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 ...I liked that 
She was good and very nice. 
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF  ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah 
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there  ...otherwise money spent are not worth... | |||
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"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club? Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive. But its good you enjoyed yourself." Very unattractive  | |||
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...and I promised I would have done it to keep them updated ahahahah  | |||
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"Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive." Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x | |||
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side " | |||
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"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x"If you see it this way it is a whole different thing . I can understand what you are saying
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"Please keep us updated with which clubs you will be attending next OP - so I can avoid them! Maybe The Private Club would be more your scene. You would be guaranteed a fuck in there from the working girls."  | |||
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side "In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not | |||
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side
In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not "Really ? That does surprise me! | |||
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"Please keep us updated with which clubs you will be attending next OP - so I can avoid them! Maybe The Private Club would be more your scene. You would be guaranteed a fuck in there from the working girls." It seems I have a guaranteed (short, maybe enjoable) fuck* in all the clubs I was in at moment 
*note this term. This is really UNATTRACTIVE
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side
In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not
Really ? That does surprise me! "I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar | |||
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"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty. Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us ...I liked that
She was good and very nice.
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there ...otherwise money spent are not worth..."At least your penis survived unscathed this time | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck" My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side
In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not
Really ? That does surprise me!
I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar"Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi. | |||
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side
In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not
Really ? That does surprise me!
I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar
Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi. "*experience | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck" How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing. | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing." | |||
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Why on earth you think your going to "get it" must cause you paid is beyond me.
Oh and I have to pay for trains, accommodation, new outfit, but then I go to socialise and have a fun night and anything else is a bonus. If I was going just for sex there's easier and cheaper ways to get it | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing." How about the 'shower before getting in' rule? | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them
I agree I would go away if someone would do that "Are you aware that latex and chlorine are a bad mix? A condom can disintegrate. Pretty much like going bareback. | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing. How about the 'shower before getting in' rule? " Seen many that don't bother! Even those with fake tan ignore signs and get in, very selfish. Turn up on next visit and hot tub fucked. | |||
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"At least your penis survived unscathed this time "Yes this is why I enjoyed! Fun stopped when the boyfriend wanted to play. But I can understand. So to reply to a comment above. We stopped after 10-15 min because: 1) she enjoyed it already...a few times I think 
2) he did not like her girl to have sex for more without any other interaction (she was totally focused on having sex with me...nice girl ) | |||
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"You do realise swingers clubs are not brothels right ? Your attitude towards having to pay and then expecting sex because of this are appalling. I don't think you understand swinging at all. It's a lifestyle not prostituion " | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them
I agree I would go away if someone would do that
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it. "Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in. I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex. | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them
I agree I would go away if someone would do that
Are you aware that latex and chlorine are a bad mix? A condom can disintegrate. Pretty much like going bareback.
I need to inform myself then. I used Thicker condoms anyway.
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.
Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.
I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex."As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train. | |||
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"Glad you enjoyed yourself .... Just maybe next time don't go with the 'it's a swinging club, I paid to get in so I have to have sex' outlook ! The social side and making friends in the lifestyle us also very good ! Have a great weekend "Well I go in Swinger Club to swing. Of course meeting new people is a very important and nice part. You know my first meet on this site was a real date. So I am the last person who thinks to Sex only | |||
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"Seems clubs are always empty when you go op "  | |||
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"Yes it matters. Thicher means stronger..." the cholorine in chams jacuzzis is out of this world, my eyes water just walking past. Just saying be careful. | |||
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.
Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.
I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.
As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train. "I live further away, so fuel will cost me the same as your entrance fee. I don't always have sex, but I always have a great time in Chams and have made some great friends there, which is an important aspect of swinging to me, but hey, we're all different. | |||
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.
Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.
I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.
As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train. "Have you thought about booking one of the rooms at Chams? Can work out cheaper than a hotel, and you get breakfast. | |||
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"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club? Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive. But its good you enjoyed yourself. Very unattractive "This | |||
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"Have you thought about booking one of the rooms at Chams? Can work out cheaper than a hotel, and you get breakfast." Yeah they told me about this. Hotel price would have been similar anyway. I would have saved a little bit of money for the taxi though | |||
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"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? " £17.56 doesn't seem too bad. | |||
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"Yes it matters. Thicher means stronger... the cholorine in chams jacuzzis is out of this world, my eyes water just walking past. Just saying be careful." No the chlorine level is very low compared to other jacuzzi or pools I went. I will bring not-latex condoms next time now that I know the light danger. Thanks
Just to let you know the concentration cannot be high enough to seriously damage the condom in a short time. It is mainly water of course. It is not a bath of chlorine!? | |||
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"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? " Well much less than a date in London | |||
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"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club? Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive. But its good you enjoyed yourself. Very unattractive
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"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? Well much less than a date in London " £17.56 | |||
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"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty. Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us ...I liked that
She was good and very nice.
