfront about what you are looking for.

Have to say, on the times I've had a partner in a club, I'd find it quite rude for a couple to chat away, and then only want to play with the lady if that had not been an upfront discussion early on...

In any case, what would the other husband do, hold the drinks? "

One non-fab but adult party I took a previous friend with as my partner, we got chatting to a lovely couple, all was going great, then when we went to play, he asked my guy to hold the camera! Only a 3sum as no-one else got to shag his bird (yes he actually said that) and being filmed hadn't even been mentioned, they'd given the impression of being up for full swap til we got to the private room... Needless to say, play wasn't even started!

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