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By *ojo1964 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I will never understand some people, like tonight, I wrote to someone who joined FAB today. I explained my circumstances, as I'm a disabled person who is confined to a wheelchair, which I hastened to add has never stopped my doing anything.

Well the next thing I had a message saying I sounded really nice, so I wrote back saying thanks for the reply and usual chit chat nothing rude, next thing deleted message and blocked and I don't know why? I'm stumped.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't tell you for sure but it was probably because they weren't interested in meeting you so chose to block after they had responded. Some people do this as a matter of course and it really is nothing personal.

Onwards and upwards

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"I will never understand some people, like tonight, I wrote to someone who joined FAB today. I explained my circumstances, as I'm a disabled person who is confined to a wheelchair, which I hastened to add has never stopped my doing anything.

Well the next thing I had a message saying I sounded really nice, so I wrote back saying thanks for the reply and usual chit chat nothing rude, next thing deleted message and blocked and I don't know why? I'm stumped."

A million and 1 reasons. Forget about it and move on. Focus on those who are intrested.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why second guess it - she obviously wasn't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have been nice in what they said but not interested so to avoid further contact, hence the block.

You should be losing no sleep and giving zero fucks about it.

It's just some fabbers way of saying no thanks.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Join the club. Get that too. Not as if I am rude or abusive. Each to their own I suppose. Makes you wonder if manners and politeness pays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join the club. Get that too. Not as if I am rude or abusive. Each to their own I suppose. Makes you wonder if manners and politeness pays"

It's got nothing to do with manners or politeness. The sheer volume of mail some people receive means they can cherry pick the best......and discard the tripe

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By *ojo1964 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

At 51 I'm too wise to let things get to me, I know its a cruel world out there but some people I never understand.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"At 51 I'm too wise to let things get to me, I know its a cruel world out there but some people I never understand."

She joined the site today. I think it was nice of her to respond. This is fantasy...I will say no more!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We had someone send an unsolicited friend request then block us.

It takes all sorts to make a world so there is really no point wasting time questioning why.

Continue, have sex and be happy!!!

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By *assive45Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn't worry too much, I met a so called straight guy, after meeting they blocked me. next...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't worry too much, I met a so called straight guy, after meeting they blocked me. next..."

I think he caught the ghey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point asking why here as the only person who can answer your question is her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We encourage people we mail to block us if we are not their type . Just saves us contacting them again . Sorry to say but their are a lot of people who don't feel the need to respond. We always reply even if it's sorry you are not for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've just joined they're probably being bombarded with about 300 messages at that point and may have just gone through using the blocks nd delta but on and you got caught up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloke because I always get bothered again in a months time by same person. And I'm still not interested in them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block because I always get bothered again in a months time by same person. And I'm still not interested in them!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Although a block is personal - it's not, it's like a quick 'no thanks' message button. Concentrate on those who do want to meet you.

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