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there ...otherwise money spent are not worth..."Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat
How dare you hope for more girls to be there who want to play!you chauvinistic pigleave all hope and expectation at the door please.these normal human traits are disgusting,especially for a single guy in the swinging world.just be grateful to all the fat,old wheezy men you get to speak to(funny story there about chams in Newport) | |||
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"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty. Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us ...I liked that
She was good and very nice.
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there ...otherwise money spent are not worth...
Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat
How dare you hope for more girls to be there who want to play!you chauvinistic pigleave all hope and expectation at the door please.these normal human traits are disgusting,especially for a single guy in the swinging world.just be grateful to all the fat,old wheezy men you get to speak to(funny story there about chams in Newport)" | |||
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"Youre obviously getting sex when you visit clubs because your body looks good. Your attitude is awful :/ Have never met anybody at a club who "expected" to get sex. Oh and no, i may not have to pay when i visit but that doesnt mean i have any obligation to provide sex to anyone!!" Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude? ...only good? | |||
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"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty. Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us ...I liked that
She was good and very nice.
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there ...otherwise money spent are not worth..."I read this and thought you had learnt something from your last post. But then read the last paragraph and realised that your arrogance appears to be matched by your sense of entitlement  | |||
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"Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat "What does it mean? I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes | |||
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" Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude? ...only good? "You didnt offend me and no i don't know you but youre putting your attitude out there for everybody to judge lol. Its the sense of entitlement that offends me a little. "Ive paid, therefore I'm owed sex" And yes, its good. Am not a fan of little pants though | |||
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"I read this and thought you had learnt something from your last post. But then read the last paragraph and realised that your arrogance appears to be matched by your sense of entitlement "Monkey hater. Have sex. Relax | |||
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"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty. Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us ...I liked that
She was good and very nice.
Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF ...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah
I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there ...otherwise money spent are not worth...
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" Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude? ...only good? You didnt offend me and no i don't know you but youre putting your attitude out there for everybody to judge lol. Its the sense of entitlement that offends me a little. "Ive paid, therefore I'm owed sex" And yes, its good. Am not a fan of little pants though "No one has to judge. Full stop. | |||
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"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? Well much less than a date in London
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"Checked: chlorine is harmful for latex only in high concentrations. No problem then "Trust me, I ve never been anywhere with a higher chlorine concentration than the Jacuzzis at Chams... | |||
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"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol" yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter! | |||
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"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs. Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action. And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing. How about the 'shower before getting in' rule? Seen many that don't bother! Even those with fake tan ignore signs and get in, very selfish. Turn up on next visit and hot tub fucked." Before Chams electrical problem the power of the Jacuzzi was very good, but they're still working on it to get it back to how it originally was. The water is constantly filtered while on and the filter is cleaned regularly, ca't say the filter is too nice to clean though | |||
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"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side
In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not
Really ? That does surprise me!
I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar
Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi.
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"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter!" I think I saw you instead. I was the guy with lots of condoms at the bar. Grey underwear. You were wondering around the bar a few times. You could have said hi as many other a did instead of doing wrong assumptions
...and sorry it was the first reason.
But you should have said hi anyway. I do not consider only the exterior bits. I am not a girl. An like to talk tk new people
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"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter! I think I saw you instead. I was the guy with lots of condoms at the bar. Grey underwear. You were wondering around the bar a few times. You could have said hi as many other a did instead of doing wrong assumptions
...and sorry it was the first reason.
But you should have said hi anyway. I do not consider only the exterior bits. I am not a girl. An like to talk tk new people
"I could have said hi? I spoke to many people throughout the night... Do you think I was looking at how many condoms people were carrying around or what they were wearing? No I wasn't.. I tend to look at faces. As I said I didn't see you there, so if you saw me you could have said hi. It was another females first time, I recognised her and went and spoke to her. | |||
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"Just to underline I was not sure it was you. Otherwise I would have said hi anyway if you stayed still in a place "I stayed still in many places... i was sat at the bar for many periods of time. When i go wonder, I'm alking about, therefore not sitting still | |||
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"Just to underline I was not sure it was you. Otherwise I would have said hi anyway if you stayed still in a place
I stayed still in many places... i was sat at the bar for many periods of time. When i go wonder, I'm alking about, therefore not sitting still
You should have started the conversation. I was sat there for long. Maybe next time "Like I said....I didn't see you there, so to me you would have just been another random man there and I spoke to plenty that night... maybe you didn't catch my eye for me to start conversing with.. however your attitude toward clubs if rather naive, maybe next time you should stay local, as like it has previously been stated to you...ALL clubs are hit and miss | |||
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I would suggest to girls to speak with me or just stay still in place near me possibly for more than 2 min. I cannot tackle you if you are wondering around, and if you move a lot it means you just want to hook up with someone regardless of him/her. Swinger attitude I suppose, you cannot stay still | |||
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"I tend to look at faces and bodies Cool maybe next time
I would suggest to girls to speak with me or just stay still in place near me possibly for more than 2 min. I cannot tackle you if you are wondering around, and if you move a lot it means you just want to hook up with someone regardless of him/her. Swinger attitude I suppose, you cannot stay still "no guess I can't stay still... all the people I spoke to on the night must have just been following me around all night to talk to me | |||
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I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes "Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club. I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do. | |||
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"Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club. I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do." If you know any high-end brothel who needs some professional male performer let me know
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Good stay home "Great attitude OP
The times I have been to clubs, both as a single female and as part of a couple, the only expectations I go with are to have a nice evening out... anything more is a bonus, going in with a sense of expectation is a real turn off.
