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By *errible_Two OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just been talking to Mr Two about squirting and guys obsession with it, nearly every meet we have been on the guy always try's to make me squirt straight off, no build up or anything and after a meet I'm that sore because of it we can't play.

My question is, what are other girls experience with this and the guys being rough in general with foreplay? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't squirt,and don't want to.anyone who goes hell for leather on my foofoo gets told to pack it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say 'ow' and push their hand off. They do apologise for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't squirt,and don't want to.anyone who goes hell for leather on my foofoo gets told to pack it in"

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just been talking to Mr Two about squirting and guys obsession with it, nearly every meet we have been on the guy always try's to make me squirt straight off, no build up or anything and after a meet I'm that sore because of it we can't play.

My question is, what are other girls experience with this and the guys being rough in general with foreplay? xx"

Tell them before you start that you don't want them to do it and if they try tell them again, if you feel the need to tell them a third time stop the meet. The answer to this really does lie with you mostly. If you don't say you don't like it how will he know?

Nobody we've met has tried this but if they did I would stop them.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Just been talking to Mr Two about squirting and guys obsession with it, nearly every meet we have been on the guy always try's to make me squirt straight off, no build up or anything and after a meet I'm that sore because of it we can't play.

My question is, what are other girls experience with this and the guys being rough in general with foreplay? xx

Tell them before you start that you don't want them to do it and if they try tell them again, if you feel the need to tell them a third time stop the meet. The answer to this really does lie with you mostly. If you don't say you don't like it how will he know?

Nobody we've met has tried this but if they did I would stop them."

+1 this is what I do. No way would I stand for guys ramming their fingers in, I let it happen once and never again! Luckily I can control squirting, so I just hold back deliberately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girl squit on me the first time I didn't mean to do it it just happened I remember thinking she pissing on me this is a little strange haha but it did turn me on but the second time but I think guys making it there goal is stupid to much pressure is off putting the more relaxed you are probably the more chance of it happening anyway but as long as you both cum and have good sex why it matters I don't know

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By *errible_Two OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks guys the ironic thing is the 2guys that haven't actually tried to make me Squirt were the 2 that have, I need to man up and tell them to back off, just wondered why guys even in cpls try to be porn stars on meets cos I'm sure they can't be like it with their wife's as they would be having sex once a week as she would be sore

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've not had a guy try this. It only seems to happen with my wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be firm but fair.

Just because you have agreed to meet doesn't mean that they have the right to do what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wished I knew how to squirt

Men seem obsessed with it but I've never experienced it and feel abit of a freak caus I can't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different. Some can take it rough and some want it gentle. Some can squirt after a few moments and some take much longer. I like to find out what is best for the person I'm with. I have no interest in doing something that isn't working for them. I always say right at the beginning to tell me if I'm being too rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont squirt/gush nor want to Only had to slow a few men down who kept trying and told them i dont .....thankfully they listened and were happy that I cum lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you letting them get to the stage of making you sore? It's your body, you must say no!

In my experience 'ramming' fingers in isn't the way to get me to squirt anyway. It takes someone who knows my buttons and knows the technique. For me it's all about position and finding that certain spot. No way does it happen by ramming fingers inside till it hurts!

I think you've probably been with men who have watched too much squirting in porn and think that to make a lady squirt is the ultimate goal. All it needs is communication, you should be in control and tell the guy what feels good and what is hurting, otherwise, in my opinion he's being disrespectful.

For me, there's nothing better than a lover taking their time to find what pleases me and if they're skilled enough to make me squirt, it's an absolute dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady squirts, great, if she doesn't, that's great too. It's certainly not an aim of mine. I'd rather we were all enjoying the meet and if it happens it happens. You're not going to be invited back if you make them sore that's for sure!

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"Why are you letting them get to the stage of making you sore? It's your body, you must say no!

In my experience 'ramming' fingers in isn't the way to get me to squirt anyway. It takes someone who knows my buttons and knows the technique. For me it's all about position and finding that certain spot. No way does it happen by ramming fingers inside till it hurts!

I think you've probably been with men who have watched too much squirting in porn and think that to make a lady squirt is the ultimate goal. All it needs is communication, you should be in control and tell the guy what feels good and what is hurting, otherwise, in my opinion he's being disrespectful.

For me, there's nothing better than a lover taking their time to find what pleases me and if they're skilled enough to make me squirt, it's an absolute dream. "

This is the key for me. I will be honest I do love it when a woman squirts but it's not the be all and end all. My aim is to pleasure the girl, thats what gives me pleasure and that in turn usually results in them wanting to pleasure me. Everyone wins.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

What most men don't realise is that every lady is different. And even an individual can vary in what works for her at different times. Squirting in itself should not be treated by men as the reason for a meet.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just been talking to Mr Two about squirting and guys obsession with it, nearly every meet we have been on the guy always try's to make me squirt straight off, no build up or anything and after a meet I'm that sore because of it we can't play.

