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Would love a cougar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people, been on the site a while now cut a long story short. I'm interested in meeting and talking too women that are older than me, I've always fantasised over it and something that always draws me in the fact of women twice my age. Love to have your comments if your interesting or have any advice thanks Joe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the advice from your previous similar posts. Repetitive posts won't change anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But what tell me x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

You do know that many 'older' women don't like being called a cougar or milf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do know that many 'older' women don't like being called a cougar or milf "

Well that's me buggered!

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Yawn again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I feel saying older women to some women, they can find it rude, I'm just looking for a genuine older woman, sick of all the fake profiles on here. Lately there is loads they shouldn't be aloud

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Well I'm more than twice your age so that's me out.....plus there's the fact that I prefer older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try saying more worldly or more life experience, women do not like their age being mentioned!

Best avoid anything that refers to it like "older" or "mature" or how about you don't even bring it up? Just send a normal polite message to women in the age bracket your looking for and go from there

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Well I'm more than twice your age so that's me out.....plus there's the fact that I prefer older men."

U still look amazing

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Well I'm more than twice your age so that's me out.....plus there's the fact that I prefer older men.

U still look amazing"

Thanks Ray

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's quite simple don't use term like older, mature, milf, gilf, cougar or any other term that refers to age on any way if you find the lady attractive that's all you need to say, age doesn't have to be a factor unless you make it one by using such terms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi people, been on the site a while now cut a long story short. I'm interested in meeting and talking too women that are older than me, I've always fantasised over it and something that always draws me in the fact of women twice my age. Love to have your comments if your interesting or have any advice thanks Joe xx"

Message a few or go to clubs and chat to some. It's probably much easier in person

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

If you're interested in meeting and talking to older women contact Age Concern - they are always on the lookout for people to visit and chat with older people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're interested in meeting and talking to older women contact Age Concern - they are always on the lookout for people to visit and chat with older people. "

LOL ! that got me laughing !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're interested in meeting and talking to older women contact Age Concern - they are always on the lookout for people to visit and chat with older people. "

Lol!!!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't mind the terms, I'd stop at biddie or Doris though

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"If you're interested in meeting and talking to older women contact Age Concern - they are always on the lookout for people to visit and chat with older people. "

Hahahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind the terms, I'd stop at biddie or Doris though "
just old then awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose thats an issue for rspca..dependent on the level of love required

oh...you meant female women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical responses to a young single man on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think there's anything wrong in saying you like older women. No different to saying you have a thing for BBWs or anything else that particularly takes your fancy. Your thing is your thing. Your 'target' audience will feel sexy. If people are sensitive about their age, that's their problem, as your reference to age is a positive one. You've put yourself out there with your fantasy and I don't think people should knock it.

Maybe just change your wording to something like 'I like ladies of all kinds and find women much older than me really sexy'

Avoid cougar as it implies desperate predatory female and MILF just lacks class.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are cougar and cub parties and women who call themselves cougar and milf,if you specifically want those. For everyone else there are plenty of women who like younger men and also a lot of competition. If you did come back to this thread after reading some of the lovely responses I hope you aren't put off and keep searching. Make yourself irresistible to the older woman

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're interested in meeting and talking to older women contact Age Concern - they are always on the lookout for people to visit and chat with older people. "

I think that's an unkind and unnecessary cutting comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I don't think there's anything wrong in saying you like older women. No different to saying you have a thing for BBWs or anything else that particularly takes your fancy. Your thing is your thing. Your 'target' audience will feel sexy. If people are sensitive about their age, that's their problem, as your reference to age is a positive one. You've put yourself out there with your fantasy and I don't think people should knock it.

Maybe just change your wording to something like 'I like ladies of all kinds and find women much older than me really sexy'

Avoid cougar as it implies desperate predatory female and MILF just lacks class.

Good luck!"

Thanks that's really useful advice and I appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are cougar and cub parties and women who call themselves cougar and milf,if you specifically want those. For everyone else there are plenty of women who like younger men and also a lot of competition. If you did come back to this thread after reading some of the lovely responses I hope you aren't put off and keep searching. Make yourself irresistible to the older woman "

Thanks sweet x

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