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In Chams it is allowed as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not
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I am not expecting. I am hoping in a good experience as in a normal club. "You are expecting, those were your own words and I quote (again) " I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes " | |||
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"Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club. I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do. If you know any high-end brothel who needs some professional male performer let me know
I am not expecting. I am hoping in a good experience as in a normal club.
You are expecting, those were your own words and I quote (again) " I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes "
"Yes I am expecting it once in a while. Like I am expecting to fall in love someday
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"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x
If you see it this way it is a whole different thing . I can understand what you are saying
However I disagree. It is good to chat to new people, but if I wanted only that I would have gone in another less expensive places and nearer my home (to avoid hotel). If you are a single guy it is expensive. Easy to say that when it is free "I go to clubs as a single guy all the time and I say the same thing. I go hoping to play but not expecting it. I go to meet new people and make new friends, if I get to play them that's a bonus. If those new friends don't want to play that's fine, the week after they may introduce me to someone that does. you got the chance to play on a quiet night. think yourself lucky | |||
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Good stay home
We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .
We aren't worthy "Ladies* please get a number at the ticket machine outside the club
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"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x
If you see it this way it is a whole different thing . I can understand what you are saying
However I disagree. It is good to chat to new people, but if I wanted only that I would have gone in another less expensive places and nearer my home (to avoid hotel). If you are a single guy it is expensive. Easy to say that when it is free
I go to clubs as a single guy all the time and I say the same thing. I go hoping to play but not expecting it. I go to meet new people and make new friends, if I get to play them that's a bonus. If those new friends don't want to play that's fine, the week after they may introduce me to someone that does.
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We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .
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Good stay home
Try a Saturday night it's couples and single ladies only so no idiots
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"Surely most blokes would prefer there were lots of women playing at clubs? I'll admit the "money's worth" phrase is probably an unfortunate choice of words, but I'd be miffed if I went to a club and it were all women or couples just looking for men. Yes I'm sure the social side is important too blah blah, but if I was going to a club, quite frankly, I'd be going with the hope of sex. " Thank God a girl who says the truth | |||
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"Surely most blokes would prefer there were lots of women playing at clubs? I'll admit the "money's worth" phrase is probably an unfortunate choice of words, but I'd be miffed if I went to a club and it were all women or couples just looking for men. Yes I'm sure the social side is important too blah blah, but if I was going to a club, quite frankly, I'd be going with the hope of sex. " So it seems not many people do...and if you say you are hoping to have sex that isn't right
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"I was there last night and I'm presuming it's more of a keyboard warrior thing as there was certainly noone there last night who came across so arrogant and cocky.. I spoke to many men there and clearly he wasn't one of them and with his attitude I'm quite glad really " I am not arrogant nor cocky. Only when having sex maybe...but I am usually very gentle too. Well no one at the Chams said stupid things to me. Apart for a guy who said he had a bigger cock then me maybe but I was conpletely at rest. We were at the bar ahahahah
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" If you believe your thread is being misread by the majority reading it, then you may want to rethink your wording of what you write" If you look carefully not the majority. Only forum trolls and haters...normal practice nowadays Additionally some of the comments, included yours, make no sense and are not related to the OP and are somehow offensive without any valid reason...again normal practice... | |||
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"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it. Expecting might end up with people being disappointed but we wouldn't go to a club just to chat....I would expect / hope I would get what I went for. If I wanted to sit and socialise all night we would go out with friends " THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT!? There are normal people on the Forum
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"see... but then fact if whether i played or not on any specific night doesn't then determine whether i have had a good night or night...... if i was the read again what the OP said about his first night at a club.... then followed it up with what he said about his second night at a club.... i would consider him to be lucky.... but i wouldn't go again what the majority of people have said in this thread...... do i think this thread if people in clubs knew exactly who he was, would help his chances...... probably not! i would certainly hope he comes across better in person than he does in his writings..... do you know when you read something and you think to yourself "the more the OP speaks... the deeper the hole is being dug"...... this is one of those time.... this is one of those were saying nothing would likely improve your chances rather than always wanting the last word " | |||
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"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it. Expecting might end up with people being disappointed but we wouldn't go to a club just to chat....I would expect / hope I would get what I went for. If I wanted to sit and socialise all night we would go out with friends " Couldn't agree more , that's how we see it too . But , entitlement is a different ball game is it not ? And as the op would prefer it if we stayed at home , that's fine with us | |||
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"see... but then fact if whether i played or not on any specific night doesn't then determine whether i have had a good night or night...... if i was the read again what the OP said about his first night at a club.... then followed it up with what he said about his second night at a club.... i would consider him to be lucky.... but i wouldn't go again what the majority of people have said in this thread...... do i think this thread if people in clubs knew exactly who he was, would help his chances...... probably not! i would certainly hope he comes across better in person than he does in his writings..... do you know when you read something and you think to yourself "the more the OP speaks... the deeper the hole is being dug"...... this is one of those time.... this is one of those were saying nothing would likely improve your chances rather than always wanting the last word " | |||
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Does not make any sense to me
It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.
