FabSwingers.com forum: swingers block!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm probably being daft but is there such a thing as swingers block??

I just can't seem to be able to actually meet someone, even for a social.....nerves some of you might say, and understandable, but its not that; I was on here a few years ago and met people, both socially and otherwise and all was goooood

but this time around, although i'm talking to some great people who i know i could have some amazing fun with, i just cant seem to be able to take that next step.

Any thoughts?

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about a social first? Have a coffee and chat, soon gets round to sexual talk and then an actual sex meet might be easier.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you are not in the 'right place' emotionally/mentally to actually meet people?

I joined the site previously and didn't meet anyone, found a reason to not meet or chat to whoever messaged me and realised that I was just not in the right place to get what I wanted from the site.

So I left for a while, and rejoined in a completely different frame of mind and now meet and have fun and chat.....all good

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the pressure off, meet someone for a social only. Tell them there will be absolutely no play on that meet.

See if a social gets you back into the mindset.

If it doesn't, this possibly means like others have said, you're not in the right place emotionally x

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

She's states she finds it hard to meet for a social as well... Maybe leave it for now and come back when you feel more confident.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh i dunno.....i thought i was ready to be back, but maybe i'm not.....just annoys me cos i didnt have a problem before and i can't figure out why i do now lol. Perhaps i'm just older and wiser and more aware.............we shall see.

thanks everyone x