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By *axim6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Horsham

I am interested in swinging with bi guy or couple. Had some meets with guys only. How do I go about getting the wife interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual replies to these messages are:

1. Talk to her....if you actually have a proper relationship it should be easy.

2. Show her your profile ....and duck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he means the wife of a couple rather than one of his own?

Let's not jump to conclusions for once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She prefers one on one. At least that's what she told me. Lovely girl.

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By *axim6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Horsham

It's my wife that I want to swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is, if you want your wife to swing, it's only her who can decide. She can't be made, or calouled into doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am interested in swinging with bi guy or couple. Had some meets with guys only. How do I go about getting the wife interested. "

You talk to her about it, and more importantly, you respect her decision whichever way it falls.

It's not rocket science.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Does she know your on fab OP ?......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my wife that I want to swing. "

Tin hat? Popcorn? Harlbros?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She prefers one on one. At least that's what she told me. Lovely girl. "

She told us different

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"It's my wife that I want to swing. "

In all honesty what you want doesn't come in to it - it's what your wife wants that counts. In our experience a reluctant partner being encouraged to swing is a disaster for all concerned.

Simply ask if she's ever been interested in the idea of swinging. If she says no, forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my wife that I want to swing. "

How do you know that she isn't? Because you're always honest with eachother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to your wife.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Being faithfull and honest, only two ways this will go. A happy swinging relationship is a trusting one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am interested in swinging with bi guy or couple. Had some meets with guys only. How do I go about getting the wife interested. "

You should gauge her interest before you join a swinger's site.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"The truth is, if you want your wife to swing, it's only her who can decide. She can't be made, or calouled into doing it."

I actually think that in some couples one of the partners is more willing than the other .... so there is always the underlying feeling that the person may be doing it to please the other or has been cajoled. Are every couple into it to exactly the same degree?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The truth is, if you want your wife to swing, it's only her who can decide. She can't be made, or calouled into doing it.

I actually think that in some couples one of the partners is more willing than the other .... so there is always the underlying feeling that the person may be doing it to please the other or has been cajoled. Are every couple into it to exactly the same degree?"

Couldn't agree more. We have had social meets and two "interesting" play meets with couples where its plain one of them really didn't want to do it and it isn't always the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being faithfull and honest, only two ways this will go. A happy swinging relationship is a trusting one..."

This ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I started to come on fab I went through details with my wife even took me while to convince her which to make sure there is no pressure on her. Eventually worked and that's why we are on here now and so far she loves it.

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