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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys I'm not sure what it is about me but I seem to be only attracting a certain type of woman (possibly the hair), I would really appreciate some advice on my profile and see what my first impressions are. Thanks in advance

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What type of women, and what's wrong with them?

Maybe a pic with your hair tied back will put them off...

You have an ambitiously short profile text. How widely to you think that will appeal?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The only thing I can tell from your profile is from your pics... perhaps people who like long hair on a bloke will be interested but there's not a lot else to go on. It wouldn't be enough for me. Make some effort on your profile text, add some personality, what you're looking for etc.

You say you cannot accommodate and that's totally fine but the general assumption from that, rightly or wrongly, is that there's a partner in the background. If you house share then make that clear, it'll save on the assumptions.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hair is awesome and you're a lovely looking chap, but long hair has its particular audience, you're quite right.

A ponytail pic might be an idea, just for a different look?

I think it's the connotations that long hair has, rather than the hair itself. I always assume people with long hair are overly laidback, bohemian, free-spirit, non-conformist types. (Just being honest.)

A smart suit pic would dispel this impression, though.

Food for thought?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I can tell from your profile is from your pics... perhaps people who like long hair on a bloke will be interested but there's not a lot else to go on. It wouldn't be enough for me. Make some effort on your profile text, add some personality, what you're looking for etc.

You say you cannot accommodate and that's totally fine but the general assumption from that, rightly or wrongly, is that there's a partner in the background. If you house share then make that clear, it'll save on the assumptions.

Good luck "

Good advice, thank you. I live with a couple of friends who know nothing about fab, I will update soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I can tell from your profile is from your pics... perhaps people who like long hair on a bloke will be interested but there's not a lot else to go on. It wouldn't be enough for me. Make some effort on your profile text, add some personality, what you're looking for etc.

You say you cannot accommodate and that's totally fine but the general assumption from that, rightly or wrongly, is that there's a partner in the background. If you house share then make that clear, it'll save on the assumptions.

Good luck

Good advice, thank you. I live with a couple of friends who know nothing about fab, I will update soon "

A 4 sentence profile does not reveal a great deal and people in general are not interested in mystery.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"What type of women, and what's wrong with them?

Maybe a pic with your hair tied back will put them off...

You have an ambitiously short profile text. How widely to you think that will appeal?"

I am also intrigued to know what is wrong with the 'type' of women you are attracting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with who I am attracting, just looking to broaden my horizons. It's mainly people who are older than me, and that's fine but the thing I've found is that because I have a high sex drive some can't keep up with me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Absolutely nothing wrong with who I am attracting, just looking to broaden my horizons. It's mainly people who are older than me, and that's fine but the thing I've found is that because I have a high sex drive some can't keep up with me"

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Absolutely nothing wrong with who I am attracting, just looking to broaden my horizons. It's mainly people who are older than me, and that's fine but the thing I've found is that because I have a high sex drive some can't keep up with me"

Personally I think lords of older woman have a lot of stamina or experience. Personally, when I meet men, I prefer older men too, for that very reason - younger guys may have the physical stamina, but not the sexual stamina ...

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

3 veri meets in 11days and perhaps more..yet you're willing to meet women upto aged 99

I really don't think its 'the hair'

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"3 veri meets in 11days and perhaps more..yet you're willing to meet women upto aged 99

I really don't think its 'the hair' "

Naughty

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"3 veri meets in 11days and perhaps more..yet you're willing to meet women upto aged 99

I really don't think its 'the hair'

Naughty "

Stating the obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi iv been on here while and finding it hard to meet women could some women give me adice were in goin wrong thanks....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do you post identical threads up? I'm sure the advice you get in one is exactly the same in the other. Isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only relized i could put up my own post i taught people were having a conversation on the topic my apologies....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I only relized i could put up my own post i taught people were having a conversation on the topic my apologies...."

My post was aimed at the OP, not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys I'm not sure what it is about me but I seem to be only attracting a certain type of woman (possibly the hair), I would really appreciate some advice on my profile and see what my first impressions are. Thanks in advance"
are you talking about the sexually oppressed women on here or the virginal types ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the any cocks a goal women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if it's not to personal can I ask what's causing the "wonky" abb muscle on (decond from the top)

Old accident or just always been that way?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Hi guys I'm not sure what it is about me but I seem to be only attracting a certain type of woman (possibly the hair), I would really appreciate some advice on my profile and see what my first impressions are. Thanks in advance"

I personally love the hair, but then again I am an old 80's Rock Chick at heart - so I am guessing that I am one of the 'older' ladies you mention

Then again...your profile does say that you want to meet up to 99 year olds??!!! Really???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys I'm not sure what it is about me but I seem to be only attracting a certain type of woman (possibly the hair), I would really appreciate some advice on my profile and see what my first impressions are. Thanks in advance"

Think yourself lucky you get meets most single guys dont

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi guys I'm not sure what it is about me but I seem to be only attracting a certain type of woman (possibly the hair), I would really appreciate some advice on my profile and see what my first impressions are. Thanks in advance

Think yourself lucky you get meets most single guys dont "
you do though!

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