Ahahah I meant the number. It is a random number!?
Oh sorry, a random number?! No! The price of entry and a drink and stuff.
Well I spent 5-6 times more in total..."Ya pays ya moneys and ya takes ya chances..... | |||
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"You guys really are just chucking fuel on the fire with this One, why keep doing it?" I like your wicked witch photo! | |||
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"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here. Whether we'd want to play with this guy is another matter but here he is being fairly eloquent in his views and at times being something of a peace maker which (and I'm guessing here) is not bad in a second language. He's new to swinging and given us a single guys view of clubs. Yes, the word 'entitled' probably wasn't best but see above. Seems like he's hoping to get lucky a number of times each time he goes. We've been followed round by a good many single guys and I never once thought they were thinking any different than this guy. It's why the majority are there for goodness sake. If you want single guys then really, let's not be deluded. If what we are saying is that you expect the single guys to show some respect and charm while they're getting some NSA well that's fair. But, given his success rate (which seems well above average) I'm guessing he's worked out how to do that? If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one? Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. Thanks God other neutral people on here
I have two bullet points though:
1) never used "entitled"
2) I do not follow couples
3) looking to the guys behaviour there, I am pretty sure we think in different ways
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.
Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.
I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex."Considering the distance I have to go to get to Chams, Dalaston, in comparison to the OP I should be expecting a full blown orgy every time I go!!!!! | |||
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"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.
Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.
I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.
Considering the distance I have to go to get to Chams, Dalaston, in comparison to the OP I should be expecting a full blown orgy every time I go!!!!! "I live so far away, I'd expect Chams to come to me. | |||
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"You do realise swingers clubs are not brothels right ? Your attitude towards having to pay and then expecting sex because of this are appalling. I don't think you understand swinging at all. It's a lifestyle not prostituion " | |||
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"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here. Whether we'd want to play with this guy is another matter but here he is being fairly eloquent in his views and at times being something of a peace maker which (and I'm guessing here) is not bad in a second language. He's new to swinging and given us a single guys view of clubs. Yes, the word 'entitled' probably wasn't best but see above. Seems like he's hoping to get lucky a number of times each time he goes. We've been followed round by a good many single guys and I never once thought they were thinking any different than this guy. It's why the majority are there for goodness sake. If you want single guys then really, let's not be deluded. If what we are saying is that you expect the single guys to show some respect and charm while they're getting some NSA well that's fair. But, given his success rate (which seems well above average) I'm guessing he's worked out how to do that? If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one? Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. " I've read through the whole thread so I could come back to your post and do this....... | |||
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"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here. Whether we'd want to play with this guy is another matter but here he is being fairly eloquent in his views and at times being something of a peace maker which (and I'm guessing here) is not bad in a second language. He's new to swinging and given us a single guys view of clubs. Yes, the word 'entitled' probably wasn't best but see above. Seems like he's hoping to get lucky a number of times each time he goes. We've been followed round by a good many single guys and I never once thought they were thinking any different than this guy. It's why the majority are there for goodness sake. If you want single guys then really, let's not be deluded. If what we are saying is that you expect the single guys to show some respect and charm while they're getting some NSA well that's fair. But, given his success rate (which seems well above average) I'm guessing he's worked out how to do that? If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one? Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. I've read through the whole thread so I could come back to your post and do this....... "Plus one | |||
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