My question is, what are other girls experience with this and the guys being rough in general with foreplay? xx"

We blame the people that put "How to make any woman squirt" videos on the internet just because they have found a way that works with one or two woman.

There is more than one way to skin a cat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just been talking to Mr Two about squirting and guys obsession with it, nearly every meet we have been on the guy always try's to make me squirt straight off, no build up or anything and after a meet I'm that sore because of it we can't play.

My question is, what are other girls experience with this and the guys being rough in general with foreplay? xx

We blame the people that put "How to make any woman squirt" videos on the internet just because they have found a way that works with one or two woman.

There is more than one way to skin a cat."

I don't know why I'm surprised that such videos exist but I am .

I do think that we must take responsibility for what we allow people to do to our bodies though, if a man is daft enough to believe a video he's seen on the net he's not going to have the sense to realise that it doesn't apply to all women unless someone tells him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have squirted a few times and although I like it relatively rough, I don't want my lady garden beaten to within an inch of her life to make it happen.

If it happens from being fingered relatively vigorously then all good, if they developed hands like a pneumatic drill I will tell them to stop.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"How to make any woman squirt". Why does this not surprise me. There is a 1974 song by Genesis about a poor chap who reads a book "guaranteed" to make him please his date in bed. It doesn't end well.

The fact is that women are individuals and every one likes subtly or even profoundly different stimuli. The only technique I have is to feel, observe and listen to the lady....try different things such as varying the pressure. Gosh sometimes I even ask how she likes her foreplay and sometimes a lady will be proactive and tell me. It's all about communication and about trying to give pleasure rather than seeing the squirting as the desired end result. God I love it when a woman squirts but it's not the end of the world if she doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a girl squit on me the first time I didn't mean to do it it just happened I remember thinking she pissing on me this is a little strange haha but it did turn me on but the second time but I think guys making it there goal is stupid to much pressure is off putting the more relaxed you are probably the more chance of it happening anyway but as long as you both cum and have good sex why it matters I don't know "
squit ,you from New York?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For me, there's nothing better than a lover taking their time to find what pleases me and if they're skilled enough to make me squirt, it's an absolute dream.

This is the key for me. I will be honest I do love it when a woman squirts but it's not the be all and end all. My aim is to pleasure the girl, thats what gives me pleasure and that in turn usually results in them wanting to pleasure me. Everyone wins."

We can totally agree with this and say that it only happens when she feels comfy and is excited by gently being touched ?

We never try for squirting it's just happens all the time as I love to be gentle and she loves it

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By *ree68Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Making a girl squirt is fairly straight forward once it's understood. It's sexy in the manner and circumstances. But it's not the be all... Can also be quite messy. But if a guy is hurting you or trying too hard.. He doesn't know what he's doing and you should politely slap him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys the ironic thing is the 2guys that haven't actually tried to make me Squirt were the 2 that have, I need to man up and tell them to back off, just wondered why guys even in cpls try to be porn stars on meets cos I'm sure they can't be like it with their wife's as they would be having sex once a week as she would be sore "

You do need to tell them that you don't want it that way xx I squirt / gush and have made women too but it doesn't need to be rough xxxxx

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By *omaso777Man
over a year ago

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By *lmost naked chefMan
over a year ago

porthmadog

I never had a woman squirt/gush until this year and I'm forty...I've now had two squirt and two gush now...very horny but I don't obsess over it....it's all about hitting the spot and not going at it like a Ron Jeremy wanna be I'm my experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wished I knew how to squirt

Men seem obsessed with it but I've never experienced it and feel abit of a freak caus I can't do it "

Course you're not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wished I knew how to squirt

Men seem obsessed with it but I've never experienced it and feel abit of a freak caus I can't do it "

It's a male obsession so don't be bothered that you can't. I didn't until I was 40!!!

I need it to be quite fast, hard and deep but that's just me! Had a guy almost fisting me in an attempt to make it happen!!! I put a stop to that. Doesn't always happen either.

One guy managed it during intercourse in so many positions, it was amazing

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By *ong cockMan
over a year ago

derby


"I had a girl squit on me the first time I didn't mean to do it it just happened I remember thinking she pissing on me this is a little strange haha but it did turn me on but the second time but I think guys making it there goal is stupid to much pressure is off putting the more relaxed you are probably the more chance of it happening anyway but as long as you both cum and have good sex why it matters I don't know "
how old was she

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