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By *ewbiebigirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dartford

I'm looking to go to my first club tonight and have chosen and all ladies night to make it easier. Problem is I have to drive there and can't drink to ease my nerves. I'm worried that I won't be able to get into the "swing" of things and will spoil my time. Any tips for me pls? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time at a club, I didn't drink either. However, people I knew were going to be there ,so felt a bit more relaxed.

If you find the area where most seem to be socialising, it may be a starting point. Most people are welcoming of others and conversations can be started easily. Relax and be yourself, try not to hide in the corner, speaking to others will make it feel less intimidating

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Stay over? We know the club you mean and it is lovely, but don't discount Friday nights - you will be absolutely fine on a mixed night! Clubs are really safe places to be - enjoy

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I'm looking to go to my first club tonight and have chosen and all ladies night to make it easier. Problem is I have to drive there and can't drink to ease my nerves. I'm worried that I won't be able to get into the "swing" of things and will spoil my time. Any tips for me pls? X"

Relax and socialise, talk to people and make new friends. Anything else should be a bonus. Don't put pressure on yourself to get into the "swing" of things. Just go with the flow and what will be will be. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking to go to my first club tonight and have chosen and all ladies night to make it easier. Problem is I have to drive there and can't drink to ease my nerves. I'm worried that I won't be able to get into the "swing" of things and will spoil my time. Any tips for me pls? X"

I'll wear a wig and drive. So you can drink

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Im looking for my first night at a club to so please come back tomorrow and let us know how it went. Im sure you will have a wonderful time!

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose


"I'm looking to go to my first club tonight and have chosen and all ladies night to make it easier. Problem is I have to drive there and can't drink to ease my nerves. I'm worried that I won't be able to get into the "swing" of things and will spoil my time. Any tips for me pls? X"

There's not much advice to give here specific to swinging - just general guides to boosting your confidence in speaking to new people.

Except the old "imagine them naked" advice is sorta redundant

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