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Advice on my gfs fantasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Fantasy and reality are two different things

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance"

If she's backing out when you set it up she isn't ready to do it and possibly never will be. Fantasy doesn't always have to be made reality.

If it's a case of nerves and she genuinely (and I mean genuinely not just to please you) wants to do it you should take it slowly and possibly go to a club and watch with no pressure to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just a fantasy and she doesn't want it in real life being as she backs out if you try to set it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fantasy and reality are two different things "

This ^^ maybe wait for her to initiate the moves first rather than trying to arrange it for her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, she does want to do it but then she gets scared and backs off, she has wanted this fantasy for a while now. And she gets so turned on at the thought but Maybe going to a club is a better option. Thank you all for your advice it's been taken onboard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fantasy and reality are two different things

This ^^ maybe wait for her to initiate the moves first rather than trying to arrange it for her"

Yep. This is reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, she does want to do it but then she gets scared and backs off, she has wanted this fantasy for a while now. And she gets so turned on at the thought but Maybe going to a club is a better option. Thank you all for your advice it's been taken onboard!"

I would say a club or sauna is a good option, but make it clear to her from the start that first time you only have sex together with people watching

Or even dogging , but as normal tell her and them no touching

There is a place near us called paradise spa Bournemouth that's an ideal place .

Failing that a organised group social , at a pub or other type place , set ground rules as chatting etc .

set your rules low, and that way it's easier to break them , and less stressful than having high rules , that you regret doing later

I like havin a woman that blokes and women fancy , same as Paula likes it that women and blokes fancy me

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By *eekend ReprobatesCouple
over a year ago

NE Lincolnshire

Go to a club, no set up, no guarantee, less nerves.

Then it's just off the cuff.

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Maybe set up a social or meet with one extra guy and see how see goes with that, if she's comfortable and plays then she's halfway or two thirds of the way there...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll arrange another guy to join u n just all get naked n just play soft swing . U could play strip poker have a few vinos without getting d*unk . Nothing worse than that . First time no sex just get naked n loosen up

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ok so me and my partner fantasis over me and 2 other guys fucking her, it's 1 of her biggest fantasies but when I try to set it up she backs out. I know the thought of it turns her on so much, any advise on how I go about it please . Thanks in advance"

Go to a club, on a night with single guys and just go with the flow... We've generally found that trying to plan never pans out anyway. Just enjoy what comes around, one day it may happen.

Cal

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I was bi curious for years, my bf got a girl for us to meet a few times but I backed out each time. It's wasn't untill I started chatting to someone that I felt ready to do it. If I was you I would just ask her what it is that makes her back out and work with her on it. Just don't push her xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All great advice. I for one would not be impressed if I felt this was forced upon me.

Let her choose the pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All great advice. I for one would not be impressed if I felt this was forced upon me.

Let her choose the pace. "

Hello Darling, I'm amused by our similar usernames and am tempted to ask when our anniversary is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This could be awkward"

Apologies, I was messing around and went too far

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If it's a fantasy it may have to saty there.

Wanting it for real more than she does will slowly undermine her trust in you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you could always set it up without her knowing. 50/50 wether she'd be really thrilled or upset and scared but we don't know her as well as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you could always set it up without her knowing. 50/50 wether she'd be really thrilled or upset and scared but we don't know her as well as you."

Bad move I reckon, that could undermine her trust and freak her out.

To op, I think if she wants to it will happen but I have fantasies all the time, it doesn't mean I want to act upon them or if I do it would be with people I trust so I'd follow her lead and if she is backing out it seems to mean she ia not ready to act on it. It is important for her to be ready and not to push acting out her fantasy on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a fantasy is not meant to be just enjoy what you do and it may come when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Defo a club is a good idea.

Very easy to get carried away and just go with the flow. There's no pressure on her that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her she doesn't know what she is missing I am having a mmmf satirday night social first few drink and to make sure we all get on and are happy to go ahead then back to one of the males houses for some fun can't wait to be a greedy girl )

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