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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"

Instant sign that the guy/girl is a raving lunatic! Block that crazy bastard!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"

Even weirder when they put it on their status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to"

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a phone that they only use with people on here whats the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I thought I was being paranoid x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Could be a payg phone. Easy enough to change numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here! "

It does not just happen on here it happens in other places to and I do hate it as would rather get to know the person first before sharing personal details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a phone that they only use with people on here whats the problem?"

I can agree with what your saying but not everyone has a phone they can just use for this. I don't mind getting numbers but just after a while of chatting first. Not just getting a number in the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here!

It does not just happen on here it happens in other places to and I do hate it as would rather get to know the person first before sharing personal details."

It's never happened to me before and I get a fair bit of attention.

Maybe you attract the wrong kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here!

It does not just happen on here it happens in other places to and I do hate it as would rather get to know the person first before sharing personal details."

Its just a throw away number mate, no more personal than the profile you have created to be contacted by here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here!

It does not just happen on here it happens in other places to and I do hate it as would rather get to know the person first before sharing personal details.

It's never happened to me before and I get a fair bit of attention.

Maybe you attract the wrong kind of people "

That simply would not surprise me at all lol

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

ive seen a few profiles that insist on a phone number and a pic in the first message or its an instant delete

I would deduce that the sender is

1) a real player

2) keen to meet you

3) single unless a couple profile

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"
. I cannot see any harm in it. No one is compelled to phone anyone and anyone with common sense with keep a separate phone for fab or other sex contact sites .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to

You say you hate it like you regularly get women sending there numbers with first message!

Jesus, your an inspiration to all the single guys on here!

It does not just happen on here it happens in other places to and I do hate it as would rather get to know the person first before sharing personal details.

Its just a throw away number mate, no more personal than the profile you have created to be contacted by here"

I can agree with that but not everyone has that admittedly if I had a throw away number I would have no problem in handing it out but even then I would rather chat with person on here first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you get phone numbers from status or early message, especially the guys as you are born suckers just Google the std code to make sure it's not a premium rate line before you call it.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Completely agree I don't give my number out at all to fab meets even ones I've known years so to receive it in a first message I just think hmmmm probably not the best idea and for me it comes off as them being desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's wanting to cut to the chase no BS just phone chat meet ,he doesn't need to see the rest of your body above your ankles he wants you for who you are ,who are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its rare I give out my number but yes have received phone numbers in first message loads of times .....I never use them

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status! "

raving lunatic! Block that crazy bastard! ....fuk me we are the devils children..its a phone not a tele porter..back to facebook , next you will be telling me that you dont chat to people before a meet.. Connie x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Yes it's very weird I hate it who in there right mind would give their details to someone they have never spoke to. As you never know who you would be giving their number to"
. You might give out your number in order to have polite conversation . It is no different to any other aspect of life . If you advertise goods for sale you will always have to disclose a phone number . Anyone with common sense will keep a different number which is exclusive to arranging meets .

By exchanging numbers and chatting on the phone you have a much better chance of assessing if the member is genuine .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't get common sense. I don't have a different number for fab. I'm single and have no reason to keep it secret. I have only given my number to people I have built a rapport with and have deleted theirs when required with no issues. I have never and will never give anybody my address x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get common sense. I don't have a different number for fab. I'm single and have no reason to keep it secret. I have only given my number to people I have built a rapport with and have deleted theirs when required with no issues. I have never and will never give anybody my address x "
postcode then !

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status! "

Or in their profile

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status!

Or in their profile "

we use a pay as you go fab phone..how easy is that, we find it a good way to out dreames,, connie x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status! "

That's desperation taken to a new level....

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status!

That's desperation taken to a new level...."

So here is my number, here is my landline, here is my kik, and my fax number, and my email, and snapchat, and my twitter and instagram account!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"

yep but it often happens lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"

AHHHH!!! Desperation !!The new fragrance from FAB!

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We get a few ..... delete!!

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By *aul_the_nudistMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x

Even weirder when they put it on their status!

Or in their profile

we use a pay as you go fab phone..how easy is that, we find it a good way to out dreames,, connie x "

This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a bit weird to receive a phone number in the first message x"

Absolutely ! X

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

finding this all very strange ..so do you not chat on the phone before meeting ? ..we find it s out the dreamers..but hay we all use this site in many ways. some like to chat in the forums and never meet, some like to wank in the chstroom...each to their own..connie x

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